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A complete guide to 8-9 month old babies
Sitting up independently, baby food, vaccinations
"The baby next to me can already sit up, but I wonder if my child will be okay..."
"Am I doing the right thing for my beloved child?"
If you are a mother with an 8-9 month old baby,
It's an anxiety that everyone feels at some point.
For babies at this stage, every day is a series of miracles.
What you couldn't do yesterday suddenly becomes possible today,
On the other hand, your baby may suddenly start disliking solid food after previously doing well...
"I want to do more for this child."
"But is this really okay?"
I wanted to empathize with the loving feelings of such mothers,
I created this guide.
With experience watching the growth of over 3,000 babies,
・The reason your dog can't sit isn't because of a lack of love, but because of its personality.
・Finger stains are evidence of rapid brain growth
・The return of nighttime crying is a sign that your baby's attachment to you is deepening.
We will bring you some discoveries that will make you say, ``Aha!''
The important thing is not perfect parenting,
Cherish your child's individuality.
By the time you finish reading this guide,
The sense of relief that "I wasn't wrong in my parenting"
With a kind heart, "Let's do our best together tomorrow too"
It will be fulfilling.
Criteria for determining when weight gain has stopped
Growth curve and developmental balance for 8-9 months old
"I haven't gained any weight recently..."
"I can't sleep because I'm worried that my child has fallen below the growth curve."
I really understand how mothers feel when they get excited or depressed depending on the number on the scale.
However, the truth is that weight gain slows down between 8 and 9 months of age .
Unlike newborn babies who just sleep, babies at this stage
They will become more active by sitting and crawling.
The calorie consumption increases dramatically
It's natural for weight gain to slow down.
The important thing is to look at "overall development" rather than just weight.
Here are some signs that you might be okay with not gaining weight:
Good mood and laughs a lot
It's a sign that they are healthy and active.
Eating baby food happily
Having an appetite is a sign of good health, so prioritize quality over quantity.
Height is steadily increasing
As long as your height hasn't stopped growing, there's no problem.
"But he's obviously smaller than the other kids..."
There may be some concerns about that.
However, your baby's body shape is genetically determined .
If mom or dad is slim, the baby will also tend to be slim.
Also, during this period, many children spend their energy on "vertical growth,"
There may be a rapid increase in height but a slower increase in weight.
What's important is not the numbers, but the child's growth in a way that suits them.
If you're really worried, talk to your pediatrician.
I'm sure they'll say, "Everything is going well."
"Don't get distracted by numbers, focus on your healthy child."
Babies who smile every day are
It's a sign that they are growing in the healthiest way possible.
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If you would like to discuss your developmental concerns, please see here.
When developmental delay is detected during a health check
Home developmental strategies for the first 8-9 months after birth
"You're still sitting unsteadily. Let's keep an eye on it."
To the mom whose mind went blank after hearing the teacher's words.
I understand that feeling of anxiety all too well.
However, "let's wait and see" does not mean "abnormal."
In many cases, babies develop at their own individual pace .
Most of the time it's a slow but steady growth.
In fact, about 80% of babies who were placed under "observation" at their 8-9 month checkup,
There is also data that shows that children catch up to the standard range by the age of one.
Gentle developmental support you can provide at home:
Talk a lot
"You're practicing sitting now." "You did a great job."
Talk to them as if you were giving a live broadcast.
Spend more time playing together
Peek-a-boo, finger games, and reading picture books.
Having fun promotes brain development.
Don't force them
If your child doesn't like it, stop. The most important thing is to build up fun experiences.
"But I'm worried about this child's future."
It is only a loving mother who feels such anxiety.
However, early or late development has no bearing on future abilities .
Children who are slow and go at their own pace actually have good observation skills,
They tend to be cautious and thoughtful in nature.
Also, consider collaborating with specialist agencies if necessary.
"Developmental support through play" by physical therapists and speech-language-hearing therapists is
It's often a fun time for the baby.
The most important thing is to "trust the child's pace."
Under the care of a mother who raises them with love every day,
Your baby will definitely grow into his or her own child.
"My child is walking slowly but surely"
Please watch over us with such warm eyes.
Measures to prevent falls before standing up
A safe environment to foster the curiosity of 8-month-olds
"He'll soon be able to stand up, and I'm worried he might fall..."
How much protection should I take against dangerous areas in my home?
Safety measures for babies who become extremely active from around 8 months old
It's really a dilemma.
However, the important thing is not to "completely eliminate the risk," but to
It's about letting them try things within a safe range .
Falls and minor bumps are actually important learning experiences for babies.
By experiencing pain and danger, children develop the ability to protect themselves .
Eliminate life-threatening dangers:
Corner guards for table corners
Be sure to cover hard corners that can be dangerous if you hit your head on them.
Baby gate in front of the stairs
Falling accidents must be prevented at all costs.
Don't put small items on the floor
Keep dangerous items that can be ingested out of reach.
Minor falls are seen as an opportunity for growth:
I almost fell off the sofa,
Falling backwards while sitting
It's an important experience to hone your sense of balance .
Of course, I immediately rushed over to check on safety.
But it's not "it's dangerous so it's not allowed,"
"It hurt, but you were trying to balance well."
Let's acknowledge the challenge.
Tips for creating a good environment:
Try creating a "safe adventure area" in a corner of your living room.
Place a cushion to create a low step,
Arrange safe furniture that children can hold onto and stand up.
This will make your baby feel safe
You can try new movements.
By letting them experience "safe failure,"
Raise children to be able to protect themselves from real danger
Because I'm a loving mother,
Please nurture your baby's spirit of adventure.
An ideal day
8-9 months old: Baby and mom's pace-focused childcare
What is another mom's day like?
"Is this the right way to raise my children?"
You may feel anxious when comparing your family to other families you see on social media.
But the truth is, there are as many "ideal days" as there are moms and babies .
The important thing is to choose a plan that suits your child's personality and your lifestyle.
It's about finding a rhythm that suits our home .
8-9 months old baby's basic rhythm:
Sleep : 10-12 hours at night + 2-3 naps
Breastfeeding/weaning food : 3 meals + 3-5 breastfeedings
Play/activity : 1.5-3 hours of waking time
Using this as a base, you can adjust it to suit your schedule.
For working moms:
Cherish your morning time.
Even just 30 minutes before going to nursery school,
Make time to slowly spend time with your baby.
After returning home, prioritize physical contact over housework.
Start with a hug and say "I'm home" instead of "Thank you for your hard work ."
For stay-at-home moms:
Because we're together all day,
Please also value your "mom's break time."
While the baby is taking a nap,
Rather than working hard on housework, mom can take a break too.
This is also a part of good parenting.
Tips for a less perfect day:
Find three things you accomplished today
"He finished all his baby food," "We laughed together," "He gave me a bath."
Acknowledge what you've accomplished, even if it's something small.
Of course there will be days when things don't go as planned
Change flexibly according to your baby's mood and physical condition.
The fact that this is possible is proof of a mother's love.
The most important thing is for mom to smile .
A day where mom can spend peacefully is better than a perfect day.
It's much better for the baby.
"I got to spend today with my child. That's enough for me."
With that feeling, from tomorrow onwards
Please continue raising your child in your own way.
Thank you for your hard work. You must be a wonderful mom.
To my loving mom
Thank you for reading this far.
During the special period of 8 to 9 months after birth,
You are walking with your child,
You are truly an amazing mom.
It's okay if it's not perfect.
It's okay to feel anxious sometimes.
Children who are raised with lots of love,
I'm sure that your child will grow up beautifully, just like them.
We hope this guide will be of some help to you in raising your children.
Today is surely a special day.
Please share lots of love with your child.
Measures to prevent accidental ingestion by babies
Desire for exploration from 8 months and creating a safe environment
"He puts everything in his mouth, so I can't take my eyes off him..."
"I'm afraid if I take my eyes off him for a second he might swallow something small."
Babies start to become active around 8 months old,
Many mothers spend their days in fear.
However, in fact, "putting everything in your mouth" is a normal developmental behavior for babies .
The mouth is the most sensitive sensory organ for babies.
The brain learns by checking the shape and texture of objects with the tongue and lips .
In other words, rather than completely stopping the act of putting food in your mouth,
It is important to create a safe environment for exploration .
Tips for preventing accidental ingestion from 8 months:
"Toilet paper roll" test
Anything under 3.2cm in diameter can be ingested, so check regularly.
Thorough management of the baby's area
Check the floor daily for small pieces of trash, buttons, coins, etc.
Beware of siblings' toys
Store Lego and beads with small parts in a high place.
"But it's tiring to keep watch all the time..."
In such cases, try creating a "safe zone."
By using a playpen and play mat,
Ensure a completely safe space.
Let them explore freely within it.
Also, please provide toys that are safe for babies to put in their mouths.
It is also effective to prepare a lot of them.
Large silicone toys,
A wooden teether is recommended.
"Rather than completely eliminating danger, it's better to coexist with it."
This is how you can develop your baby's curiosity while
The best way to stay safe.
I hope to help my child grow up with a strong desire to explore.
Please keep an eye on them and be safe.
Care for the first tooth
9-month-old baby's first tooth brushing and oral care
"I can see those little white teeth! But how do I take care of them?"
"My child hated the toothbrush and started crying loudly..."
A baby's first tooth is a great joy for a mother as she grows up.
But at the same time, it brings new concerns.
In fact, the timing of tooth eruption varies by more than three months from person to person .
The earliest babies develop is around 5 months, the latest around 10 months. Both are normal.
And when teeth start to grow, babies start to feel itchy .
This is why they may drool more and want to nibble on everything.
How to help your baby with teething pain:
Use a chilled teether
Let your child massage their gums with a teething ring that has been chilled in the refrigerator.
Gently massage with clean fingers
Wrap gauze around your finger and gently massage your gums.
Wipe away drool frequently
If left unattended, it can cause a rash, so wipe it gently.
When should I start brushing my teeth?
First, start by getting used to it .
When the first tooth appears, use a damp gauze
A gentle wipe of your teeth is sufficient.
Your child can start using a toothbrush once they have two or three teeth.
Gently brush once with a soft baby brush.
The most important thing is not to force it when they don't want to .
First, show your child how happy his mother is brushing her teeth.
Make brushing your teeth fun.
It is also effective to do this as a game while singing songs.
When it comes to preventing cavities, you don't have to aim for perfection right away .
During this time, brushing your teeth is a top priority.
Gradually, let your baby get used to it at his own pace.
You will definitely be able to do it well.
Take good care of your little teeth
With such loving feelings,
Enjoy your tooth brushing time.
It's natural to feel anxious about your 8-month-old baby not being able to sit up.
The truth about development: 20% of children master it by 10 months
"All the other children of the same age at the support center can sit up..."
Mom is filled with such anxiety.
It's okay. You're not doing anything wrong.
Did you know that the time it takes for a baby to learn to sit can vary by up to four months ?
Fast babies are 6 months old, average babies are 8 months old, and slow babies are 10 months old.
All are within the normal range.
Why is there such a big difference?
This is because the rate at which the muscles needed for sitting develop is
Because every baby is different.
Children with strong back muscles can sit up quickly,
Children whose arm and leg muscles develop first are good at crawling.
Both have great personalities.
Your child is developing at their own pace.
I can really understand the mother's feelings of "But I want to do something."
Would you like this kind of support within your means?
Strengthen your back muscles by playing face down for 5 minutes every day .
Place a toy in front of your baby and practice lifting your head.
Experience sitting on mommy's lap .
While lightly supporting your back, help your child get used to the feeling of sitting.
The most important thing is to "trust the child's pace."
Children who are slow to sit tend to be more careful and observant.
This may be a sign of your admirable character, that you only act when you are fully prepared.
"My child is growing slowly but surely"
Watching over them in that way,
It's the best love for your child.
8 months after giving birth: Mom's limit signs
How to care for your mind and body to overcome peak childcare fatigue
"Recently, I've been getting irritated over little things and hating myself..."
"I love my baby, but I'm exhausted."
The mother blames herself for this.
I really understand how you feel.
In fact, the eight months after giving birth is the time when a mother's mind is most likely to become exhausted .
The excitement and tension of the newborn period subsides,
This is the time when you begin to understand the reality of how difficult child-rearing is.
In addition, the "happiness hormones" secreted during breastfeeding also begin to decrease.
It's easy for your mind to become unbalanced.
"I wonder if I'm a bad mom because I'm so frustrated..."
Don't think that way.
It's proof that you're serious about raising your child .
Moms who take shortcuts don't have to worry about this.
Because we love your child dearly,
I want to be a better mom.
However, it's no good if mom is too tired.
Even if it's just 15 minutes a day, make time for yourself.
Take a deep breath in the bath,
Listen to your favorite music,
I just sit there daydreaming while drinking hot tea.
Such small moments help me regain my composure.
It's also important to have the mindset that it's okay if things aren't perfect.
Even if the baby food isn't homemade,
Even if the room is a little messy,
Your child will feel the love of their mother.
From "Mom who is trying too hard"
"Mom who always smiles"
It's much more fun for the baby.
It's tough times now, but things will definitely get easier.
Take care of yourself and take it one step at a time.
Why finger-feeding your baby makes the room dirty
Evidence that babies' brains are growing rapidly
"He messed up the baby food I had worked so hard to prepare with his hands and threw it on the floor..."
"I feel like I'm at my wit's end. I just want them to eat properly."
I really understand how you feel.
But in fact, there is a wonderful secret hidden behind this ``troublesome behavior.''
Babies eat with their hands,
This is proof that the brain's "learning center" is working at full capacity .
The palms of your hands contain a large concentration of nerves that connect to your brain.
By feeling the temperature, softness, and weight of food with your hands,
Your brain is desperately learning to understand "this world."
"But I'm worried about whether he's getting enough nutrition..."
I understand the anxiety of such mothers all too well.
In fact, when your child is starting to eat with their hands, it's okay to prioritize learning over nutrition .
During this time, approximately 70% of your baby's nutrition still comes from breast milk or formula.
Rather, what is important is
To help children learn the joy of eating by themselves.
Here are some ways to reduce contamination:
Double-layered with newspaper and a picnic sheet ,
Reduces cleaning time.
Serve bite-sized portions of food in small portions,
Control the amount of clutter.
A baby apron prevents clothes from getting dirty.
The most important thing is the mother's attitude.
It's not "polluting" but "learning"
Please look at it that way.
After three months, you'll be amazed at how well you'll do it.
It's now able to eat by itself.
The cute "messy hands" stage is now
It's a truly precious moment of growth.
"At this child's own pace,
I'm studying hard."
Please watch over them with such warm feelings.
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💡Please see here for measures to prevent accidental ingestion
For moms who are worried about forgetting to get vaccinated
BCG and IVF vaccination schedule management for 8-month-old babies
"Huh? I wonder when my vaccination was..."
"Maybe I missed the vaccination period?"
It must be really difficult to manage vaccination schedules when you're busy raising children every day.
But don't worry.
A slight difference in timing is no problem at all .
In fact, there is a "standard time" and a "period in which vaccinations can be administered."
It's actually a lot more flexible than many moms realize.
Major vaccinations for babies aged 8 months:
BCG vaccination : 5 to 8 months old (publicly funded)
If your child is over 8 months old but under 1 year old, they can receive the vaccine at their own expense.
Four-way combination vaccine : 2nd and 3rd doses given at least 20 days after the first dose
A short delay will not have a significant impact on the immune system.
"But if we delay it, won't we develop immunity?"
Some mothers worry about this,
A delay of a few weeks is not considered medically problematic .
What's more important is to vaccinate your baby when he or she is in perfect health.
Rather than forcing yourself to get vaccinated when you have a cold or fever,
It's much safer to wait until you're feeling better.
Vaccination management tips:
Place a sticker in the vaccination section of your maternal and child health handbook
It is visually easy to understand, so you can check your vaccination status at a glance.
Register your next appointment on your smartphone calendar
With the notification function, you won't have to worry about forgetting.
Consult with your family doctor
If you are unsure, please do not hesitate to consult your pediatrician.
The most important thing is not to strive for perfection .
It's natural that parenting doesn't go as planned.
Even though the schedule is a little off, they are raised with lots of love
Your child will surely grow up healthy.
"Protect your baby as much as you can"
With that in mind, let's move forward at a comfortable pace.
The real reason for the resurgence of night crying
Sleep regression at 8 months is a sign of brain development
"He finally started sleeping through the night, but now he's waking up again..."
"I wonder if my sleeping technique was bad?"
If you're a mom blaming yourself like that, hold on a moment.
In fact, the recurrence of night crying around 8 months of age is called "sleep regression."
It's a sign that your baby's brain is developing rapidly .
Amazing changes are happening in your baby's brain during this time.
Rapid memory development allows for the recollection of stimulating daytime experiences.
Your brain wakes you up in the middle of the night trying to sort things out.
In addition, the baby's ability to feel anxiety when his mother is not around also develops.
When I wake up in the middle of the night, I cry and ask, "Where's Mommy?"
This is by no means a sign of degeneration, but rather a wonderful sign of developing intelligence .
But it's really hard on moms when they don't get enough sleep.
Here are some effective solutions:
Moderate daytime stimulation
Experience new places and people in moderation, and avoid overstimulation.
Strengthening your bedtime routine
Keep the same routine every day: bath → massage → picture book → breastfeeding.
Minimal response during the night
Don't turn on the bright lights and reassure them in a low voice, "It's okay."
The most important thing is to understand that this is temporary .
Most babies settle down within 2-4 weeks.
When you wake up multiple times in the middle of the night and feel like you've reached your limit,
Remember, "This child's brain is working hard to grow."
It is also important to get help from your husband or family and make time to rest a little during the day.
"Now is the time to persevere, but the end will surely come."
With that hope in mind, let us overcome this testament to growth.
Why shyness becomes more severe
9 months is evidence of a baby's growing attachment to mom
"He bursts into tears just from being held by his grandparents..."
"Even at the support center, I would cry when other mothers approached me."
When you become extremely shy, it can be depressing to even go out.
But in fact, shyness is evidence that a baby's intelligence is developing normally .
There's a very endearing reason for shyness, especially at around 9 months of age.
"I've learned to see the difference between my mom and other people."
This is the true nature of shyness.
When a baby is born, it doesn't matter who holds it, but
Now I understand that my mom is special.
This is evidence that the baby is developing a deep attachment to the mother .
"I feel safe with this person" "I don't know this person"
The fact that we are now able to make such decisions means that
It is a sign of excellent cognitive development.
"But I felt bad for my grandparents because they looked so sad."
I can understand how you feel.
Tips for getting through the shy phase:
Don't try to force them to get used to it
The most important thing is to respect your baby's pace.
The peace of mind of knowing mom is nearby
Even when someone else is holding them, they will feel safe knowing that they can see their mother.
From a short time to a little at a time
It's fine if you gradually get used to it for 5 or 10 minutes.
The grandparents said, "This is proof that my child cares for his mother."
Please explain it to me.
I'm sure they will understand.
Children's shyness usually subsides around the age of 1 to 18 months.
"Right now is my favorite time in the world"
To have such special affection,
In fact, it may be a very happy thing.
Please cherish this precious time.