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Complete guide to caring for a newborn baby
What new moms need to know
Breastfeeding, milk, diaper change, sleep
"I wonder if this child is growing up properly..."
"I wonder if this is the right way to take care of me..."
In front of a newborn baby
To the moms who feel that way.
Your love is definitely reaching your baby.
But with the right knowledge,
Be more confident,
Feel more at ease,
There is something you can do for this precious baby .
・My weight is increasing by 30g a day...is this normal?
・My baby cries every hour, is there enough breast milk?
-Everyone says different things about bathing temperature, but what temperature is best?
-I change diapers 15 times a day, is that too much?
Over the past 30 years, I have looked after over 3,000 babies and mothers.
From the midwife's experience:
We'll give you loving answers to these questions.
By the time you finish reading this guide,
"Well, this is what I should do for this child."
You will be enveloped in a warm sense of certainty.
Add the right knowledge to your love,
Create a safe and secure environment for your baby to grow up every day.
Basic knowledge of the newborn period (0-1 month)
Weight gain of 30g/day - How to identify and relieve anxiety
"Is this child growing up properly?"
Signs of baby's growth revealed by weight changes
"You seem heavier than yesterday, is that okay?"
"What if it gets lighter instead?"
I'm worried about my baby's weight
I'm sure there are many mothers who hold their babies and check on them many times every day.
In fact, the weight of a newborn baby
"I want you to know this because you're a loving mother."
There is an important pattern.
First, it is natural for babies to lose weight during the first 3-5 days after birth.
You may be surprised and ask, "What? It actually decreases?"
This is called "physiological weight loss"
It's an important process for babies to adapt to the outside world .
The baby floating in amniotic fluid in the womb,
This is evidence that they are preparing to become "full-fledged individuals" in the outside world.
A 3-10% reduction in birth weight
Think of it as a sign that your child is working hard and growing .
And after a week,
The magical transformation begins.
Your weight will steadily increase by 25-30g per day .
You may be wondering, "30g is so much?"
This is evidence of the incredible development of your baby's brain and body .
This is because a newborn's brain grows by about 2g per day.
This is because muscles, bones, and internal organs all develop at a rapid pace.
If adults grow at the same rate,
This will result in a weight gain of 2-3 kg per day.
In other words, for a baby, an increase of 30g per day is a ``miracle of growth.''
But as a mom, what worries me most is
The question is, "Is it okay for my child?"
[Checkpoints for a loving mother]
Measure at the same time every day (preferably before breastfeeding) under the same conditions.
Don't get too excited or upset about fluctuations over the course of one or two days, but look at the flow of the week.
Not just numbers, but also baby's facial expressions, breastfeeding,
The frequency of urination and defecation is also taken into consideration.
And most importantly,
"This child is receiving lots of love from me and is growing up well."
We watch over them with a warm feeling.
If you’re worried,
As proof that they are being raised with love,
Please feel free to consult your pediatrician.
With your love and proper knowledge,
Your baby will definitely grow up healthy.
[The Truth About Breastfeeding] A Midwife Explains the Myth of Every 3 Hours
It's okay to breastfeed every hour - your baby will tell you the best time
"Isn't there enough breast milk?"
Peace of mind knowing you can feed your baby as much as they want
"I just breastfed him, and now he's crying again..."
"If I feed every hour, maybe I don't have enough breast milk..."
To moms who have such concerns,
First of all, there's something I want to tell you.
Breastfeeding every hour is a sign of a loving mother.
Because when a baby says, "Mommy, I'm hungry,"
Because she is so honest and dependent on me.
And you listen to that voice
Because they respond with lots of love.
[The truth behind the myth that every three hours is a mystery]
The "every three hours breastfeeding" rule that is written in many childcare books is
In fact, it is a guideline based on formula feeding .
Milk takes time to digest, so there should be an interval of about three hours between feedings.
But breast milk is different.
Breast milk is easy to digest, like "love soup,"
It is emptied from the stomach within 1-2 hours.
In other words, crying "I'm hungry" every hour
"Mom's breast milk is delicious and easy to digest."
That is the best compliment.
[Frequent breastfeeding is a way for babies to show their love]
And there is another reason for frequent breastfeeding:
It has a wonderful meaning.
Babies frequently seek breast milk,
Mom's body is trying to make more breast milk for her baby.
It will respond with:
In other words, breastfeeding every hour
My baby said, "Mommy, please make more delicious breast milk for me."
It's like they're asking you to do so.
[Checking for breast milk supply and affection]
If you still worry, "Is it really enough?"
Check out these signs your baby might be giving you that they're okay:
Urinating more than six times a day
→ Evidence that the baby is getting enough fluids (breast milk)
Pooping more than three times a day
→ Proof that you are getting enough nutrition
Hearing gulping sounds while breastfeeding
→ Evidence that breast milk is coming in well
A satisfied look on your face after breastfeeding
→ "Thank you, Mom" sign
Weight gain every week
→ The best evidence of growth
[Balance of affection during mixed feeding]
If you add milk,
Cherish the love of "breast milk first."
First, breast milk, full of mother's love.
And if the baby still isn't enough,
Supplement with milk made with love.
For newborns, start with 20-40ml at a time.
Don't miss your baby's signs that they've had enough.
[Breastfeeding problems are proof of love]
My nipples hurt, my baby doesn't suck properly...
Even when that happens, don't blame yourself.
This is "I want to get better for this child."
This is an expression of a loving mother's feelings.
Adjust the way you hold your baby, deepen your suction,
Talk to your midwife...
It's all about "I want to give this baby the best breastfeeding experience possible"
It is an act born out of love.
Finally, I have something I would like to say to all mothers.
Breast milk, formula, or a combination
It's all an expression of love.
It's not the method that matters,
"I want to give this child nutrition and love."
It's your warm feeling.
Bathing temperature 38 degrees vs 40 degrees - baby's comfort
Seasonal settings and bathing tips to prevent crying: complete guide
From "Is this temperature okay?"
Reassurance that "baby seems comfortable"
"Different parenting books recommend different temperatures..."
"I wonder if this temperature is putting a strain on the baby..."
For moms who are unsure about the temperature of their baby's bath,
We will give you a loving answer.
First of all, it's important to
"I want to keep the temperature at the most comfortable level for my baby."
This is your loving feeling.
If you have that mindset, you will definitely be able to choose the right temperature.
[Baby's most comfortable temperature: 38-39 degrees]
To put it in conclusion,
The most comfortable temperature for a baby is 38-39°C .
Why is that?
The baby is 10 months old
Inside my mother's womb, I was surrounded by a warm environment of about 37 degrees.
Therefore, hot water at 38-39 degrees Celsius, which is close to body temperature,
"The sense of security I felt when I was in my mother's womb"
It reminds me of...
Also, newborns' skin is very thin and sensitive.
For adults, water over 40 degrees is just right.
It may be a little too stimulating for babies.
"I want to take good care of this child's skin."
For this reason, a temperature of 38-39 degrees is recommended.
[Seasonal: Setting the temperature of love for your baby]
But is it okay to keep the temperature the same all year round?
In fact, by adjusting it according to the season,
This will make your baby more comfortable .
Summer (June-September): 37-38°C
→ In hot weather, keep it a little lower for a cooler feel
→ "It's so hot and tiring, I'll make you feel better."
Winter (December to March): 38-39 degrees
→ Keep warm during the cold season
→ "It's cold, so please keep warm and don't catch a cold."
Spring/Autumn (April-May, October-November): 38 degrees
→ Standard temperature during comfortable seasons
→ "It's a lovely season, let's enjoy it together."
[Accurate temperature measurement: for babies]
You may have heard that "Just check it on your wrist."
For your precious baby, go the extra mile.
Use a water thermometer
→ Accurate temperature measurement without error
→ "Let's measure properly for this child."
Wrist check is an auxiliary
→ "Feeling a little warm" is the standard for 38-39 degrees.
→ Double check with a water thermometer
[Loving bathing techniques to keep your baby from crying]
Even when set to the correct temperature,
Your baby may cry.
If so, try these affectionate techniques:
Gradual temperature acclimation
→ Gradually put your feet into the water
→ "Slow down so you don't get startled."
Plenty of encouragement
→ "Let's wash our faces now" "Feels good"
→ Mom's voice makes babies feel safe
A gentle gaze
→ Look into their eyes and gaze lovingly
→ With the message "It's okay, Mommy's here for you"
[Love points when using 40 degrees]
If you use 40 degrees for infection prevention,
Shorten bath time (to within 5 minutes)
Keep an eye on your baby more closely.
"It's a little hot, but I'll protect you from germs."
With that feeling, I am filled with love.
In conclusion, if we were to settle the temperature debate with love,
"The base temperature is 38-39 degrees, which is the most comfortable temperature for babies.
Fine-tune with love according to the season and the situation."
This is the most practical and loving way to do it.
It's not the temperature number that's important,
"I want this child to feel comfortable."
It's your warm feeling.
Change your baby's diaper 15 times a day to keep them comfortable
Measures for boys' pee and efficient changing techniques
"Is it okay to change this much?"
The love of wanting to keep them clean
"Again? I just changed it a while ago..."
"I wonder if 15 times a day is too much..."
To moms who are surprised at how many times they have to change diapers,
First, I have something to tell you.
Changing diapers 15 times a day
It's a great sign that your baby is growing healthy.
And you, who notice this and try to clean it up,
She is a wonderful and loving mother .
Why do newborns get so many dirty diapers?
The reason why newborn babies soil their diapers so frequently is
There is a good reason for this.
The bladder is still small
→ A newborn's bladder is about one-tenth the size of an adult's.
→ It's natural to urinate little by little and frequently
Your kidneys are working hard
→ Evidence that your body is working hard to expel waste products
→ Signs that "your child's body is functioning normally"
Drinking breast milk or formula regularly
→ Because they are getting enough nutrition, their excretion is active.
→ Evidence that "loving breastfeeding is successful"
In other words, frequent diaper changes
This is the happy news that the baby is growing well .
[15 times a day is the number of times you show affection]
Instead of thinking of changing diapers as a "hard task,"
"Time for loving communication with your baby"
Try to think of it as this.
When changing diapers,
"That was disgusting, I'll clean it up for you."
"You feel refreshed, that's good."
By saying such kind words,
The baby says, "Mommy takes good care of me"
That's how I feel.
[Must-see for moms of boys: loving techniques to prevent peeing]
A mother of a boy said, "The moment I opened the diaper, pee came out..."
I often hear people say this.
This is a phenomenon specific to boys.
It's not a lack of skill on the part of the mother.
Reacts to cold air
→ When you open the diaper, the cold air hits the baby and he pees reflexively.
It is a natural physiological phenomenon
Love management techniques
Before opening the diaper, say, "I'm opening it."
→ Help your baby prepare mentally
Open the diaper slightly and wait 5 seconds
→ Urinating often occurs during this time.
Prepare new diapers and towels before opening
→ Have the confidence that "it'll be okay even if something goes wrong"
"I was surprised, but it's okay," she said with a smile.
→ Mom's smile makes baby feel safe
[Efficient exchange techniques - Baby first and time-saving]
There are some tips to reduce the burden on mothers while still showing love.
Get ready and open it
→ Keep fresh diapers, wipes and cream within easy reach
→ Consideration: "Don't keep this child waiting"
Installation of switchboard
→ Reduces strain on mom's lower back
→ "Take care of your body so you can show love for a long time"
Nighttime features
→ Small light for a not too bright environment
→ "Don't disturb your baby's sleep"
[Preventing diaper rash ~ Loving care to protect your skin]
One concern with frequent diaper changes is diaper rash.
But with proper care, you can protect your baby's precious skin.
Gently wipe off
→ Don't rub, press
→ "Be gentle so it doesn't hurt."
Allow to dry completely and then put on a new diaper
→ Allow it to dry for a while
→ "Don't rush, go at this child's pace"
Use of protective cream
→ Apply a small amount to create a barrier on your skin
→ "I want to protect this child's skin"
[Number of times and color of poop - loving points to check health]
Changing diapers is a way to check your baby's health
It's also an important time.
Number of poops in newborn period
→ 3-8 times a day is normal
→ "Let's learn this child's pace"
Color change
→ Gradually changes from black meconium to yellowish
→ Evidence that "this child is adapting to the outside world"
If you are concerned, record it.
→ Easily record the number of times and the color
→ "I want to get a proper grasp of my child's health condition."
Finally, I have something to say to all moms.
Changing diapers is not "caring" but "expressing affection."
15 times a day, each time
"I want to keep this child clean."
"We want you to feel comfortable."
If you think so,
She's the best mom in the world .
Even if you get tired of doing it so many times,
That's because she's a loving mother.
Your baby feels your love and affection.
Newborns sleep 15-18 hours a day - when will their reversal of day and night be cured?
How to create a natural rhythm for your baby and support their sleep
"I've been up all night..."
A guide to loving your child's sound sleep
"He won't sleep at night, but he sleeps soundly during the day..."
"When will you be able to sleep at night?"
For moms who are confused about their newborn's sleep patterns,
First, there is something I would like you to know.
Reversing day and night is a message from your baby.
"Mom, I'm still getting used to the outside world."
It's a lovely stage of growth.
The miracle of 15-18 hours of sleep for newborns
You may be worried, "Is it okay to sleep this much?"
There is a deep meaning behind the long sleep of newborns.
Rapid brain development
→ Your brain grows by 2g per day while you sleep
→ "This child is getting smarter" time
The body's secretion of growth hormone
→ Height and weight increase while sleeping
→ Proof that "this child is growing up quickly"
Organizing and consolidating memories
→ They remember their mother's voice, smell, and warmth
→ Time to "engrave memories of love in your heart"
In other words, babies sleep for long periods of time,
"They receive lots of love and develop their minds and bodies."
It's a wonderful time.
[When will the reversed day and night cycle be cured? Love Timeline]
Many mothers are wondering, "When will it get better?"
There are individual differences in the development of babies.
With loving care, it will improve naturally.
1 month old
→ Still in the rhythm inside my stomach
→ Understand that "You miss your mommy's belly."
2-3 months old
→ Gradually get used to the rhythm of the outside world
→ "Little by little, I'm getting used to this world."
3-4 months old
→ You will sleep longer at night
→ "You're starting to get into the same rhythm as Mommy."
The important thing is to have confidence that you will recover someday.
And, "respect the child's pace."
[Creating a day and night rhythm: A natural habit guided by love]
There are ways to gently guide your baby's internal clock.
Don't force it, just do it little by little with love.
Feel the morning light
→ Open the curtains around 7-8am to let in natural light
→ "Good morning, it's the start of a new day"
Dark and quiet at night
→ Turn down the lights and speak softly
→ "It's night, so let's get some rest."
Normal everyday sounds during the day
→ I don't mind the noise of the vacuum cleaner or washing machine
→ "Daytime is the time for activity."
Nighttime feedings should be done with minimal light
→ Use indirect lighting or small lights
→ "The night continues, don't worry."
[Affectionate techniques to help your baby sleep well]
So that your baby can sleep soundly,
There is a lot of loving support that moms can provide.
Suitable room temperature
→ 26-28 degrees in summer, 20-22 degrees in winter
→ "Let's set the temperature so that this child can sleep comfortably."
Humidity control
→ Maintain around 50-60%
→ "To prevent dryness and a sore throat"
Reliable bedding
→ Clean and soft sheets
→ "I want to create a comfortable sleeping environment."
Something that smells like mom
→ Keep the clothes your mom wore close by
→ "Feeling safe like having mommy nearby"
[Dealing with night crying: late-night communication with love]
When the baby cries in the middle of the night
Instead of "Again?"
"What's wrong? Mom will ask you."
Try to approach it with this in mind.
Things to check first
Is the diaper soiled?
→ "Maybe you're feeling sick and can't sleep?"
Are you hungry?
→ "Is it time for milk?"
Is it too hot or too cold?
→ "Is the temperature okay?"
Do you simply want to be pampered?
→ "You want mommy to hold you."
A loving response
Hold me gently
→ "It's okay, I have Mommy"
Listen to the heartbeat
→ The sense of security you felt when you were in the womb
Speak in a low voice
→ "Did you have a scary dream? It's okay."
[Moms need a break too ~ Sustainable love]
Until your baby's sleep rhythm is established,
Mommy also suffers from lack of sleep.
However, "a mother's good health is also an expression of love for her baby."
Don't forget that it is.
Take a short break during the day
→ Nap with your baby
→ "I'll rest too and get ready for the night."
Get your family involved
→ Sharing nighttime feeding duties
→ "Let's all protect this child"
Don't strive for perfection
→ Keep housework to a minimum
→ "The time I spend with this child is the most important thing."
Sleeping with a newborn can be tough.
But this is only a short period in your life.
"The time I spend with my child right now is a treasure that I will never get back."
When I started thinking like that, I realized that breastfeeding in the middle of the night was also
Day and night reversal,
It all becomes a fond memory.
[Practical Edition] An ideal day for baby and mom
A 24-hour cycle of love created with light, sound, and physical contact
From "What can I do for you?"
Towards the conviction that this is the perfect day for this child
"How should I spend my day?"
"What's best for your baby?"
To the simple and loving questions of a new mother,
I will answer your questions wholeheartedly.
An ideal day is
"A day where babies can feel safe and moms can be happy"
That's what I mean.
[Start your morning with love (6:00-9:00)]
The start of a new day
For babies, "They are loved today too"
Let's make it a time to feel it.
6:30 Wake up to natural light
→ Open the curtains and feel the morning sun
→ "Good morning, let's have a wonderful day today"
7:00 Morning feeding time
→ Relaxed feeling
→ "Does this morning milk taste good?"
7:30 Diaper change and clothes change
→ Speaking gently
→ "Let's have a great day today"
8:00 Breakfast time for mom
→ Slowly while watching the baby
→ "Mom, let's make sure we get some nutrition and do our best for this child."
[Morning of Love Communication (9:00-12:00)]
Babies are in a relatively good mood in the morning.
Use this time to share lots of affection.
9:00 Skinship time
→ Baby massage and gentle touch
→ "Mommy's hands are magic hands"
9:30 Story Time
→ Reading picture books and singing songs
→ "Remember Mommy's voice"
10:00 Breastfeeding and diaper check
→ Go at your baby's pace
→ "Children's timing matters"
10:30 Prepare for nap
→ Creating a quiet environment
→ "Get some rest and grow up big"
11:00-12:00 Nap
→ Mommy can rest too
→ "Let's rest together and get ready for the afternoon."
[Quiet Afternoon Love Time (12:00-18:00)]
In the afternoon, in the relaxed flow of time,
Time to deepen your bond with your baby.
12:00 Breastfeeding/Lunchtime
→ Lunch with mom
→ "Mealtimes together are fun."
13:00 Walk time (if possible)
→ Feel the outside air and light
→ "Let's experience the wide world together"
14:00-16:00 Afternoon nap
→ Longer sleep leads to better growth
→ "Sleep well and be wise"
16:00 Snack and feeding
→ Breastfeeding when you wake up to replenish your energy
→ "Thank you for your hard work, isn't it delicious?"
16:30 Playtime
→ Toys and mobiles that make noise
→ "Let's play together, it'll be fun"
17:00 Preparation for bathing
→ Check the water temperature and prepare the equipment
→ "I'll make you feel good"
[Loving evening to night (18:00-24:00)]
Towards the end of the day,
So that your baby can have a safe night
Let's wrap it in love.
18:00 Bath time
→ Feel comfortable in 38-39 degree water
→ "You did a great job today too."
18:30 Breastfeeding and dinner time
→ Relax with breastfeeding after a bath
→ "It's refreshing and delicious."
19:00 Family time
→ Physical contact with dad
→ "We all love this kid"
20:00 Preparation for the night
→ Turn down the lights and create a quiet environment
→ "It's nighttime, let's calm down."
21:00 Breastfeeding before bed
→ Relaxed feeling
→ "Enjoy the last milk of the day"
21:30-6:30 Night sleep
→ Breastfeeding and diaper changing are permitted, but please be quiet.
→ "Night is time to rest, and mommy is with me."
[The affectionate effects of light, sound, and physical contact]
There are three elements to keep in mind throughout the day.
All of these are ways to show affection to your baby.
The loving effect of light
Morning natural light
→ Reset your body clock
→ "Let me show you how to start a new day"
the darkness of the night
→ Promotes melatonin secretion
→ "Create an environment that helps you sleep soundly"
The affection effect of sound
Mom's voice
→ The most reassuring sound
→ "Remember this voice, feel the love"
Heartbeat
→ Remembering the inside of the stomach
→ "I feel safest when I'm with my mom"
Gentle music
→ Emotional stability
→ "Enrich your soul with beautiful sounds"
The affectionate effects of physical contact
Skin-to-skin contact
→ Oxytocin (love hormone) secretion
→ "Feel Mommy's Love"
Gentle massage
→ Promotes blood circulation and growth
→ "I'll make you healthy with these hands"
hug
→ Sense of security and emotional stability
→ "You're safest in mommy's arms"
[Give moms peace of mind: Sustainable love]
To have an ideal day,
It's also important for moms to have peace of mind.
Don't aim for perfection
→ Celebrate small successes, saying, "I was able to do this today"
→ "Even if it's not perfect, your love is still there"
Respect your baby's pace
→ The schedule is a guideline
→ "This child's rhythm is the most important thing."
Take care of yourself too
→ When you feel tired, just take a rest
→ "The best gift for this child is for his mother to be healthy."
An ideal day is never a perfect day.
The feeling of "I love this child"
A day that is communicated throughout the day
That's for the baby and the mother.
It's the happiest day ever.
Example of care schedule by age ~ For moms who don't get tired
Time management and the golden pattern of baby-first
From "Every day is hectic..."
Towards the happiness of "smiling babies and mothers"
"I'm always pressed for time..."
"The day ends without me being able to do anything..."
To moms who have such thoughts,
First, I have something to tell you.
You are not "not doing anything" right now,
You are doing the "most important thing."
It's about giving love to your baby.
There is nothing more valuable in this world.
[Schedule by month - The shape of love changes as the child grows]
As your baby grows,
The rhythm of care will also change naturally.
This is proof that we are "supporting this child's growth."
[Newborn period (0-1 month): A period full of love and building a foundation]
During this period, "baby's pace = mom's pace."
Rather than a perfect schedule,
The best thing is to prioritize love and be flexible .
6:00-9:00 Morning love recharge time
→ Natural light for waking up, breastfeeding, and diaper changes
→ "Good morning, I hope you have a great day today."
9:00-12:00 Morning Love Exchange
→ Breastfeeding (1-2 times), diaper changes, short naps
→ "Precious time spent with this child"
12:00-15:00 Daytime love break
→ Breastfeeding, long naps, and mommy taking a break too
→ "Let's rest together and recharge our energy"
15:00-18:00 Afternoon Love Activities
→ Enjoy breastfeeding and waking hours
→ "Let's enjoy the time we're awake together"
18:00-21:00 Evening Affection Relaxation
→ Bathing, breastfeeding, spending time with family
→ "Thank you for your hard work today. I'll clean you up."
21:00-6:00 Nighttime loving care
→ Breastfeeding (2-3 times), changing diapers, co-sleeping
→ "Even in the middle of the night, Mommy's always there for you."
[1-2 months after birth: stable period of affection rhythm]
A rhythm begins to emerge little by little.
"I'm starting to see a pattern with this kid."
This is a time of joyful discovery.
7:00 Affectionate Morning Routine
→ Breastfeeding, changing diapers, and getting ready in the morning
→ "Let's get used to a regular life little by little."
9:00-11:00 Morning affection activity time
→ The time spent awake is getting longer
→ "I'm glad we have more time to talk."
11:00-13:00 Morning Love Nap
→ Concentrated sleep time
→ "Sleep tight and grow up big"
13:00-15:00 Daytime love exchange time
→ Breastfeeding, playing, walking
→ "Let's enjoy the outside world together"
15:00-17:00 Afternoon Love Nap
→ Second nap
→ "Let's take a break so we can have an energetic afternoon."
17:00-19:00 Evening love preparation time
→ Breastfeeding and bath preparation
→ "Shall we get ready for the night?"
19:00-21:00 Nighttime relaxation time
→ Bathing, breastfeeding, getting ready for bed
→ "You did a great job today too."
21:00-7:00 Nighttime loving care
→ Nighttime feeding (1-2 times)
→ "Nighttime feedings are also a time for affection."
[2-3 months: Establishing affection patterns]
This is the time when children begin to distinguish between day and night.
"This child's daily routine has begun to develop."
It's an emotional time.
7:00-8:00 Love Start Dash
→ Waking up, breastfeeding, and starting the day
→ "Let's start the morning energetically together"
8:00-10:00 Morning Affectionate Activity Time
→ Stay awake longer and be more active
→ "Your expressions have become more expressive, it's so cute."
10:00-12:00 Morning Love Nap
Regular sleep patterns
→ "You've created a rhythm, it's amazing."
12:00-14:00 Daytime love activities & lunch
→ Breastfeeding, playtime, and mom's lunchtime
→ "Mom, make sure you get enough nutrition for your child."
14:00-16:00 Afternoon Love Nap
→ Steady afternoon sleep
→ "It's reassuring to be able to predict things."
16:00-18:00 Evening Love Communication
→ Good times and plenty of fun
→ "This time looks like the most fun."
18:00-20:00 Preparation for evening love
→ Bathing and preparing dinner
→ "Get into a relaxed mood for the night"
20:00-7:00 Nighttime loving care
→ Bedtime, nighttime feeding (0-1 times)
→ "I'm able to sleep through the night more often now."
[A loving time management technique for moms who don't get tired]
What's more important than sticking to a schedule is
"Mom's smiling."
I'll tell you some tips to avoid getting tired.
A philosophy of love that will help you stop being perfectionist
Cherish the small sense of accomplishment that comes from "I've accomplished this much today"
→ "Even if it's not perfect, your love is still there"
Baby's pace is the first priority
→ "The timing is right for this child to tell me."
Housework is minimal
→ "Right now, spending time with my child is my top priority."
Efficiency love techniques
Find things you can do while breastfeeding
→ Reading, listening to music, watching TV
→ "Use this time for yourself too"
Taking a nap together
→ Prioritize sleep over housework
→ "Let's rest together and get ready for the afternoon."
Preparations are made the night before
→ Set of nursing supplies, diapers, and clothes
→ "Let's help our tomorrow selves"
[How to discover the golden pattern of love]
Every mom has her own unique
There is a "golden pattern" .
Finding times when your baby is in a good mood
→ Plenty of communication during that time
→ "This is her time to shine."
Identify the time of day when mom is least tired
→ Focus on that time and give love
→ "When I'm feeling energetic, I'll love you with all my heart."
Create a pattern of family cooperation
→ Time for daddy, support from grandparents
→ "Let's all love and raise this child together"
[A loving mindset that accepts individual differences]
There's no need to compare your baby to other babies.
"My child grows at his own pace"
That is the most important foundation of love.
Some kids are early risers and some are night owls
→ "Let's treasure this child's individuality"
Some children drink a lot, while others eat little.
→ "Every child has their own pace of growth."
Some children sleep a lot, while others sleep a little.
→ "Let's understand this child's sleep patterns"
Ultimately, what matters is
"The happiness of both the baby and the mother."
The schedule is a means, not an end.
If you can spend every day filled with love,
That's the best schedule .
How to translate a baby's cry
5 signs of hunger, sleepiness, and wanting affection, and how they express affection
From "Why are you crying?"
Towards the feeling of "understanding this child's feelings"
"You're crying again... what's wrong?"
"Am I a failure as a mom?"
To mothers who are confused by their baby's crying,
There is something I want to tell you from my heart.
Babies don't cry to bother you.
"Mom, listen to how I feel"
It's a message full of love.
And you, whose heart aches at that voice,
That I'm the most loving mom in the world
Please don't forget.
[A baby's cry is a love language]
For babies who can't yet speak,
Crying is the only way to communicate.
In other words, crying
It's an expression of affection that means "I want to talk to you, Mommy."
"I'm hungry"
→ "I want some of Mommy's delicious milk"
"sleepy"
→ "I want to sleep with my mommy comforting me"
"I want to be pampered"
→ "I want mommy to hold me"
It's all a message of love .
[5 Basic Signs: A Guide to Translating Love]
There are five main types of crying that babies do.
Let's understand the love message each one contains.
1. Affectionate signs of "I'm hungry"
Characteristics of crying
→ Regular "Eeeen, Eeeen"
→ It gets more and more intense
→ Open and close your mouth
Other signs
→ Bring your hand to your mouth
→ Shake head from side to side (searching for breasts)
→ 2-3 hours have passed since breastfeeding
Affectionate Response Method
→ "You're hungry, do you want some milk from mommy?"
→ Breastfeeding in a relaxed atmosphere
→ "Does it taste good? It's full of mommy's love."
2. "Sleepy" is a sign of affection
Characteristics of crying
→ A sweet voice saying "Hueen, huueen"
→ Crying and stopping repeatedly
Rubbing your eyes or yawning
Other signs
→ Eyes become vacant
→ Become angry
→ I was awake for 1-2 hours
Affectionate Response Method
→ "You're sleepy, Mommy will put you to bed"
→ Hold your baby in a quiet environment
→ "You can sleep peacefully, Mommy is here with you"
3. A sign of affection that says "I want to be pampered"
Characteristics of crying
→ A pleading voice saying "Wheeeen, wheeeen"
→ He stops crying when you hold him
→ If you put it down, it starts crying again
Other signs
→ Flapping arms and legs
→ Look at mommy's face
→ No problems with breastfeeding or diapers
Affectionate Response Method
→ "You want to be pampered, Mommy wanted to hold you too"
→ Lots of physical contact
→ "You feel safest in your mommy's arms."
4. "Gross" is a sign of affection
Characteristics of crying
→ "Gyaaaah, gyaaah!" loudly
Suddenly starts crying
→ Voices expressing discomfort
Other signs
→ Diaper is dirty
→ Clothes are tight, hot, cold
→ Hair gets wrapped around your fingers (surprisingly common)
Affectionate Response Method
→ "Something's not right, let me check it out."
→ Gently check the whole body
→ "You feel refreshed, that's good."
5. "I'm not feeling well" is a loving sign
Characteristics of crying
→ Crying in a different way than usual
→ Weak or too intense
Continue crying for a long time
Other signs
→ I have a fever
→ Pale complexion
→ Reluctant to breastfeed
→ Exhausted
Affectionate Response Method
→ "You seem different than usual. I'm worried. Let's go to the hospital."
→ Don't hesitate to consult a pediatrician
→ "Mommy will take good care of you"
[Basic steps for responding to crying with love]
When the baby cries,
Here are some loving steps to take.
Step 1: Speak with love
→ "What's wrong? Mom will ask you."
→ First, reassure the baby with your mother's voice
Step 2: Check your basic needs
→ Diaper → Breastfeeding → Holding in that order
→ "I'll check them one by one."
Step 3: Check your environment
→ Temperature, brightness, sound
→ "Because I want to make you comfortable."
Step 4: Affectionate physical contact
→ Cuddling, massage, sleeping together
→ "Feel Mommy's Love"
Step 5: If that doesn't work, contact a professional
→ Don't hesitate to consult a pediatrician or midwife
→ "Ask for help to protect this child, it's also love"
[Affectionate mindset when the child won't stop crying]
No matter how much love you put into it,
There are times when I can't stop crying.
When that happens, remember the following:
This is not a lack of love
→ Babies have reasons to cry
Your love is definitely conveyed
"Twilight crying" is a sign of growth
→ Crying for no reason in the evening is normal
Evidence of brain development
Moms are human too
→ Don't blame yourself even if you get frustrated
→ "It's tiring because it's giving you love"
Asking for help is also love
→ Consult with family, friends, and experts
→ "I want to do the best for this child."
[The magic of turning crying into loving communication]
Instead of treating crying as a "troublesome problem,"
"Important conversation time with your baby"
Try to think of it as this.
"What do you want to tell me?"
→ Feel like a detective and search for the cause
"This voice is so child-like."
→ Cherish the distinctive voice as a part of your personality
"Let's solve this together."
→ Work with your baby to solve problems
"The smile when they stop crying is a treasure"
→ I was moved by the relieved expression on his face
The baby's cry
It's proof that they trust their mother .
"This person will understand my feelings.
They understand.”
I believe this and am trying my best to convey it.
You try to live up to that trust,
She is the most loving mom .
[Emergency Solutions] Breastfeeding, Night Crying, and Burping Problems
Knowledge to protect your baby and loving care methods
From "What should I do?"
Towards a mother's strong confidence that she can protect her child
"Emergency! What should I do?"
When faced with such a moment,
It's natural to panic.
But a loving mother always has the power to solve the problem.
The important thing is to have the right knowledge and
It is a strong love that says, "I will protect this child at all costs."
[Emergency care for insufficient breastfeeding]
"Not enough breast milk?"
"Aren't you gaining weight?"
When you are hit by such anxiety,
Here's how to deal with it calmly.
First, check: Is there really a shortage?
Number of times you pee
→ It's okay if you go more than six times a day
→ "Proof that you're hydrated"
Condition of poop
→ More than three times a day, yellowish
→ "Proof that you are getting enough nutrition"
Breastfeeding
→ You can hear the sound of someone gulping
→ "Proof that breast milk is coming in properly"
Good mood time
→ Satisfied expression after breastfeeding
→ "This child is proof that he is fulfilled"
Emergency love solutions
Increase hydration (by mom)
→ Drink 2-3 liters of water per day
→ "Mom also needs to manage her nutrition for her child"
Stimulation through frequent breastfeeding
→ No problem even if every 1-2 hours
→ "I'll give this child as much as he wants."
Stress relief
→ Take a deep breath and relax
→ "When mom is relaxed, it's easier for breast milk to come out."
Milk supplementation is also love
→ Without feeling guilty
→ "The most important thing is for this child to get nutrition."
[Emergency measures for night crying and love]
"I can't stop crying in the middle of the night..."
A crying baby is one of the most difficult challenges a mother faces.
But you can definitely get through it.
Emergency Checklist
Identifying basic needs
→ Diapers, breastfeeding, temperature control
→ "First, let's make this child feel better."
Health check
→ Fever, constipation, skin conditions
→ "Does any part of your body hurt?"
Environment Check
→ Sound, light, tight clothing
→ "Is there something that's bothering you?"
Loving coping techniques
"Five S's" Love Techniques
Swaddle
→ Reminds me of being in the womb
→ "I'll wrap you up like when you were in mommy's tummy"
Side position
→ More calming than holding the baby upright
→ "This direction is calming."
Shush
→ Sounds similar to the sound of blood flowing in the stomach
→ "Shhh, it's okay"
Swing
→ Feeling like I was floating in amniotic fluid
→ "It feels so good, swaying back and forth."
Suck
→ Pacifier or finger
→ "Smoking makes me feel safe"
Mother's mental care
Don't expect perfection
→ Even if your baby won't stop crying, it doesn't mean he or she lacks love.
→ "I give love properly"
Take turns
→ Cooperate with dad and family
→ "Let's all support this child"
Consult an Expert
→ Pediatricians, midwives, public health nurses
→ "Asking for help for this child is also a sign of love"
[Emergency solution for love that won't make you burp]
"My baby doesn't burp after breastfeeding..."
"He looks like he's in pain..."
Burping problems are actually not uncommon.
There's a loving solution.
The truth you need to know first
Burping is not absolutely necessary
→ Difficulty swallowing air, especially when breastfeeding
→ "It's okay if you don't force it out."
Newborns have small stomachs
→ Even a small amount of air can have a big impact
→ "They have small bodies, so let's take good care of them."
Affectionate Burp Technique
Basic vertical holding
→ Lean on your shoulder and pat your back
→ "Take your time, don't rush"
Sit on my lap
→ Lean forward to support your chest
→ "Is this angle easy to achieve?"
Face down hold
→ Hold the baby face down on your arm
→ "Let's try it from a different angle."
Take your time
→ Take it easy for 5-10 minutes
→ "Let's go at this child's pace"
Affectionate response when you can't burp
Lie on your right side
→ The stomach exit is lower, making it easier for air to escape
→ "Let me put you in a comfortable position"
Lift your head a little
→ Use a towel to create a slope
→ "Is this angle comfortable?"
Keep an eye on the situation
→ Don't force it, let it happen naturally
→ "The child's body will deal with it naturally."
[Criteria for determining love in an emergency]
If you have the following symptoms,
Do not hesitate to consult a medical institution.
Go to the hospital immediately
Fever of 38 degrees or higher
→ "Hurry to protect this child."
Repeated severe vomiting
→ "I'm worried about dehydration"
Weak and unresponsive
→ "It's completely different from usual."
It seems like breathing is difficult
→ "Breathing is the top priority"
have convulsions
→ "Don't hesitate, call an ambulance"
It's OK to come in for a checkup the next day
Good mood but no appetite
→ "Let's see how it goes and discuss it later."
A slight runny nose or cough
→ "Is this the beginning of a cold?"
Crying for longer than usual
→ "There might be something there."
[Mom's own care: protecting the source of love]
To deal with an emergency,
The most important thing is that the mother herself is healthy .
Don't aim to be a perfect mom
→ "I'm doing my best" is enough
→ "If you have love, you can overcome anything"
The courage to ask for help
→ Family, friends, professionals
→ "For this child, safety trumps pride"
Take care of yourself too
→ Rest, nutrition, and mental care
→ "Mommy is healthy, so this child is safe too."
Emergencies are certainly scary.
But with the intuition and drive of a loving mother ,
You can always make the right decision.
The strong desire to protect this child
It will make you the best mom.
The miracle of growth from 1 month to 3 months after birth
A guide to age-specific development and loving care changes
"This child has grown so much."
Towards a life filled with excitement and pride
"My little child has grown so much..."
Looking back to when I was just born,
You'll be amazed at the incredible transformation.
It's not just "growth."
It is a "miracle" that happens when your love accumulates every day.
In this chapter, we will explain baby's growth by month and
Regarding the corresponding changes in loving care,
I will tell you with emotion.
[One month after birth: Building the foundation of love]
A one-month-old baby
I'm still getting used to the outside world.
But the changes that can happen in just one month are astounding.
Miraculous changes in the body
Weight change
→ 500-800g increase from birth weight
→ "You've grown so much thanks to your mother's love."
Height change
→ Stretches approximately 3-4cm
→ "Your limbs have gotten longer and you look more reliable."
Changes in head circumference
→ Grows about 2cm
→ "It's proof that the brain is developing rapidly."
A miraculous change of heart
Remembering Mom's Face
→ Staring time increases
→ I recognize that "this person loves me"
Responds to mom's voice
→ Calling to your baby will often help them stop crying
→ Understand that "this voice is the most reassuring"
First smile (newborn smile)
→ Unconsciously, she has an angelic expression
→ "Maybe it's a sign of gratitude to mom"
Key points for loving care during the first month
Lots of physical contact
→ A time to accumulate a lot of "love savings"
→ "Let's fill this child's heart with love"
Creating a regular lifestyle
Bright in the morning, dark at night
→ "Let me teach you the rhythm of the outside world"
Creating a safe environment
→ Quiet and warm space
→ "A safe place like inside mommy's womb"
[2 months old: The period of blossoming affectionate communication]
In the second month, with the baby
This is the time when real communication begins.
"This child understands his mother!"
There are many moving moments when you can truly feel this.
Amazing body transformation
The neck becomes stronger
→ Able to lift head slightly when lying face down
→ "Your neck muscles have developed and become stronger."
Active limb movements
→ Move energetically and vigorously
→ "Full of energy! Full of vitality!"
Like following something with your eyes
→ Follow moving objects with your eyes
→ "Your ability to see has improved, and your world has expanded."
A beautiful change of heart
The beginning of social smiling
→ Look at your mom and smile consciously
→ Expressing the feeling "I love you, Mommy"
Becoming vocal
→ Cute sounds like "ahh" and "uhh"
→ A sign that says "I want to talk to Mommy"
Imitate mom's facial expressions
→ Move your mouth and change your facial expression
→ The desire to be like my mom
Key points for loving care at 2 months
Talk a lot
→ "It's a nice day today" "I see you're watching over Mommy"
→ Time to "bank words"
Make time to play together
→ Singing songs and playing hand games
→ "Let's make some fun memories together"
Be expressive
→ Smile, look surprised, show various expressions
→ "Human expressions are rich and interesting."
[3 months old: the period of maturing affectionate relationships]
In the third month, mom and baby
A time when a love relationship is fully established.
"I have such a deep bond with this child."
It's a time filled with happiness that makes you feel that way.
Amazing changes in the body
neck stiffness
→ To be able to hold the baby upright stably
→ "My holding style has changed and I can really feel my baby's growth."
Use your hands well
→ Grasp and touch consciously
→ "I've started to get interested in a lot of different things."
Day and night rhythm established
→ Sleep well at night
→ "I'm glad you're in the same rhythm as Mommy."
A rich change of heart
The beginning of shyness
→ Distinguish between mom and other people
→ "They know that Mommy is special."
Rich emotional expression
→ Happy, sad, angry expressions
→ "It's proof that their hearts are growing richer."
Emergence of anticipatory responses
→ Opening his mouth before breastfeeding, looking happy before bath time
→ "You've memorized the pattern of your life."
Key points for loving care at 3 months
Recognize and love individuality
→ The time when this child's individuality begins to emerge
→ "Everything about this child's personality is adorable."
Give new impetus
→ Toys that make noise, colorful things
→ "Let me show you the fascinating world"
Moms enjoy growing up too
→ You will get used to childcare and have more free time.
→ "Let's grow together"
[Changes in care - along with growing affection]
How to care for them in 3 months
It will change naturally.
This is evidence that "love has become deeper and richer."
Breastfeeding changes
1 month: Frequent breastfeeding to recharge your baby's love
→ Every 1-2 hours is normal
→ "Go with the child's pace"
2 months: I can see the rhythm and feel at ease
→ At intervals of about 3 hours
→ "I'm starting to understand this kid's pattern."
3 months: predictable and fun
→ You can predict the next feeding time
→ "You've also learned when to get hungry"
Changes in sleep
1 month: It's hard because the days and nights are reversed, but we get through it with love
→ Nighttime feedings are also a time for affection
→ "Even in the middle of the night, the time I spend with him is a treasure."
2 months: I'm slowly finding a rhythm and seeing hope.
→ Sleep a little longer at night
→ "It's getting easier and easier"
3 months: Sleep well and gratitude
→ You can sleep for 6-8 hours straight
→ "Thank you, now mommy can sleep too."
Changes in communication
1 month: Communicating through crying
→ Try to understand what they are trying to convey
→ "I want to understand this child's feelings"
2 months: Communicating with a smile
→ "You laughed! I'm so happy!"
→ "I can now talk to this child"
3 months: Communication with expressive faces
→ "You show so many different expressions"
→ "This child's heart is growing richly."
[The excitement of seeing growth and mom's confidence]
Looking back over the past three months,
Not only is the baby growing, but the mother is growing too.
At first I was worried, "Can I do this?"
It gave me the confidence to think, "I'm doing a good job as a mom."
"What can I do for this child?"
I realized that just being with this child makes me happy.
And above all,
"The more love you give,
Your own mind will also be enriched.”
I learned that.
Your baby will continue to grow from now on.
But with the foundation of love we've built over the past three months,
At any stage of growth,
It will surely be a wonderful experience.
Dads are also baby heroes: sharing nighttime feeding duties
A loving childcare system supported by the whole family
"You don't have to do it alone"
Wrapped in a warm sense of security
"I wonder if I'll be okay alone..."
"I want my dad to help me, but I don't know how..."
To mothers who are trying to raise their children alone,
There is something I want to tell you from my heart.
The best environment for your baby
"Being loved by the whole family."
And that mom can smile ,
It's the most important thing for the baby.
That's why, together with my dad and family,
Let's create a loving childcare system .
[Dad is another hero for the baby]
"Daddy can't breastfeed..."
Don't you think so?
In fact, only daddy can do it
There are many special ways to show affection .
A father's unique affection skills
A strong hug
→ A stable hold that is different from mom's
→ "You'll feel safe in your daddy's arms"
Speaking in a low voice
→ Babies tend to prefer low voices
→ "I love your dad's voice too"
Dynamic play
→ Playing high and using your body
→ "Playing with daddy is special and fun"
Bathing expert
→ A stable bath for large hands
→ "Daddy's bath feels so good"
[Nighttime breastfeeding love sharing system]
Nighttime feedings can be one of the most difficult times for a mother.
But with the help of my dad,
It will be a wonderful time of "loving teamwork."
Perfect division of labor when formula-feeding
Shift system
→ 10pm to 2am: Mommy in charge
→ 2am-6am: Daddy in charge
→ With feelings of "Thank you for your hard work"
Day of the week system
→ Weekdays: Mom is the main focus, Dad is supporting
→ Saturday and Sunday: Dad is the main person, Mom supports
→ A relationship of trust based on "I'll leave it to you today"
Affectionate support when breastfeeding
In charge of preparation and cleanup
→ Prepare nursing pillows and hydration
→ "So that moms can concentrate on breastfeeding"
Diaper changing specialist
→ Check diapers before and after feeding
→ "Leave this part to me"
In charge of putting children to bed
→ Burping after feeding and putting the baby to sleep
→ "Mom, you take a rest, I'll take over from here."
[Strong teamwork in mixed parenting situations]
The golden pattern for dividing roles
→ Mom: In charge of breastfeeding
→ Dad: In charge of providing milk
→ "Let's work together to raise this child."
[Weekday Love Sharing System]
Even dads who work on weekdays
You can give as much love as you can.
Morning love routine (before work)
6:30-7:00 Good morning time
→ Say "Good morning" to your baby
→ "Dad, I'm going to work hard."
7:00-7:30 Mom Support Time
→ Preparing breakfast for mom and changing diapers
→ "Mom, you did a great job last night"
Nighttime love routine (after returning home)
18:00-19:00 Time to go home
→ Tell your baby "I'm home"
→ "How were you today? I missed you, Daddy."
19:00-20:00 Bath time
→ Bath time just for dad
→ "Daddy will clean up today's mess."
20:00-21:00 Family time
Time with mom and baby
→ "What kind of day was it today?"
[Holiday Love Full Participation System]
On weekends, dads take the lead in childcare
It's a chance.
Creating a refreshing time for moms
Morning: Daddy & Baby Time
→ Mom goes to the hair salon, goes shopping, and takes a nap
→ "Take some time for yourself every once in a while"
Afternoon: Family outing
→ Parks, shopping malls
→ "Let's all enjoy the outside world"
[A loving and cooperative system with grandparents]
Grandpa and grandma too,
It is an important source of love for your baby.
Daily support
Shopping support
→ Shopping for heavy items
→ "Please help me reduce the strain on my body."
Cooking support
→ Nutritious home-cooked meals
→ "Leave mom's nutritional management to us"
Monitoring support
→ Short-term baby monitoring
→ "I feel safe knowing that someone with a lot of experience will be there to help me."
[Creating rules for sharing affection]
To ensure that the whole family can participate in childcare comfortably,
It's important to make good rules.
Basic rules of love
Don't forget to say "thank you"
→ Be grateful for even the smallest things
→ "I'm glad you cooperated."
"Don't strive for perfection"
→ It's okay if you do things differently
→ "If there is love, the method doesn't matter"
"Caring for each other"
→ Don't push yourself when you're tired
→ "The most important thing is that everyone is healthy"
"Baby First"
→ Baby's safety and happiness come first
→ "Let's all work together for this child"
[How to boost dad's parenting confidence]
"My dad's not good at raising children..."
There is no need to worry about that.
If you have love, you will definitely succeed.
Accumulating small successes
→ Diaper change, bathing, putting to bed
→ Cherish the sense of accomplishment that comes from "I did it!"
A thank you from Mom
→ "That's helpful," "Thank you," "Good job"
→ To motivate dad
Special time with your baby
→ Cuddle time with dad
→ "This child loves Daddy too"
[The wonderful effects of family-centered childcare]
By raising children together as a family,
The effect is surprisingly amazing.
Effects on babies
→ A sense of security from being loved by many people
→ Building the foundation for rich human relationships
→ Early social development
Effects on moms
→ Reduce the burden of childcare
→ More peace of mind and smiles
→ Securing your own time
Effects on dads
→ Reality and confidence as a father
→ Deep bond with your baby
Deepening love for family
Effects on the whole family
→ Deepening bonds
→ The joy of collaboration
→ A loving family
From raising children alone,
Towards loving child-rearing supported by everyone.
It is the best gift for a baby
It's the greatest happiness for the whole family.
Inspirational stories from experienced mothers and expert advice on love
A truly effective way to show affection to your baby
"I want to be a mom like that."
Full of hope and confidence
At the end of this long parenting guide,
We bring you heartwarming stories from experienced mothers.
I'm sure you'll think, "I can do my best too," or "I want to be a mom like that."
It will give you hope and courage.
And, selected from 30 years of midwifery experience,
We will also introduce some truly effective ways to express your love .
[Testimonial 1: Mio Mama (28 years old) - First birth]
"The moment when crying began to sound sweet"
"The first month was really tough.
I continued to have trouble sleeping because of breastfeeding in the middle of the night.
Every time I hear a baby cry
I thought, "Again?"
But one night when he was two months old,
When my son cried softly, "Hmm, hmm,"
For some reason, "Oh, you're hungry."
It just came naturally to me.
While breastfeeding,
"This child is crying because he trusts his mother."
When I thought that, tears came to my eyes.
Now, my son's cries
I hear, "I love you, Mommy."
It's strange, isn't it?"
Expert comment:
Motherhood doesn't happen in an instant.
With the accumulation of love every day,
It's something that grows slowly.
Like Mama Mio,
The moment when you say "I got it!"
A must visit for all moms.
[Story 2: Akiko Mama (32 years old) - Second child]
"The miracle of loving parenting that even involved the older child"
"When my second child was born,
It was difficult because my 4-year-old child was acting like a baby again.
But one day, I decided to
"Big sister, will you help me take care of the baby?"
I asked him to do so.
Then, the older child
"The baby is crying! Should I put a diaper on?"
"It's time for milk!"
And she's become such a reliable older sister.
Now my oldest child is a baby.
"It's okay, I have my sister."
They talk to me like this.
I felt that the whole family loved the baby,
I am truly happy.”
Expert comment:
Instead of thinking of your older child as a nuisance,
As a member of the "Love Team"
By welcoming
It strengthens the bonds of the whole family.
Children learn to rely on others.
They learn responsibility and love.
[Testimonial 3: Sayaka Mama (25 years old) - First birth, no visit to her hometown]
"Getting through the newborn period with the help of my dad"
"I can't go back home, and I don't have anyone nearby that I can rely on.
The couple decided to raise the baby alone.
At first I was worried,
My husband said, "We'll definitely be fine."
Nighttime feeding should be done in shifts,
My husband has become an expert at bathing.
"How was your bath today?"
When I saw my husband talking to the baby,
It's so funny and adorable.
Now, three months later,
My son is clearly a big fan of his dad.
Our bond as a couple has also become much stronger than before."
Expert comment:
Raising children in a nuclear family is difficult,
It's also a great opportunity to strengthen the bond between husband and wife .
By supporting each other while raising children,
It creates a sense of unity as a family.
[Story 4: Erika Mama (30 years old) - First child, Cesarean section]
"Even though I couldn't produce breast milk, I still felt your love."
"By Caesarean section birth,
I couldn't produce enough breast milk.
People around me said, "It's a shame you're not breastfeeding,"
I was really depressed.
But when I was giving him milk,
My daughter stared at my face
I realized it when I saw him drinking it.
"What's important to this child is
It's not about breast milk or formula.
It's something that mom does with love.'
Now my daughter is one year old,
He is growing up to be a very affectionate child.
Even through milk, love can be conveyed."
Expert comment:
The way you breastfeed has nothing to do with how deeply you are attached.
What's important is whether or not it's filled with the mother's love .
Milk or breast milk
If you give with love,
The baby will definitely feel the love.
[Story 5: Mariko Mama (35 years old) - Third child]
"I realized the true meaning of child-rearing with my third child"
"When it comes to the first and second children,
"I have to raise my children properly"
I tried desperately to follow the parenting book exactly.
But it wasn't until my third child that I finally realized it.
There is no right answer when it comes to raising children.
This child smiled happily,
As long as they grow up healthy, that's the right answer.
Now, while enjoying my son's individuality,
"What will you discover today?"
So every day is exciting.
Even though I'm not perfect,
I began to feel love for it."
Expert comment:
By gaining experience,
You will come to understand the importance of "love over perfection."
Like Mariko Mama,
When you can relax and enjoy childcare,
Both mom and baby will be happier.
[Experts' Choice: Top 5 Ways to Express Your Love That Really Work]
Over the past 30 years, I have seen over 3,000 babies and mothers.
I'll tell you about some really effective ways to express your love.
No. 1: Everyday "I love you" words
"I love you," "I love you," "Thank you for being born"
→ Even if you don't understand the meaning of the words, you can still convey your love
→ Mom's love will also deepen
→ Great effect on baby's emotional stability
No. 2: Lots of physical contact
Holding, massage, cheek rubbing, sleeping together
→ Promotes the secretion of oxytocin (the love hormone)
→ Strengthening parent-child bonds
→ Promotes the development of your baby's brain and mind
#3: Look them in the eye when you talk to them
"It's a nice day today." "I see you're watching over Mommy."
→ Build trust through eye contact
→ Building the foundation for language development
→ Early social development
#4: Respect your baby's pace
Let them sleep when they're sleepy, play when they're in a good mood
→ Building a foundation for self-esteem
→ Stress reduction
→ Respect for individuality
No. 5: Showing love from the whole family
Dad, Grandpa, Grandma, Siblings
→ The foundation of rich human relationships
→ Social development
→ Building confidence to be loved
[For those who will continue raising children]
Thank you for reading this guide to the end
You definitely
"A loving and wonderful mom."
There is no right answer when it comes to raising children.
But love is always the answer .
Even if there are days when things don't go well,
Even if there are days when I feel tired and cry,
It's proof that you're a loving mom.
"I love this child"
If you have that feeling,
You will definitely have a great upbringing.
And don't forget.
For your baby,
You are the most important person in the world.
No one can replace you,
It is a special being.
May every day be filled with love from now on
Walk with your baby.
You and your baby
I hope you will be happy forever.
~Lots of love, thank you for your hard work~