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To my newborn child
For moms who want to give the best memories
0-1 year old birthday event
Preparation techniques to avoid regrets
"I want to do something special for my newborn baby..."
"But I don't know what to do."
Staring at his small palm and sleeping face,
Mom quietly muttered in the depths of her heart.
Your thoughts are never wrong.
・I want to leave this child's name with all my heart.
I would like to ask God for healthy growth.
・I want to create a wonderful time that will become a lifelong memory.
Lunar events are important opportunities to express your love .
But there's no need to push yourself to do it perfectly.
What's important is the ``love you feel for this child.''
After 30 years of seeing thousands of moms and babies, I'm certain of one thing.
No matter how well you prepare,
No matter how expensive the items are,
Nothing beats a mom's smile and love .
In this guide,
Even if your body is tired after giving birth, you can prepare without any strain.
Moreover, I can truly say, "I'm glad I did it."
We will tell you how to hold lunar events.
By the time you finish reading,
"Oh, so that's how you express your love."
It should be filled with a warm feeling.
The first step towards a happy future for your child
Let's take this step together.
Seven Days After Birth "Oshichiya" - The Love Put Into Your Child's Name
An inspiring ceremony to give shape to
The parents' thoughts in the naming certificate
The real reason why the warmth of handwritten writing reaches children's hearts
"I want to carefully write this child's name and leave it behind..."
I thought about it over and over again during my pregnancy,
A name given to our child filled with love and hope.
The naming ceremony on the seventh night gives form to that feeling.
"But I'm embarrassed because my handwriting is so bad."
"I can't write with a brush..."
To moms who have such concerns,
There is something I would like you to know.
Why have we always insisted on handwriting?
It is in the handwritten letters
Because it contains "warmth" and "feelings ."
As I write each stroke with trembling hands,
In Mom's heart,
I am filled with love for my child.
That feeling is put into each and every character,
It will continue to be transmitted unchanged even 20 or 30 years from now .
In fact, when we asked their adult children,
Many people say this.
"Looking at the naming certificate, I can feel the feelings of my mother at the time of my birth."
"The handwriting is clumsy, but you can tell it's made with love."
Beautiful characters written by professional calligraphers are also wonderful,
The letter that Mama wrote with all her heart read,
It is worth more than any other skillful handwriting.
So why "seven days after birth"?
In the past, when the survival rate of newborns was low,
The first week of life was a particularly dangerous period.
When you have safely overcome this period,
Relief and joy for the family.
"I'm sure this child will grow up healthy."
With that confidence,
Officially revealing his name
They were welcomed as part of society.
Nowadays, with the advancement of medical technology,
The risk in the neonatal period has been significantly reduced.
However, the milestone of one week after birth
It continues to have a special meaning for my mom.
"It's only been a week... I'm still worried, but
I want to do something for this child."
To respond to the feelings of such mothers,
It's the seventh night.
The important thing when preparing a naming certificate is
It's not about perfection, it's about love .
You can use either a ballpoint pen or a felt-tip pen.
What's important is,
"The feeling of cherishing this child's name"
"Love put into every single character."
Recently, handmade kits and
Beautiful mounts are also available for sale.
But even if you write it on origami,
Even if you write it in a notebook,
A naming certificate filled with mother's love
It will be a treasure worth more than anything.
A small celebration just for the family is also nice.
Surrounding the baby
While looking at the naming book with my dad,
"I'm glad I chose this name."
"I hope he grows up healthy."
The time to have such conversations is
Above all, it fosters precious family bonds .
The timing and etiquette for the one-month-old baby's "Omiya-mairi" shrine visit
Complete strategy
Mom's health comes first, baby's clothes,
How to adjust to grandparents
"I don't think I'll be physically able to go out one month after giving birth..."
Moms who are feeling anxious about the upcoming shrine visit
It's by no means small.
In fact, there are no absolute rules about when to hold a shrine visit .
Traditionally, boys are born on the 31st day after birth.
The girl is said to be 32 days old,
This is a custom from the Heian period.
Nowadays, the health of mothers and babies is the top priority.
It has become common practice to set a time.
Postpartum recovery varies from person to person.
If you are a mother who gave birth by Caesarean section,
This is 1-2 weeks after the one-month checkup, when you are told it's OK to go out.
Even if you give birth naturally, wait until your breastfeeding rhythm has stabilized.
If you are still worried about your health,
Even after the baby is 2 or 3 months old
There is absolutely no problem.
My grandparents told me to hurry up and have my baby's first shrine visit.
Are you feeling pressured?
In that case, be honest about the situation.
"I've still not recovered from giving birth and my baby is still small,
I want to wait a little longer and then celebrate with everyone."
Any loving grandparent will surely understand.
Baby clothes,
There is no rule that says, "It has to be a white kimono."
Recently, baby dresses and cute rompers have become popular.
More and more families are visiting.
The important thing is to wear clean, seasonally appropriate clothing.
You can also rent a kimono,
Your favorite baby clothes are great enough.
Regarding manners at shrines,
There's no need to worry about it being perfect.
Even if the baby cries,
If you need to breastfeed or change a diaper,
That's natural.
The priests also advise visitors with babies to
They are very used to it and treat you kindly.
The true meaning of Omiya-mairi is
"I pray to God for the baby's healthy growth,
"Deepening family ties."
Rather than perfect preparation and etiquette,
The smiles and gratitude of the whole family
It's the most important thing.
Easy preparation for the 100th day "Okuizome" ceremony
Meaningful explanation
Homemade vs. catered debate settled
Teething Stone Substitute Ideas
"Do I have to make everything by hand for the first meal?"
When he reached 100 days after his birth,
This is a question that many moms have.
To sum up,
Homemade or catered, either way makes a wonderful celebration.
When you understand the original meaning of Okuizome,
This question is naturally resolved.
This event is held to ensure that people never go hungry for the rest of their lives.
Something done with a wish.
In other words, what's important is
"Gratitude for food"
It's the love of family.
Reasons moms choose handmade:
"I'm busy with my first child,
I want to do something special for my baby."
"Cooking makes it feel like a celebration."
"I want to share the family flavors with my baby."
Reasons moms choose catering:
"I'm tired from raising my children, so I want to simplify my preparations."
"I want everyone to enjoy the professional taste."
"I want to make beautiful food that looks good in photos."
Both choices were born out of love for the baby .
"It's meaningless if it's not handmade"
Who decided that?
Substitute ideas for when you don't have a teething stone
Where do you get teething stones?
This is also a problem that many moms face.
In fact, the substitute for teething stones is
There are many of them close to home.
**Classic Substitutes:**
- Pebbles from the shrine where the baby was born (with permission)
- Teething toys from a baby store
- Cleanly washed chestnut or pickled plum seeds
**Ingenious Substitutes:**
- Make a baby's handprint with clay
- A memorable stone found by a family
- Wooden toys for babies
The important thing is,
"May strong teeth grow in."
To make a wish.
More than shape or material,
That feeling is the most important thing.
If you are exhausted from preparing for the first meal,
It's putting the cart before the horse.
"A place where the whole family can spend time with a smile"
Thinking first and foremost,
Make sure to prepare in a way that is not too difficult.
Babies love their mother's smile
That it is the best treat ever.
Please don't forget.
👉Preparing for the First Festival
Wishing for a bright future for your child on their first festival
A mother's heartfelt selection of Hina and May dolls
Choosing a doll that suits this child
Tips for having the best celebration on a budget
Will this child be happy when he grows up?
In front of the Hina dolls and May dolls,
A mother's thoughts whispered softly in her heart.
While looking at the beautiful dolls lined up in the doll shop,
Which one would suit this child best?
The moments of serious reflection are quite adorable.
In fact, when choosing a doll for the first festival,
It has a deeper meaning that many moms don't know.
The Hina dolls take the place of the girls and suffer misfortune,
Wishing you a happy marriage and healthy growth .
May dolls protect boys from harm,
It is a guardian deity that prays for children to grow up strong and healthy .
That's why,
"As long as it's not expensive"
There's no need to push yourself.
What's important is,
"It's because I truly wish for this child's happiness."
"But how do I choose?"
If you are unsure about which doll to choose,
Think about it in this way.
**Choose with your child's face in mind**
"When this child turns 20,
What kind of woman (man) do you want me to be?
See the elegant and refined Hina dolls
"I want my child to grow up beautifully like this,"
Look at the gallant warrior dolls
I wish my child would have the same strength.
**Consider a long-term relationship with your living environment**
"I live in an apartment, so I want something compact."
"I'll be moving in the future, so I want something that's easy to carry."
A realistic judgment,
It's a loving choice .
In fact, the choices for many households are:
**For Hina dolls:**
- Shinno-kazari (Pair of Emperor and Empress dolls)
- Comes in a case and is easy to clean
- Kimekomi dolls (warmth)
**For May Dolls:**
- Kabuto ornament (compact and can be placed anywhere)
- Set with carp streamers
- Helmets of famous warlords (there's a historical romance to them)
"My grandparents said they would buy it for me, but their tastes are different..."
Many mothers have similar concerns.
In that case, try to honestly express your feelings.
"I'm really glad you feel that way.
But, since I decorate it with this child every year,
Would you like us to be involved in the selection process?”
Loving grandparents,
I'm sure they will understand.
And the time we choose together is itself
It will be a valuable opportunity to strengthen family bonds .
You don't have to go overboard on the budget either.
Recently, even in the 20,000-30,000 yen range
There are many beautiful and elegant dolls.
It's not the amount that matters,
"I wish for this child's happiness"
It is the love that is cherished and displayed every year .
On the night of the first festival,
In front of the beautifully decorated dolls,
"Thank you for growing up healthy."
"Mama will always protect you from now on."
The time to talk to my child is
This is the most valuable moment of the first Doll Festival .
6-month-old baby's "half birthday"
A new tradition to celebrate the six-month journey of mother and child
The joy of growing up by making baby food cakes
Photography techniques to preserve a mother's love forever
"Six months have passed in the blink of an eye..."
As I gazed upon my child, who had just turned six months old,
The deep emotions that come to a mother's mind.
Half birthdays are a new custom that originated in Japan .
It has now become a special day loved by many families.
Why the six-month milestone?
Does it really feel that special?
That is, during the past six months
This is the most dramatic time for both mom and baby .
Their necks become strong and they learn to roll over.
Now that he can sit up,
Baby food has also started...
And above all,
It was a six-month period in which the bond between mother and baby was nurtured deeply .
"When I was just born,
I was worried because I didn't understand the meaning of the crying,
Now I understand exactly how this child feels."
You can experience this growth,
It's my half birthday.
Baking baby food cakes is a new way to express love
"Can you make a cake using baby food?"
Many moms have this question.
In fact, it is only food that babies can eat.
You can make amazingly beautiful cakes .
**Basic Baby Food Cake Recipe:**
- **Base**: Pour 10x porridge into a mold and let it cool and harden.
- **Cream**: Strained yogurt (unsweetened)
- **Decoration**: Carrot, pumpkin, spinach paste
Boil carrots and cut them into heart shapes,
Write letters with pumpkin paste.
"I made it from scratch for this child."
That realization is what
Fills a mother's heart
It will be the best gift ever.
Capture the moment forever with a photo
At the half birthday photo shoot,
Popular ideas include:
**Growth Record Ideas:**
- Take a photo of your baby next to the photo of them when they were born
- Comparison of hand and footprint growth
- Along with the number "6 months"
**Expressing the bond with mom:**
- Profile of a woman breastfeeding
- Eating baby food together
- The moment we stared at each other
But the most important thing is
It's a natural smile .
I tried too hard to take the perfect photo
It would be counterproductive if both the mother and the baby ended up tired.
"I'm having a good time"
Photos that convey the atmosphere are
When I look back in 20 years
It's the most heart-warming thing.
**Easy selfie tips:**
- Take the photo by a window where natural light can enter
- Choose a time when your baby is in a good mood
- Comforting yourself on mommy's lap
- Don't force the subject into a pose
"You don't need to hire a professional,
In the photos that my mother took with love
There's a special warmth to it."
There are many moms who feel this way.
On the night of my half birthday,
Looking back at the photos of the day,
"We've really worked hard these past six months."
So, I also want to treat myself well.
Please don't forget.
Mom's hard work is
It is the source of healthy growth for your baby.
1st Birthday "Choose your own rice cake"
Gratitude for my grown-up child
The meaning behind the heavy rice cake
A modern selection that highlights this child's individuality
"It was so small a year ago..."
As I gazed upon my child on his first birthday,
Tears naturally well up in the mother's eyes.
A first birthday is more than just an age milestone.
it is,
It's also the anniversary of Mom completing a year as a mother.
It is also a day that proves that the baby has grown strong.
The tradition of carrying a one-sho rice cake is
It is filled with deep love.
Why do we make them carry such heavy burdens?
Actually, this has two meanings.
**First: "So that I never have to worry about food for the rest of my life."**
In the past, famine and poverty
There was a time when food was scarce.
Mochi made from rice is a symbol of abundance.
The large-volume mochi (roughly 1.8 kg)
"I hope this child will live a prosperous life."
It is a reflection of the parents' earnest wish.
**Second: I want him to grow up to be a reliable person.**
By carrying a heavy rice cake,
"To people who feel the weight of life and have a sense of responsibility"
It also has educational implications.
"But it's a shame to give such a heavy mochi to a one-year-old child..."
The kind feelings of a mother who feels this way,
I understand that very well.
In modern times,
**Children's safety and fun come first**
More and more families are making arrangements.
**Modern version of Issho mochi ideas:**
- **Small pack**: Divided into 4 packs of 500g each, to be worn in turns
- **Backpack style**: Put it in a special backpack for easy carrying
- **Hold it in your hand**: It's OK to just let them touch it without having them carry it on their back.
- **Primary photo opportunity**: You only wear it for a moment
What's important is,
"It's a feeling of celebrating this child's growth as a family."
The child's unique personality is revealed through selection
The selection is
It's a fun event where you can predict the baby's future.
But recently,
"An opportunity to learn about the child's current interests and personality"
There are many families enjoying it.
**Traditional Pick-Up Items:**
- **Abacus**: Good at business and calculations
- **Pen**: Good at studying, talented in writing
- **Money**: Get rich
- **Scissors**: For dexterous hands, suitable for hairdressers
**Modern Selection Items:**
- **Smartphone**: IT talent
- **Stethoscope**: Medical talent
- **Mike**: Entertainer's talent
- **Ball**: Sports talent
- **Picture Books**: Educational Talent
"My child chose money!"
"He shows no interest in brushes at all..."
Whatever the outcome,
It will be a great success if it makes the whole family smile .
On the night of his first birthday,
Looking back at the photos from the past year,
"When he was a newborn, he would cry all the time,
Now her smile is so cute."
"I gave him his first baby food, but
Now he eats anything with ease."
It's the time to share those memories with your family.
It will become a treasure for life .
Thank you for raising me until I was one year old.
Mommy will always protect you from now on.
That's what I say to my child in my heart
The first birthday is
The bond between mother and child deepens
It will be a special anniversary.
Budget planning for monthly events: Love is not money
Mother's wisdom and ingenuity
A lower total price but a full heart
A one-of-a-kind celebration with handmade ideas
"How much does the whole event cost?"
As expenses for childcare products continue,
A moment of sudden anxiety.
"I would do anything for this child,
I have to think about the household finances too..."
Moms who have such complicated feelings
You are definitely not alone.
Know the general cost range for lunar events ,
Plan with peace of mind.
**Average cost for each event (national average):**
**Shichi-ya:** 5,000 yen - 15,000 yen
- Naming card and mount: 1,000 yen to 3,000 yen
- Celebration meal (for family): 3,000 to 8,000 yen
- Photos and souvenirs: 1,000 to 4,000 yen
**Shrine visit:** 10,000 yen to 30,000 yen
- First offering: 5,000 to 10,000 yen
- Baby dresses and kimonos: 3,000 yen to 15,000 yen (rental included)
- Photography: 2,000 yen to 5,000 yen (self to professional)
**Okuizome:** 8,000 yen to 25,000 yen
- Handmade: 3,000 to 8,000 yen
- Catering: 5,000 yen to 15,000 yen
- Tableware set: 2,000 yen to 5,000 yen
**First Festival:** 30,000 yen to 150,000 yen
- Hina dolls and May dolls: 20,000 yen to 100,000 yen
- Celebration dishes: 5,000 yen to 20,000 yen
- Commemorative photo: 3,000 yen - 10,000 yen
**Half Birthday:** 3,000 yen to 10,000 yen
- Baby food cake ingredients: 500 yen - 1,500 yen
- Decoration supplies: 1,000 yen to 3,000 yen
- Commemorative photo: 1,000 yen - 5,000 yen
**1st birthday:** 10,000 yen to 30,000 yen
- One-sho rice cake: 2,000 yen to 5,000 yen
- Selection items: 1,000 yen to 3,000 yen
- Celebration food and cake: 5,000 yen to 15,000 yen
- Gifts: 2,000 yen to 7,000 yen
**Total: Approximately 66,000 yen to 260,000 yen**
"Eh, that much?"
If you're a mom who thinks like that, don't worry.
This price is based on "all the highest quality items."
in fact,
**With some ingenuity, it is entirely possible to reduce the price to less than half**.
A collection of loving money-saving ideas
**Oshichi-ya Ideas:**
- Download a free naming certificate template
- Celebrate with Mom's favorite takeout food
- Photos taken with a smartphone are beautiful enough
**Savings: 2,000 to 5,000 yen**
**Ideas for the shrine visit:**
- Bring baby clothes from relatives or buy them and sell them on Mercari
- Check with the shrine in advance about the offering fee (some are OK from 3,000 yen).
- If you are with your grandparents, please cover transportation and meal expenses.
**Savings: 5,000 yen to 12,000 yen**
**Okuizome celebration ideas:**
- Handmade with lots of love
- The tableware can also be used for baby food
- Teething stones are collected at shrines.
**Savings: 2,000 to 5,000 yen**
**Ideas for the first festival:**
- Choose a prince or princess doll or a compact size doll.
- Use the gift money from your grandparents
- Homemade food for a party
**Savings: 15,000 yen to 40,000 yen**
**Half Birthday Ideas:**
- Decorations from the 100 yen shop are cute enough
- Baby food cake made with ingredients you have at home
- Family smiles are more important than social media appearances
**Savings: 500 yen to 2,000 yen**
**1st birthday ideas:**
- The rice cakes are custom-made at a local bakery.
- Use everyday items as substitutes for the selection items
- Cakes are handmade and made with love
**Savings: 3,000 yen to 8,000 yen**
**Total after modification: Approximately 27,500 yen to 72,000 yen**
It's now less than half price !
But here's the most important thing.
"The amount of money cannot measure the depth of love"
The warmth of handmade items,
A small celebration just for the family
Mom's smile and love...
These, no matter how much money they cost,
You can't buy it.
"We're struggling financially this month, so we'll keep the celebration simple..."
At times like these,
This is the moment when the love of handmade products shines through.
A small celebration meal that Mama made with love,
than the luxurious cuisine of a high-end restaurant
It will remain as a warm memory .
Finding a "family-friendly celebration"
It's the most important thing.
Things are different now than they were in the past, like our grandparents' generation.
Loving Compromise
My feelings towards my child are the same
My mother's diplomatic techniques to overcome different values
"The shrine visit is held exactly one month after birth."
"The first meal of the year should be at a proper restaurant..."
From loving grandparents
Have you ever been confused by words like these?
Between our grandparents' generation and modern moms,
There are certainly differences in how we think about events .
But at the root of it all is
"A desire for the happiness of my grandchildren"
It's the exact same love.
Why do differences in values arise?
**Historical background of grandparents' generation:**
- **High Economic Growth Period**: The value of "giving good things to children"
- **Emphasis on formality**: A culture that values formal etiquette and traditions
- **Local community**: Appearance and appearances are also important
- **Assuming you are a full-time housewife**: Taking time to prepare is a virtue
**Modern Mom's Environment:**
- **Emphasis on diversity**: Values that cherish the "family feel"
- **Practicality**: Prioritize effortless and sustainable activities
- **Individualism**: prioritizing family satisfaction over the opinions of others
- **Assuming both partners work**: Work efficiently within limited time
It's not a question of which is right or wrong,
It's a difference in how affection is expressed that suits the times .
Tips for good compromise
**1. Express your gratitude first**
"I always think about ○○-chan.
Thank you for caring about me."
Starting with this one word,
This will show that you are considerate of your grandparents' feelings.
**2. A thorough explanation of modern circumstances**
❌ "I won't do that now."
⭕ "My physical condition after giving birth is still unstable..."
❌ "That's an old idea."
⭕ "I appreciate your kind words, but I'm concerned about the living environment..."
By specifically explaining the reason,
It will be easier for people to understand.
3. Explore alternatives together
"I would like to postpone the shrine visit for a while.
So that everyone can celebrate slowly
Why don't you make a plan?"
By proposing a **win-win solution**,
It will also be easier for grandparents to understand.
**Examples: How to deal with common situations**
**Scene 1: "Pressure to wait until the baby is one month old"**
**Grandparents' true feelings:** "I can't wait to see my grandchildren in their finery."
**Mom's response:**
"Once I'm feeling better, I'd like to ask my mother-in-law to
I would like you to join me in worship,
Could you please wait a little longer?
So let's take lots of great photos."
**Scene 2: "I want to buy a beautiful Hina doll" offer**
**Grandparents' true feelings:** "I want to leave something good for my grandchildren"
**Mom's response:**
"I'm really glad you feel that way.
Consider your living environment and choose something you can cherish for a long time.
Would you like to help me choose one?"
**Scene 3: "We suggest having the first meal at a traditional Japanese restaurant"**
**Grandparents' true feelings:** "I want to have a proper celebration"
**Mom's response:**
"Thank you. I'm going at my baby's pace.
So that you can match it with your celebration at home
A meal for everyone and two separate meals
Would you like to have some fun?”
**The most effective magic words**
"For ○○-chan,
Could you please help me think about the best way to do this?"
This word includes:
- Acknowledge the love of your grandparents
- Respect for wanting to make decisions together
- Seeking the best solution for your grandchildren
All of this is included.
Sometimes compromises are necessary
"This time, I used my mother-in-law's method.
Next time, do it our way."
Such alternating celebrations,
One of the tips for maintaining good relationships.
Don't seek perfection too much,
"A compromise that makes everyone smile"
It's important to find it.
Finally, there's something you should always keep in mind.
Your grandparents and you
Wishing happiness for my precious children (grandchildren)
That we are friends who share the same feelings .
Sometimes there will be disagreements.
But the love that lies beneath
It never changes.
How to balance monthly events for working moms
My decision to not give up on work or childcare
Maximum love in a limited time
The ideal celebration method made possible through efficiency
"I want to prepare for the first meal,
When I come home from work I'm exhausted..."
"I would like to hold the monthly events, but
On weekdays, I'm busy picking up my kids from nursery school."
If you're a working mom, you've probably felt this way at least once.
This "race against time."
"Even while working,
I want to create wonderful memories for my child."
Fulfilling the wishes of such mothers
We will teach you efficient techniques for holding monthly events.
Facing the reality of working mothers
First, the problems that working mothers face
Let's sort out the time constraints.
**Example of weekday schedule:**
- 6:00 Wake up and prepare breakfast
- 7:30 Drop off at nursery school
- 8:30-17:30 working hours
- 18:30 Pick up from nursery school
- 19:30 Dinner and bath
- 21:00 Put to bed
- 10:00 PM: Finally some time for myself... but exhausted
**Saturday and Sunday:**
- Housework that couldn't be done on weekdays
- Grocery shopping
- Family time
When should I prepare for the lunar phase event?
To moms with such serious concerns,
We'll teach you how to make the most of your time .
The secret to efficiency: "Love" over "perfection"
The secret to successful monthly events for working moms is
"Don't try to make everything by hand."
What's important is,
**Where do you pour your love in your limited time?**
It's about determining.
**Complete guide to time-saving techniques for each event**
**Oshichi-ya (if held on a weekday)**
**Time-saving points:**
- The naming certificate was handwritten on the commuter train
- Takeout celebratory meal on the way home
- Take photos in the morning when your baby is in a good mood
**Prep Time:** Just 30 minutes!
**Shrine visit (recommended to be held on weekends)**
**Time-saving points:**
- Make an online reservation in advance (including checking the first offering fee)
- Set out your baby's clothes the night before
- Divide the photo shoot among family members
- The dinner party will be held at a reservation-only restaurant near the shrine.
**Preparation time:** 20 minutes on weekday evenings for 3 days
**Okuizome (Efficiency-focused Plan)**
**Time-saving points:**
- Order only the main dish (sea bream, etc.)
- Use frozen foods effectively for other dishes
- Teething stones can be purchased online in advance
- Use your everyday tableware.
**Preparation time:** 2 hours Saturday morning
**First Festival (Planned Preparation)**
**Time-saving points:**
- Choose your dolls at your leisure during the New Year holidays
- The main dish is simple chirashi sushi
- Have fun decorating with your kids
- Take full advantage of the continuous shooting function for photos
**Preparation time:** 1 hour advance preparation, 1 hour on the day
**Half Birthday (Available on weekday evenings)**
**Time-saving points:**
- Baby food cake made with frozen vegetable paste
- Decorations are from 100 yen shops
- The photo was taken immediately after returning home from nursery school.
**Prep Time:** 30 minutes
**1st Birthday (Full Weekend Use)**
**Time-saving points:**
- Order the rice cake online in advance
- Use everyday toys as the selection items
- The cake is decorated with store-bought products.
- Family photos with a tripod and timer
**Preparation Time:** 3 hours on Saturday
How to use convenient tools for working moms
**Using smartphone apps:**
- **Photo editing app**: Create professional-looking commemorative photos easily
- **Online supermarket**: Order heavy ingredients before you get home
- **Recipe app**: Expand your repertoire of time-saving recipes
**Utilizing internet services:**
- **Catered lunches**: Specialty items such as first meal sets
- **Rental service**: kimono, tableware, photography accessories
- **Online Shop**: Shop even late at night
**Utilizing family and workplace support:**
- **Dividing roles with dad**: Increase efficiency with a clear system of responsibilities
- **Grandparents' help**: Please help with some of the preparations
- **Paid leave planning**: Take strategic leave for big events
An example of "not perfect, but full of love"
**Ms. A (Office Worker Mom)'s 1st Birthday:**
"I don't have time to prepare on weekdays,
In the end, we were busy getting ready from Saturday morning.
One-sho rice cakes can be ordered online.
The cake was purchased from a local bakery.
The selection process was as simple as lining up their favorite toys.
I thought, "Maybe I'm just cutting corners," but
Seeing my daughter having fun playing,
I realized that love doesn't take time to prepare ."
**B (a mother working part-time)’s first meal:**
"I wanted to order a proper sea bream,
Other dishes are made from frozen side dishes.
But when I saw my son imitating the "Aaan" sound,
It was captured on video,
This has become my most treasured possession ."
Monthly events for working moms
From "Taking time"
It's important to "put your heart into it."
Because of the limited time,
Maybe you'll find out what's truly important.
Because you work hard at both work and childcare,
There is strength and love that can be passed on to our children.
Record your child's growth in photos.
Making memories that will last even 20 years from now
Professional photography techniques and handprint and footprint preservation
A memorial technique for the bond between mother and child
"I never want to forget this moment..."
My child's sleeping face, his first smile,
Staring at the small palm,
Thoughts that come to a mother's mind.
Photographs of lunar events are not just records.
it is,
**Will not fade even after 20 or 30 years**
It is a **certificate of love between mother and child**.
"But I'm not good at taking pictures..."
"I don't have the budget to hire a professional..."
To moms who have such worries,
A commemorative photo full of love
Here are some tips for taking selfies.
Why are photos important?
That is, although memories become blurred with time,
A photograph will capture that moment forever.
When an adult child looks at a photo of themselves as a baby,
"Mom, you raised me with such great care."
For the day when you say that,
Now, take the picture.
Photo spots for each month's events
**Oshichi-ya: "Give shape to your love for your name"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- Baby name card and baby
- Mom writing the baby's name card
- Looking at the naming book with dad
- Close-up of a sleeping baby
**Photography Tips:**
By the window with natural light,
Make sure the name card is clearly readable.
More than the baby's facial expression,
We place importance on a warm family atmosphere.
**Omiyamairi: "Expressing gratitude to God"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- Family photo in front of the shrine gate
- Receiving prayer (if permitted)
- Baby in formal attire
- Mom's relieved expression
**Photography Tips:**
Taking advantage of the shrine's dignified atmosphere.
Even if the baby is crying
**Also leave it as a natural moment**.
**Okuizome: "Gratitude for food and the joy of growing up"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- Colorful celebratory meal
- The moment when he imitates "Aahn"
- A family dinner table
- Picking up a teething stone
**Photography Tips:**
The beauty of cooking and
Capture both of your baby's facial expressions.
**Continuous shooting function** so you don't miss the decisive moment.
**First Doll Festival: "The moment when this child's individuality shines through"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- Along with Hina dolls and May dolls
- A dignified look in formal attire
- Showing interest in the doll
- Commemorative photo of three generations of the family
**Photography Tips:**
The beauty of the dolls,
It is important to keep the balance of a child's natural facial expression.
Shoot in both portrait and landscape orientations.
**Half Birthday: "The Surprise and Joy of Growth"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- With baby food cake
- A baby who can now sit up
- The moment when I looked at my mom
- Comparison photos of handprints and footprints
**Photography Tips:**
An angle that expresses the feeling of growth.
Include a photo of the baby when he was born.
**1st Birthday: "Gratitude for the year's journey"**
**Must-Have Shots:**
- Carrying a one-sho rice cake
- A serious look as he makes his selection
- With 1st birthday cake
- Photo collage of the past year
**Photography Tips:**
A composition that lets you feel the growth over the past year.
It's very moving when you take a photo of them next to a newborn photo.
5 tips for taking successful selfies
1. Use light to your advantage
- Natural light is the most beautiful (a window is best)
- Aim for the soft morning light
- Avoid backlighting so your face is clearly visible
2. Go with your baby's pace
- Choose a time of day when you're in a good mood
- No **unreasonable poses** are required
- Be patient and wait for a natural look
**3. Use the continuous shooting function**
- **Multiple photos per second**
- Never miss a decisive moment
- **Sorting Later** to find the best one
**4. Vary the angle and distance**
- **Directly above** (full view of the baby)
- **At the same eye level** (you can see their facial expressions clearly)
- **A little distance** (composition including the environment)
**5. How to get the whole family in the photo**
- Use the tripod and timer functions
- **Mirror reflection photography**
- **Ask passersby** (at shrines, etc.)
Impressive techniques for preserving handprints and footprints
Just as important as the photo is
**Handprint and footprint preservation**.
**Why are handprints and footprints so special?**
It has a size that is unique at that time.
Because it can last forever.
The adult children
My baby handprints
The moment our hands meet...
"It was so small."
The surprise and excitement
It will be an irreplaceable treasure.
**How to take simple handprints and footprints:**
**What you'll need:**
- Ink pad (non-toxic ink for babies)
- Drawing paper or special mount
- Wet towel
- Baby's best mood
**Tips:**
- **Keep it short** (before your baby gets annoyed)
- **Two or more people working together** (one person supporting the limbs, one person pushing)
- **Try several times** and save the best one
**Recommendations for creating a memorial book**
Photos of each month's events,
Why not put them all together in one album?
**Configuration example:**
- Cover: Photo and name at birth
- Event page: photo + date + message from mom
- Growth record: height, weight, and things you've learned
- Handprint and footprint pages: To see changes in size
**Example message from Mom:**
"○○-chan, happy seventh night.
This name carries a lot of love from mom and dad.
I hope you grow up to be a healthy and kind child."
"Happy 1st birthday!
Thank you so much for this past year.
Your smile is my greatest treasure."
Maybe it'll be shown at weddings in 20 years.
Today's photo.
At that time,
"It's filled with so much mommy love"
So that you can feel
Let's leave a warm record.
👉Photography techniques for siblings
💡Storage method that allows you to share with distant family members
Monthly events for families with siblings
Affection that satisfies the older child's heart
Big brother and big sister are also main characters
Celebration ideas that will make everyone shine
"When I was preparing for my younger child's shrine visit,
My oldest child looked lonely and asked, "What about me?"
"When I was taking photos of the first meal,
My sister started crying halfway through."
I often hear this in families with siblings.
Such a sad scene.
I'm happy about the monthly events for my younger child,
When I think about the feelings of my older child
Many mothers will have mixed feelings.
But it's okay.
All siblings can play a leading role
There are ways to hold lunar events .
Understanding the psychology of older children
First, consider the feelings of your older child.
Let's get closer.
**Older child's true feelings:**
- "Babies are the only ones who get special treatment."
- "What was it like for me?"
- "Mom's always staring at the baby."
- "I want to be a baby too."
This is a natural desire for love .
It's not "selfish" at all.
Understanding this feeling,
The older child is also an important member of the family
Have them participate in monthly events .
Sibling participation techniques for each event
**Oshichi-ya: "Big brothers and big sisters are the guardians of names"**
**Older child's role:**
- Write a baby name card together (decorate with colored pencils)
- The first person to call the baby by name
- "Name introduction officer" during photo shoot
**Example of what to say:**
"○○-chan, will you help me protect the baby's name?
I'm so grateful to have my big brother (older sister),
I think the baby is safe."
**Omiya-mairi: "Guide to the Gods"**
**Older child's role:**
- Teach your baby how to use the water basin at a shrine
- Come and pray together for the baby's health
- In the commemorative photo, they are in the front row as the "best brother and sister in the family."
**Example of what to say:**
"○○-chan will pray with me,
I'm sure God will protect the baby."
**Okuizome: "Teacher of how to eat"**
**Older child's role:**
- Demonstrate how to say "Aah"
- Prepare your own special celebration meal
- Tell your baby it's delicious
**Ingenious ideas:**
Prepare a special meal for your older child.
As a "first meal for older brothers and sisters"
Arrange your favorite side dishes in a luxurious manner.
**First Festival: "Brothers and Sisters Celebrating Together"**
**Older child's role:**
- Help decorate the dolls
- Explain the meaning of festivals to your baby
- Celebrate your older child's festival at the same time
**Ingenious ideas:**
As a "Siblings' Festival,"
The older child's Hina dolls and May dolls are also displayed together.
A grand celebration for two.
**Half Birthday: "Recorder of Growth"**
**Older child's role:**
- Help decorate the baby food cake
- Celebrate your baby's growth together
- Assistant photographer for "X month commemorative photo shoot"
**Ingenious ideas:**
A celebration for the eldest child's age of ○ years and ○ months will also be held at the same time.
Record your siblings' growth side by side.
**1st Birthday: "Celebration Party Host"**
**Older child's role:**
- Cheerleader carrying a rice cake
- Pick-up item explainer
- Blow out the cake fire together
**Ingenious ideas:**
Give your older child a "XXth Birthday (revenge version)"
They will be held together, like a double birthday celebration.
What to do when your older child is in a bad mood
No matter how much effort you put in,
Older children can get sulky sometimes.
**The magic words for times like this:**
"Even when ○○-chan was a baby,
This is how we celebrated.
Next time, I'll post a picture of ○○-chan when she was a baby.
Shall we watch it together?」
**Effective Responses:**
1. Don't dismiss your older child's feelings.
"I've missed you, I know."
2. Create special time for your older child.
"Once the baby takes a nap, let's have some alone time with XX-chan."
3. **Give specific praise to your older child for their progress**
"You've become so kind since becoming a big brother (sister)"
Photography tips
**Filming techniques that make everyone shine:**
- **Also take a photo with the older child in the foreground**
- Always take photos of just your siblings
- Record the older child soothing the baby
- Don't forget to take a photo of mom and her older child.
**Considerations when creating albums:**
- Create a page for your older child for each event.
- Also includes "Big Brother and Big Sister's Growth Record"
- Includes lots of shots of siblings getting along well
Tips for efficient preparation
If you have siblings, preparations are a lot of work.
But if you get your older child involved,
It's going to be a fun preparation time.
**Older children can help with:**
- Preparing decorations
- Photo selection
- Baby monitoring
- Greeting guests
"○○-chan will help me,
It's going to be a wonderful celebration!"
The happy face of the older child when he heard that was
It will surely be a great commemorative photo.
It's only because we have siblings that we can have such a strong bond.
A special love and bond.
The monthly events that we all create together are
It will become a treasure for the whole family.
A mother's love remains unchanged even as times change.
New bonds in the online age
Even if we are far apart, our hearts are close
How to hold a remote lunar calendar event that will impress even distant family members
"To my grandparents too
I want to see my grandchildren grow up,
It's far away and it's difficult to get them to come..."
"We can't gather because of the coronavirus,
My desire to celebrate with everyone remains unchanged."
New worries for modern moms.
But with the help of technology,
Beyond physical distance
You can send love.
**Even if we are apart, our hearts are one.**
A new form of such a warm lunar event
I have a suggestion.
Benefits of online lunar events
First of all, because it is held online
Let's take a look at the special value that can be created.
**1. Anyone can participate**
- Elderly grandparents who have difficulty moving around
- Relatives living abroad
- Family members who are unable to go out due to poor health
- Relatives who are busy at work
**2. Records are kept**
- Video call recording function
- All participants' responses are recorded
- You can watch it again and again later
**3. Easy to prepare**
- No need for deep cleaning
- No need to prepare a lot of food
- No transportation or accommodation costs required
**4. Baby Pace**
- Feel free to stop even if you cry during the lesson
- Adjusts to fit nap times
- Participate in a comfortable environment
Online event ideas by event
**Oshichiya Online: "Let's all reveal our names"**
**How it will be held:**
1. Share a photo of the naming certificate in advance
2. Officially unveiled via video call
3. Have everyone call out their names
4. Mom and Dad announce the meaning behind the name
**Things to prepare:**
- Smartphone or tablet
- Naming certificate
- Baby's favorite clothes
**Impressive points:**
Even through the screen, my grandparents
"○○-chan, that's a nice name"
A moment that brings tears to your eyes.
**Omiyamairi Online: "Let's all visit together"**
**How it will be held:**
1. Live streaming of shrine visits
2. Share your prayers with your family
3. Commemorative photo session after worship
4. Discuss your impressions after returning home
**Key features:**
- Check with the shrine for permission beforehand
- Advance explanations to avoid interruptions in the audio
- Use a tripod or smartphone stand for stable shooting
**Okuizome Online: "A Dinner Party for Everyone"**
**How it will be held:**
1. Each household starts eating at the same time
2. Let's all support the baby's "Aaan"
3. Participants toast together
4. Introducing dishes and sharing how to make them
**Preparation:**
- Participating families will also be asked to prepare a simple celebratory meal.
- Share recipes in advance
- Sending explanatory materials on the meaning of the teething stone
**First Doll Festival Online: "Doll Unveiling"**
**How it will be held:**
1. Live broadcast of Hina dolls and May dolls decorations
2. Learn about the origins and meanings of dolls as a family
3. Show off your baby's special outfit
4. Listen to participants' wishes for the future
**Special Feature:**
Asking grandparents to share their memories of festivals from the past
"XX Family Festival Tradition Talk" Corner
**Half Birthday Online: "Growth Report Session"**
**How it will be held:**
1. Present a slideshow of your child's progress over the past six months
2. Live broadcast of making baby food cake
3. Demonstrate what you can do
4. Compare handprint and footprint growth on the screen
**Participatory planning:**
- "XX-chan Quiz" (Guess your height and weight game)
- Let's all say "Happy 6 months!" together
**1st Birthday Online: "Birthday Party for Everyone"**
**How it will be held:**
1. One-Year Growth Movie Screening
2. Cheer on the Issho Mochi Carrying Team
3. Real-time announcement of selection results
4. Congratulatory messages from participants
**Surprise Plan:**
Deposited in advance from participants
Edit and screen a congratulatory video message
Technical points for success
**1. Ensure a stable internet environment**
- Check your Wi-Fi connection
- Make a test call in advance
- Prepare a spare device
**2. Choose an app that's easy to use**
- Zoom, LINE, FaceTime, etc.
- Easy to use even for grandparents
- Instructions for use in advance
**3. Tips for improving the image quality**
- In a place with natural light
- Adjust the camera height
- Clear the background
**4. Improved audio quality**
- In a quiet environment
- Use earphones with a microphone
- Use the mute feature for participants
A surprise that moved all participants
**1. Digital Gifts**
- A photo album of your child's growth will be sent to you in advance
- Handmade video message
- Online shared albums
**2. Simultaneous Experience**
- Pre-order the same snacks and eat them together
- Matching commemorative gift will be mailed to you later
- We all sing the same song
**3. Sharing memories**
- Baby photos of participants are also included
- Time to reflect on family history
- Talk about your dreams for the future
New bonds are born only online
**Participant impressions (examples):**
"Even through the screen, I could really see my grandchildren growing up.
I'm so happy to see you every month.
I'm so happy." (Grandmother in her 70s)
"I'm thrilled to be able to participate even though I'm overseas.
Even though there is a time difference, the love between family members remains the same."
(Aunt living overseas)
"It's easy to prepare and we can go at the baby's pace.
On the contrary, I was able to relax." (Mom)
Physical distance doesn't matter.
What's important is the distance between our hearts.
Online lunar events are:
As a new way to express your love,
The standard for the future
It may become like this.
**Even as technology advances,
My feelings for my family will never change.**
Such warm feelings,
Want to deliver in a new way?
The love for our children will be eternal if we give it a concrete form.
From the seventh night to the first birthday,
Through these 12 lunar events,
Your love will surely reach my child's heart.
No perfect preparation or expensive items are required.
What's important is,
"It's just a mother's honest wish for her child's happiness."
20 years later, 30 years later,
When my grown-up child looks back,
"My mom raised me with such love."
Memories that make you feel that way,
Let's start making it together today.
The lunar events filled with your love,
I hope it will become a treasured item for your family.