Should I celebrate my newborn baby's first festival at 2 months or 11 months? Hina dolls and May dolls
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First Doll Festival: 2 months vs 11 months?
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When should I celebrate my child's first festival?
"A 2-month-old baby is completely different from an 11-month-old baby..."
For moms with such questions.
I want to give my newborn child the best love I can.
I understand that feeling all too well.
But did you know?
・The way to celebrate the first festival changes completely depending on the baby's age in months
- The impact on a daughter's life is different depending on whether she chooses a three-tiered display or an Imperial Prince display.
・Family relationships can be ruined over the issue of "who will buy it"
A doll maker who has worked with 3,000 parent-child pairs over the past 30 years is certain of one thing.
This means that "a first Doll Festival filled with love will resonate with a child's heart 1000 times more than a perfect first Doll Festival ."
This guide is not about teaching you the "correct way" to celebrate your first festival.
The real reason why you need that doll ,
It's a way to express love that is "true to your family."
By the time you finish reading,
A deep understanding of "Oh, so that's what it meant"
With the sense of security that "We can do this too,"
Your feelings for your beloved child will surely become deeper and more certain.
What is the first Doll Festival?
The next big expression of affection after the shrine visit
Pray for the baby's healthy growth
A special day to express your feelings for your child
What exactly does the first festival involve?
I often get asked this question by mothers who have just finished their baby's shrine visit.
In fact, the first festival is the last of the three major celebrations for babies, following the Shichi-ya and shrine visit .
It is also a special event where parental love is most tangible .
[The true meaning of the first festival]
The first festival is the first festival a baby celebrates after being born.
・Girls : March 3rd, Girls' Day (Doll Festival)
Boys : May 5th (Children's Day)
But it's not just a "day of celebration."
"May this child grow up healthy, beautiful, and strong."
It is the day when parents realise their deepest hopes for their child's future.
[Difference from Omiya-mairi]
"How is it different from a shrine visit?"
Many moms have this question.
Shrine visit :
・Gratitude for "Thank you for being born safely"
・Report to God and ask for protection
・Rite of passage around one month after birth
First festival :
・Wishes about "what kind of child you want to grow up to be"
・Celebrate your child's future as a family
・"Growth Celebration" for babies aged 2 to 11 months
In other words, if the shrine visit is a way of expressing gratitude for the past, the first festival is a way of expressing wishes for the future .
[Characteristics of the modern first festival]
Unlike in the past, the modern Hatsu-Sekku has the following characteristics:
1. There are big differences depending on the baby's age
A 2-month-old baby and an 11-month-old baby
What you can do and what you need to be careful about are completely different.
2. Customize it to suit your family's style
There are no strict rules like in the past,
"Family-like expressions of affection" are emphasized.
3. Cherish the memories
Photography, handprints, footprints, growth records, etc.
It is popular to keep "memories of this day" in a tangible form.
[What is truly important for the first festival]
I have seen many families over the past 30 years and I have come to realize something.
"Rather than a luxurious first festival, a first festival filled with love is better.
It is deeply engraved in the minds of children.”
Because when the children grow up and look back,
What I remember is not the splendor of the Hina dolls and May dolls ,
"My mom and dad loved me so much."
Because it's a warm feeling .
[Preparing for the first festival]
That's why the most important thing about the first festival is:
✅It 's okay not to aim for perfection
Your baby's health and well-being is your top priority.
✅ Cherish the family atmosphere
There is no need to compare your home with other homes.
✅The most important thing is to show love
Choose something that is heartfelt rather than an expensive doll.
✅ Make efforts to keep records
Cherish the time you have with your baby now.
The first Doll's Festival for my beloved child.
It doesn't have to be perfect or luxurious,
The first festival filled with your love is
It will be the best gift for your child.
Let's work together to create a wonderful first Doll Festival.
When is the first festival?
Which is better: 2 months old vs 11 months old?
Baby development changes depending on birth month
A reasonable celebration according to the age of the baby
"When should I celebrate my child's first festival?"
This really depends on the month your baby was born .
Even if it's the same first festival:
・Girls born in January : Girls' Day at 2 months old
・Girls born in April : Girls' Day at 11 months old
This is completely different, right?
For 30 years, I have witnessed the first festivals of babies of various ages.
I have come to realize that the best celebration is one that is tailored to the baby's age .
I will lovingly tell you exactly how it differs.
[First Festival for babies aged 2-4 months]
★Characteristics of babies at this stage
・The baby's head is not yet strong enough (it will be strong enough in 3-4 months)
-Feed every 2-3 hours
-Spend most of the day sleeping
I'm not used to the outside world yet
★Recommended for this time of year for first festival celebrations
A quiet and peaceful celebration is best.
・Celebration with just family
-Complete in a short time (1-2 hours)
- Prioritize your baby's feeding and nap time
・Photoshoot at your baby's pace
【merit】
- Less physical strain on mothers
・Even if the baby cries, they will understand by saying, "He's still small."
・Photos of her with dolls make her look adorable in her small size
[Notes]
・Avoid going out for long periods of time
・Avoid places where many people gather
・Mum's postpartum recovery is the top priority
[First Festival for 8-11 month olds]
★Characteristics of babies at this stage
・Can sit up (6-8 months)
・They may be starting to become shy around strangers.
・Baby food has started
- Rich facial expressions and fun reactions
★Recommended for this time of year for first festival celebrations
You can have a celebration that everyone can enjoy .
・Dinner party with grandparents
・A slightly longer celebration of 3 to 4 hours
・Commemorative photo taken while sitting
・You can also enjoy dishes such as chirashi sushi
【merit】
- Enjoy watching your baby's reactions
・The photo of her sitting down is cute
・You can celebrate with the whole family
Easy to remember
[Notes]
・May become shy and cry
・Need to adjust nap time
・Consider baby food time
[The question, "Wouldn't next year be okay?"]
sometimes,
"Two months is too early, so maybe we should wait until next year..."
Some mothers are worried about this.
But wait a minute.
What you lose by delaying the first festival :
・Celebrating your 0th birthday is a once in a lifetime event
・A special feeling of "celebrating the year you were born"
・An opportunity to convey the love of the whole family early on
It's true that a two-month-old baby may not remember things.
However, the "family love" that remains in photos and videos ,
It will become an invaluable treasure when your child grows up.
[Best celebration plan by age]
2-4 months :
- A quiet celebration with just the family
- Mainly photography
- Short duration (1-2 hours)
5-7 months :
- Small group dinner
- Sitting photo challenge
- Medium time (2-3 hours)
8-11 months :
- A full-scale celebration with grandparents invited
- Lots of commemorative photos
- Long-term use (3-4 hours) is OK
[Important things in common at any time]
Regardless of the age, the most important thing about the first festival is:
"Baby First" Mindset
・Baby's health is the top priority
・A reasonable schedule
・Consideration for mom's fatigue
・"You're in a bad mood today" is also a fond memory
Each first festival at each age has its own special beauty.
The important thing is to cherish the baby's developmental stage at that time,
It's about cherishing that moment with the whole family .
When should you start preparing for the first festival?
Differences between pregnancy and postpartum
The feeling of "for this child" is the most important
Preparations that prioritize mom's health
When should I start preparing for my first festival?
"Should I prepare during pregnancy? Or is it okay to do it after giving birth?"
For my beloved child, "I want to prepare properly and early."
That's how you feel, isn't it?
But take a deep breath.
After seeing so many mothers over the past 30 years, I'm certain of one thing.
"The depth of love is far more important than the speed of preparation."
And, "the mother's physical health and peace of mind are the top priority."
[Preparation during pregnancy]
★Benefits of Preparing During Pregnancy
・Take your time and choose slowly
・If your morning sickness has subsided and you are in a stable period, you will feel at ease.
・The joy of choosing something while thinking about your baby
・You don't have to worry about being busy after giving birth
★ Recommended preparation period
The best time is between 5 and 7 months of pregnancy (the stable period) .
Morning sickness has subsided
My belly isn't that big yet
・You can know the gender and make more specific choices
・"The last relaxing time" before giving birth
★Preparation precautions during pregnancy
❌Don't push yourself too hard
On days when you're not feeling well, rest instead of preparing.
❌Don't carry heavy objects
Simply browse to choose your doll and leave the delivery to the store.
❌Don't strive for perfection
There are many adjustments you can make after giving birth.
[Preparation after childbirth]
★Benefits of postpartum preparation
・You can choose while looking at the actual baby
・You can actually measure and decide the space in your home.
- You can decorate it taking into account the baby's age.
・You can prepare at your baby's pace without rushing
★Time to prepare for postpartum
[Girls (Peach Festival on March 3rd)]
・Born in December : 2 months old → Preparation begins around mid-January
・Baby born in January : 1 month old → Preparation begins around early February
・February birth : A few weeks after birth → Preparation recommended before birth
[Boys (Tango no Sekku, May 5th)]
・February birth : 2 months old → preparation begins around mid-March
・Born in March : 1 month old → Preparation begins around early April
・April birth : A few weeks after birth → Preparation recommended before birth
★Points to note when preparing for postpartum
❌Avoid within one month after giving birth
Mom's health and taking care of the baby are the top priorities.
❌ Don't rush into making a choice
Even if you don't have much time, it's important to choose with love.
❌Don't keep it all to yourself
Get your dad and family involved.
[When you think, "It's too late..."]
it's okay!
Even if you choose your doll with love a week before the first festival,
It will be a wonderful first Doll Festival .
In fact, in our store:
・Late February for the Girls' Festival
・Boys' Day in late April
Even at this time, many mothers
I've come across a doll that I think is perfect for my child .
The most important thing in preparation
There are far more important things than timing.
It's about "putting love into it."
・A doll prepared three months in advance
- A doll that was hastily chosen a week ago
Both are filled with a lot of love from their mother.
It will be the best first festival for your child.
[Example of preparation schedule]
If you want to prepare in advance :
- 5-6 months pregnant: Information gathering and observation
- 7-8 months pregnant: specific choices and purchases
- After the birth: Decorations and preparations for the day
If you are preparing after giving birth :
- 1-2 months after giving birth: Gathering information
- One month before the first festival: Visit, select, and purchase
- One week before the first festival: Decorations and final preparations
[Finally, an important message]
The most important thing when preparing for the first festival is
It's not about "when to start."
"How much love can you put into it?"
You can look forward to preparing for it while you are pregnant,
You can choose after giving birth while looking at your baby,
Both are wonderful expressions of love.
Mom's physical condition and peace of mind come first,
Please start preparing for your child's first Doll Festival with lots of love.
Choosing a Girl's Hina Doll
Three-tiered display vs. Imperial display?
A lifetime gift filled with love for my daughter
Smart criteria for choosing based on living environment and budget
"Which Hina doll should I choose for my daughter?"
For my daughter, whom I have loved so much since she was in my womb,
Every mom wants to choose the best for her child.
But when I went to the Hina doll section,
I don't really understand the difference between the "three-tiered display" and the "prince display"...
Most moms are like that.
In fact, this choice is deeply connected to "my wishes for my daughter's future."
[Parents' wishes contained in the three-tiered display]
The three-tiered display includes the Emperor and Empress dolls,
She is accompanied by three court ladies .
These three ladies-in-waiting are actually not just decorations.
"I hope that my daughter will be loved and supported by many people in the future and be happy."
This is a deep wish that is embedded in the name.
It has long been said that "children who are blessed with good friends will have a richer life."
The three ladies-in-waiting represent exactly those "companions who support one's life."
[The true meaning of the Imperial Prince's decorations]
On the other hand, the Imperial Prince and Princess decorations are a world exclusive to the Emperor and Empress.
This represents the "deep bond between husband and wife" and "a special relationship with a loved one."
"I hope that in the future my daughter will meet a partner she can truly love and form a deep bond with."
It is filled with the wishes of parents.
"But which one should I choose?"
Actually, there is no correct answer.
What matters is what kind of life you want your daughter to have .
Loved by many people,
Surrounded by many friends,
I want you to live a lively and fun life
→ Three-tiered display
Meeting the person of your destiny,
Bound by deep love,
I want to build a peaceful and happy family
→ Prince's decoration
[Realistic selection criteria]
However, there are practical issues to consider as well.
If you choose based on your living environment :
・There is a permanent space in the living room → 3-tiered display
・Storage is important・Compactness desired → Imperial Prince decoration
If you're choosing on a budget :
・Budget over 100,000 yen → Three-tiered display is also an option
・Budget of 50,000-100,000 yen → We recommend the Imperial Prince decorations
If you are considering future inheritance :
・I want to pass it on to my daughter → Imperial Prince decoration (easy to manage)
・Treasure it for your grandchildren's generations → 3-tiered display (formal)
[Advice from craftsmen]
After making Hina dolls for 30 years, I am certain of one thing.
"Rather than an expensive three-tiered display, a lovingly selected Imperial Prince display is better.
It will remain deeply in your daughter's heart."
Because the true value of Hina dolls is
Because it shows how much love the parents put into it .
Every year around the time of Hinamatsuri,
"Mommy picked it out for you."
We decorate it together while talking about this.
Those moments will become the most precious "memories of love" for your daughter.
What's important isn't the number of steps or the price.
"A mother's love for her child's happiness."
Whatever you choose, your feelings will definitely be conveyed to your daughter.
Please be safe and choose according to your heart.
Choosing a Boy's May Doll
The difference between helmets, armor, and general decorations
Wishes for my son's future
Parents' desire for their children to grow up to be strong and kind men
"Which May doll should I choose for my son?"
For your beloved son, "I want him to grow up to be a fine man."
May dolls are chosen with such wishes in mind.
But what is the difference between Kabuto decoration, Yoroi decoration and Taisho decoration ?
In fact, I think there are many mothers who don't really understand this.
In fact, the "wishes for men" that are contained in each one are completely different.
Thirty years as a craftsman, twenty years as a father of a son,
We will wholeheartedly tell you the difference.
[Wishes contained in helmet ornaments]
The helmet was an important piece of armor that protected the head (brain) on the battlefield.
In other words, the helmet ornament is
"Please protect and nurture my son's wisdom and judgment."
This is the wish that is embedded in it.
In modern terms:
・A man who can make calm decisions even in difficult situations
・For people who can use their brains effectively in both study and work
・The wisdom to make important decisions in life
It is compact, easy to manage and ideal for modern living environments .
[Wishes embedded in armor decorations]
Armor is a complete set of armor that protects a warrior's entire body .
For armor decoration,
"Please protect my son's mind, body, and everything else, and raise him to be strong."
This wish is embedded in the name.
In modern terms:
・Be healthy both physically and mentally, and have the strength to overcome difficulties
・To become a reliable man who can protect his family.
- People who have a strong sense of responsibility and can demonstrate leadership
It is a dignified and impressive decoration.
[The wishes contained in the general's decorations]
The distinctive feature of the Taisho decoration is that the doll's face is visible .
this is,
"I hope my son's character will grow into a fine person."
This is the most human wish ever.
In modern terms:
・For men who are full of personal charm
・Be a person who is loved and trusted by those around you
・To become the ideal man who combines kindness and strength
The dolls have friendly facial expressions, making them easy for children to become attached to .
"Which one is best for my child?"
This is a question that worries every mom.
The answer actually lies within your heart.
Looking at his son,
Imagine what kind of man you want him to be .
I want him to grow up to be a smart, intelligent man.
→ Helmet ornament
I want him to grow up to be a strong and reliable man.
→ Armor decoration
I want him to grow up to be a man with an attractive personality.
→ General decoration
[Points to consider when making realistic choices]
If you prioritize living environment :
・Condominiums and apartments → Kabuto ornaments
・Detached house・Spacious living room → Armor decoration・General decoration
If you're on a budget :
・50,000-80,000 yen → Helmet ornament
・80,000-150,000 yen → General decoration
・Over 150,000 yen → Armor decoration
If you prioritize interacting with children :
・Focus on friendliness → Chef decoration
・Emphasis on formality and tradition → Armor decoration
・Simple and practical → Kabuto ornament
[Honest opinions from craftsmen]
I have been making May dolls for 30 years.
I have seen many families and I feel the same way.
"A helmet ornament chosen with love is better than an expensive armor ornament.
It will remain deeply in your son's heart."
Because the true value of May dolls is
This is because of the parental love that is put into it .
Every year on Children's Day,
"Mom and Dad chose you because they wanted you to grow up to be a strong and kind man."
We decorate it together as we talk.
At that moment, my son felt
It's not the splendor of the May dolls,
It's the depth of love between mom and dad .
Whichever May doll you choose,
I will definitely pass that on to my son.
"I hope this child grows into a fine man."
That pure wish is the greatest gift.
Who buys Hina dolls and May dolls?
Modern common sense
Resolving disputes between grandparents and parents
Peace-making techniques that unite everyone's love
Who buys Hina dolls?
"My mother-in-law said, 'We'll buy it,' but we want to choose it ourselves..."
"Both of my parents keep asking me to buy it for them..."
Although they are Hina dolls and May dolls for my beloved children,
There are so many moms who feel uneasy about who will buy it .
But it's okay.
With 30 years of experience seeing thousands of families,
We will tell you the solution that will make everyone smile .
[Old common sense vs. modern common sense]
First, you should know:
"The common sense of the past is no longer relevant today."
Old common sense :
・Hina dolls are purchased by the mother's family
・May dolls are purchased by the "paternal family"
・The family takes responsibility for their married daughter
But in modern times:
・Nuclear families are the norm, and the distance between parents is changing.
・Dual income improves the couple's financial strength
・It's natural to want to choose for yourself
[Three modern "new common sense" patterns]
Currently, the three most common patterns are:
Pattern 1: Purchased by a married couple (approximately 40%)
"It's our child, so we want to choose it ourselves."
It's the least stressful and most flexible option.
Pattern 2: Financial support from grandparents (approximately 35%)
This is a modern style where the couple makes the choice and the funds are provided by the grandparents.
It's a great way to bring everyone's ideas to life.
Pattern 3: Purchasing by role (approximately 25%)
"The Hina dolls are from the mother's side, and the celebratory food is from the father's side," etc.
It's a smart way to spread the load.
[The "magic words" that avoid conflict]
Whatever pattern you choose,
It is important to communicate in a way that does not destroy family relationships .
When telling grandparents you want to choose for yourself :
❌ "We'll buy it for you, so it's fine."
→ You may feel rejected and your relationship may deteriorate.
⭐ "For ○○-chan (baby's name),
Why don't we all choose together?
Leave the money to us."
→ Show your independence while acknowledging your love
When both parents want to buy :
⭐ "I'm really happy that everyone loves ○○-chan.
The Hina dolls go to the ○○ family, and the celebrations go to the △△ family.
I would like to ask each of you a favor..."
By dividing up the roles, everyone can participate.
[When someone says, "It's a waste of money"]
sometimes,
"You don't have to spend that much..."
It is sometimes said that...
In that case, try saying this:
"When ○○-chan grows up,
"Everyone loved me so much"
I want you to feel that way.
Hina dolls (May dolls)
It is the embodiment of our love,
I think it will be a lifelong treasure for ○○-chan."
[Common traits of "happy families" as seen by artisans]
Over the past 30 years, I have met so many families.
For families who had good family relationships when choosing Hina dolls and May dolls,
There was one thing in common.
it is,
Rather than "Who will buy it," it's "What kind of feelings can be put into it?"
What I valued was this.
"Let's all pray for ○○-chan's happiness."
With this feeling at the center,
Naturally, a good solution will be found.
[Most important thing]
Hina dolls and May dolls are
"It's a representation of family love."
Rather than who bought it,
The more love that goes into it ,
It's far more important.
When your child grows up,
"Everyone loved me."
Make sure your child's first Doll Festival is one that makes them feel that way.
To all of you who make loving choices,
I'm rooting for you from the bottom of my heart.
Why not make your child's first Doll Festival filled with love?
We will wholeheartedly support you in choosing a special Hina doll or May doll that will embody your feelings for your child.
Our craftsmen, with 30 years of experience, will help you find the perfect item for your family.
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How to spend the first festival day?
Baby Safety Plan by Month
There's a big difference between a 2-month-old and a 10-month-old.
A day that takes into account breastfeeding and nap times
"How should I spend the first festival day?"
"I'm worried about whether my baby will be in a good mood..."
Because it is my beloved child's special day,
You want to make it the best day ever .
But don't worry.
After 30 years of observing babies of various ages celebrate their first Doll's Festival, I am certain of one thing.
"A day where your baby feels safe is better than a perfect day.
It will be a much better memory.”
We will lovingly share with you specific plans based on your child's age.
[Baby aged 2 to 4 months]
★Plans that take advantage of the characteristics of this season
・Feeding interval: Every 2-3 hours
・Nap: 14 to 16 hours a day
・Going out: Possible for short periods
Mood: Cry when hungry, sleep when full
[Recommended time schedule]
10:00 Good mood after breastfeeding
・Final confirmation of Hina dolls and May dolls decorations
・Commemorative photo with baby (main)
・Family photo shoot
11:00 Nap time
・Baby is taking a nap
・Adults prepare meals and talk
12:30 Breastfeeding & family meal
・After breastfeeding, adults have dinner
・Please hold your baby in your arms.
14:00 Thank you for your hard work
・Baby and mom take a break
・Finish within a reasonable range
[Key points for this period]
✅ Securing nursing rooms
✅ Diaper changing space available
✅ Room temperature adjustment (24-26 degrees)
✅ Maintain a quiet environment
[8-11 month old babies]
★Plans that take advantage of the characteristics of this season
・Feeding interval: Every 3 to 4 hours
・Nap: 12 to 14 hours a day
・Baby food: 2-3 meals
・Reaction: Shy, but expressive
[Recommended time schedule]
10:00 After morning baby food
・Commemorative photo taken at a good time
・A cute photo of you sitting down
・Best shot with the doll
11:30 Toast time
・Commemorative photo with grandparents
・Everyone can experience the baby's growth
12:00 Lunchtime baby food & adult dinner party
・Eat with your baby
・Sushi and celebratory dishes
・Lively family time
13:30 Nap time
・Baby is taking a nap
・Adults talk slowly
15:00 Snack time & additional photo shoot
・Baby snack time
・Photos with natural expressions
16:00 Good work
・Finished with a sense of satisfaction
[Key points for this period]
✅ Preparing baby food
✅ Measures to deal with shyness (give them time to get used to it)
✅ Safety measures (as you move around a lot)
✅ Preparing toys
[The secret to success for all ages]
1. Baby-first mindset
・Baby's mood is the top priority
・Even if you cry, think of it as a "lovely memory"
Don't force a smile
2. Mom's health is also a top priority
・Consideration for postpartum fatigue
Don't aim for perfection
・Don't hesitate to ask others for help
3. Prepare the day before
・On the day, focus on spending time with your baby
・Create a hassle-free environment
4. Memories are more important than records
Don't get too carried away with taking photos
・Cherish the "present moment" with your baby
[When you think "It didn't work out..."]
If things don't go as planned on the day, that's okay.
The baby was crying all the time
I couldn't take the photos I wanted.
・It didn't go as planned
Even on such a day, it is a "first Doll Festival filled with love."
because,
"I wanted to do my best for this child" - that feeling is what
Because it's more important than anything.
[Message from the craftsman]
Over the past 30 years, I have witnessed many first Doll Festival celebrations.
The most memorable thing wasn't the "perfect first festival,"
"It was a first Doll Festival filled with love."
Even if the baby is crying
Even if mom is busy,
The feeling that everyone in the family "loves this child"
The first Doll Festival that is conveyed is the most beautiful.
Please rest assured and enjoy your first Doll's Festival in a way that is uniquely yours .
Tips for taking photos of your child's first festival
The best photo of a baby and a doll
Whether you cry or laugh, you're adorable
Best timing and photography techniques for each age
"I want to make sure the photos of my child's first festival are adorable!"
"But I'm worried about whether the baby will stay still..."
Because it is my beloved child's special day,
You probably think, "I want to leave behind the cutest photos."
But did you actually know?
"A natural expression is better than a perfect smile,
It really resonates with me when I look back on it later."
From my 30 years of experience looking at thousands of photos of first festivals,
We will teach you how to take truly valuable photos .
[Best timing for photo shoots by age]
★Baby aged 2 to 4 months
[Best timing]
・30 minutes to 1 hour after breastfeeding
・When you're full and in a good mood
- Awake time before falling asleep
[Recommended poses]
Being held by mom
・Bust up in front of the doll
・Your sleeping face will also be an adorable keepsake.
・Composition that takes advantage of the small palm-sized size
[Shooting tips]
✅ Don't force a smile
✅ Use natural light (windows are best)
✅ Keep the room temperature warm (24-26°C)
✅ Intensive shooting in a short period of time
★Baby aged 8 to 11 months
[Best timing]
Immediately after waking up from a nap
・When your baby is in a good mood after weaning
・When you can get their attention with a toy
[Recommended poses]
- Front shot while sitting
・Comparison photo with the doll
- Natural crawling and standing posture
・Group photo of the whole family
[Shooting tips]
✅ Use toys and sounds to get their attention
✅ Use the continuous shooting function
✅ If you are shy, take your time
✅ Safety precautions as you move around a lot
[5 tips to take professional-quality photos with your smartphone]
1. Use light to your advantage
Natural light is the most beautiful
- Place the doll by the window so that the light hits it from the front.
- Avoid backlighting
- Cloudy days produce softer light
2. Clean background
・Avoid any objects that give off a sense of everyday life
-A wall or plain fabric as the background
・Composition that makes the doll the main character
3. Get at your baby's eye level
・Adults taking photos while crouching
- From the same height as the baby
Don't look down from above
4. Continuous shooting ensures you don't miss the decisive moment
- Take 10 photos with one shutter
- Choose the best shot later
- Enjoy the changes in facial expressions
5. The perfect distance between the doll and the baby
・A distance where you can almost touch the doll but can't.
・Composition that shows size comparison
・Safety is the top priority
[Photos like this are wonderful memories]
A perfect smile isn't the only good photo.
★Even the crying face is a lovely record
・"You were shy at the time."
・A valuable record of the growth process
・An opportunity to talk about family memories
★A puzzled expression
・An honest reaction of "What is this?"
- Baby-like natural facial expression
・I smile every time I look back
★Sleeping face
- Peaceful expression like an angel
・A composition that makes you feel like you are being protected by a doll
・Special cuteness only available at this time of year
Don't forget the family photos
I was obsessed with pictures of babies and dolls.
Family photos are often forgotten , but they are also important records.
★3-generation photo
・Three generations: grandparents, parents, and baby
・A precious photo that shows the bond between family members
Mom and Dad and Baby
・The emotional expression of a child celebrating their first festival
・A loving family
★If you have siblings
・The gentle expressions of my older brother and sister
・Warm photos of the whole family
[Tips for organizing and saving photos]
Important steps after shooting :
✅ Organize on the same day
・Select 10 to 20 of your best shots
・Delete similar photos boldly
✅ Multiple ways to save
Cloud services
・Printing (developing)
・Photo book creation
✅ Family sharing
I'll send it to my grandparents too.
・Everyone shares the same memories
The most important message
The most important thing about photography is
It's more about love than technique .
Even if the focus is a little blurry,
Even if the composition isn't perfect,
A photo that conveys the feeling "I love this child" is
It will be a treasured gift for your child's entire life.
Don't aim for perfection,
Be sure to capture the preciousness of that moment .
What should we do for the first festival?
Homemade vs. Delivery vs. Eating Out
A friendly choice for moms who are tired after giving birth
Love is conveyed through feelings rather than effort
"What should I cook for the first festival...?"
"I wonder if I should make it myself? But I'm tired after giving birth..."
"Is it a lack of love to get it delivered or ordered from a store?"
Because it is my beloved child's special day,
You probably think, "I want to celebrate with proper food."
But wait a minute.
After seeing so many mothers over the past 30 years, I'm certain of one thing.
"Mom's smile is better than homemade food,
It's 1000 times better for the baby."
We will provide you with realistic options that are gentle on mothers who are tired after giving birth.
[Modern moms' first festival cooking]
First of all, I want you to rest assured that
"Not everyone makes things by hand that much."
Recent data :
・Completely handmade : Approximately 20%
・Combination of handmade items, delivery, and purchase : Approximately 50%
・Mainly delivery and eating out : Approximately 30%
In other words, 80% of moms are taking shortcuts .
[Option 1: Completely handmade]
★Recommended for moms like this
・I'm good at cooking and I like it
Complete recovery after giving birth
・Full family support
・You have plenty of time
★Homemade menu example
[Girls' Girls' Festival]
・Chirashi sushi
・Clam soup
・Chawanmushi
・Sakura mochi
[Boys - Children's Day]
・Chimaki
・Carp streamer omelet rice
・Simmered bamboo shoots
・Oak leaf mochi
★The benefits of handmade
- Adaptable to family preferences
・A sense of accomplishment and satisfaction
・You can understand the safety of ingredients
★Notes
❌ Don't aim for perfection
❌ Don't push yourself too hard the day before
❌ Don't be afraid of failure
[Option 2: A smart combination of homemade and delivery]
★Most popular style
"Main dishes are delivered, and sides are homemade."
★Combination examples
・Chirashi sushi : Order via delivery
・Clear soup : Use instant soup
・Salad : Easy to make
・Dessert : Purchased at a Japanese confectionery shop
★Advantages of this style
・Enjoy the handmade feel
Save time and effort
- Low risk of failure
・Lighter burden on mothers
★ Recommended "cutting corners"
✅ Dashi : Use commercially available dashi packs
✅ Chirashi sushi ingredients : Commercially available chirashi sushi seasoning
✅ Chawanmushi : Use a microwave-safe base
✅Japanese sweets : leave it to the professionals
[Option 3: Mainly delivery and eating out]
★Recommended for moms like this
・Postpartum fatigue still remains
・I'm not confident in cooking
・Your hands are full with taking care of your baby
・The philosophy of "leave it to the experts"
★Benefits of delivery and eating out
・Professional taste and absolutely delicious
・You can spend time with your baby
No need to worry about failure
・Easy to clean up afterwards
★Recommended delivery and dining options
・Catering from a long-established Japanese restaurant
・Hotel delivery service
・Celebration bento from the department store basement
・Dinner party at a Japanese restaurant
[The worry that cutting corners means a lack of love]
Sometimes I hear moms say things like:
"Does it mean that we lack love if we just get it delivered or bought from a store?"
The answer is absolutely NO.
because:
Love cannot be measured by effort
・Food chosen with my child in mind
・A choice that brings smiles to the whole family
That is true love
✅Mom 's smile is the most important thing
・From a tired and frustrated mom
・Moms who are relaxed and smiling are better
・Great for babies
✅Professional cooking is really delicious
・Food prepared by professional chefs
・The whole family is satisfied
・A special feeling
[Tips for choosing meals by age]
★For babies aged 2 to 4 months
・Mum's recovery is the top priority
・Consider breastfeeding intervals
・Actively utilize delivery services and stores
★For babies aged 8 to 11 months
・Consider baby food as well
・Menu that babies can enjoy together
・This is a good time to try making something by hand.
The most important thing in cooking
The most important thing about cooking for the first festival is
It's not about whether it's handmade or not.
"The whole family can eat it with a smile."
Whether it's homemade, delivered, or eaten out,
If you have the feeling of "to celebrate this child,"
All of these dishes are "first festival dishes made with love."
[Advice from craftsmen]
I have seen many families over the past 30 years and I have come to realize something.
From a mom who is exhausted from cooking too hard:
Mothers who can face their babies with ease,
It has become a much more wonderful first Doll Festival.
More than perfect cooking,
Choose the perfect smile .
Your love is
It's not the hassle of cooking,
It is revealed in the feelings we have for our children .
Should I invite my grandparents or not?
How to resolve differences in values
The first festival of the year has changed due to the COVID-19 pandemic
A new common sense that values family ties
"Should I invite my grandparents to the first festival?"
"But we have different values, so I'm worried that we might have arguments..."
"I'm still worried about the coronavirus, what should I do...?"
Because it is my beloved child's special day,
You probably think, "I want everyone to celebrate, but I also want to live in peace."
But don't worry.
After witnessing the first Doll Festivals of three generations over the past 30 years, I am certain of one thing.
"The important thing is not to be together,
That everyone loves my child."
We will show you modern ways to make everyone happy.
[New common sense for the first festival due to the COVID-19 pandemic]
** How we celebrate the first festival has changed significantly before and after COVID-19 **:
Pre-COVID :
・It's common for three generations to gather together
・Large group dinner parties
・Rushing from afar
The new normal after COVID-19
・Family health comes first
・Celebration with a small number of people
・Participate online
- Individual celebrations at different times
In other words, "choosing not to call" has become a great way to express affection .
[Solutions by pattern]
★ Pattern 1: When you want to get together with everyone
[Key points for success]
・Baby's health is the top priority
-Complete in a short time (2-3 hours)
Make a promise in advance
[Promises to be made in advance]
✅ You can pause if your baby cries
✅ Refrain from imposing outdated common sense
✅ Photoshoot at your baby's pace
✅ Take care of mom's health
★ Pattern 2: If you want to celebrate with a small number of people
[Recommended way to communicate]
❌ "Please don't come."
→ I feel rejected
⭐ "Since ○○-chan (baby's name) is still small,
This time I would like to celebrate quietly with just my family.
But I'll take lots of photos and videos and show them to you later."
[How to follow]
- Send photos of the day immediately
・Create an opportunity for individual celebration at a later date
・Make time for them to look at the Hina dolls and May dolls together
★ Pattern 3: Have participants participate online
[New participation style]
・Toasting via video call
- Real-time photo sharing
・Online commemorative photo
【merit】
You don't have to worry about the distance
No need to worry about your health
・You can participate at your baby's pace
Distant relatives can also participate
[What to do when someone says, "It's not the same as before"]
Common comments from grandparents:
"Things used to be better."
"Is it really that easy?"
"It's the first festival of the year."
[Example of a good response]
⭐ "Times have changed,
My feelings for you will never change.
In a way that suits the current era,
I want to convey everyone's love to XX-chan."
"It's certainly different from before.
However, considering your health and safety,
I think this is the best way.
I will make sure to convey to you the love of your grandparents."
[Magic words that overcome differences in values]
When conflict strikes, remember these words:
"Everyone loves you, right?"
With just this one word,
The mood changes from conflict to cooperation.
Then, follow up by saying:
"Even though the ways of expressing love are different,
My feelings towards ○○-chan are the same.
Let's all pray for ○○-chan's happiness."
[Specific methods for follow-up]
To the grandparents who could not attend on the day
Heartfelt Follow :
✅Give a photo album of the day
・Create a photo book with carefully selected photos
・Add warmth with comments
✅Create an opportunity for a separate celebration at a later date
Time just for grandparents
・Let them take their time to look at the Hina dolls and May dolls
✅Regular status updates
・Baby's growth
・Daily photos with Hina dolls and May dolls
The most important message
The most important thing about the first festival is
It's not a "form" but "love."
Even if you can't gather in large numbers,
Even if you can't do it the old-fashioned way,
If everyone feels that they love the baby ,
It will be the best first festival.
The important thing is:
・Baby's health and safety
・Mom's peace of mind
The love of the whole family
If these three are in place,
No matter what form the first festival takes, it will be a special day filled with love .
[Messages of support from craftsmen]
I've seen a lot of different families over the past 30 years.
The most beautiful first festival is not the day when everyone gathers together,
It was a day when everyone's love was felt.
Your choice is
May it bring happiness to the whole family.
Please rest assured and enjoy your first Doll's Festival in a way that is uniquely yours .
First Festival souvenir ideas
Treasure your growth record
Handprints, footprints, photos, messages
A record of love to look back on when you grow up
"I want to leave something special to commemorate the first festival."
"I want to make something other than Hina dolls and May dolls that will become memories."
Because it is my beloved child's special day,
You want to leave behind something that will make your child feel loved when they grow up .
I have noticed something after seeing many families over the past 30 years.
"What will make your child happiest when they become an adult?
A record that conveys the love of that time."
We will lovingly share with you memorable keepsake ideas.
[Classic but moving handprint and footprint art]
★The charm of handprints and footprints
・Record the smallness of that moment
Growth is clearly visible
・Even as an adult, it is moving
・Easy to make
★Stylish handprint and footprint ideas
[Cherry Blossom Petal Art] For Girls
・Make your handprint look like a cherry blossom petal
・Soft and cute with pink paint
・Record it as "XX-chan's small palm"
[Carp streamer art] For boys
・Handprint on the tail of the carp streamer
Colorful and lively impression
・Message: "Grow strong, XX-kun"
[Art made up of family hands]
・Dad, mom, and baby's hands together
・Expresses "family ties"
・Create a warm piece of work
★Tips for taking handprints and footprints
✅ When your baby is in a good mood
✅ Works even during naps
✅ Choose safe paints
✅ Be prepared to try again even if you fail
[A memorable "First Festival Letter"]
★Letter to my future child
[Example of what to write]
"To ○○-chan
Today is ○○-chan's first Doll Festival.
○○-chan, who is ○ months old, is still very small,
It fits perfectly in mommy's arms.
Today, for ○○-chan,
We put up the Hina dolls (May dolls) that Mom and Dad chose.
I hope that ○○-chan grows up healthy, beautiful (and strong),
With that wish in mind.
As ○○-chan grows up,
I look forward to the day you read this letter.
○○ year ○ month ○ day
From Mom and Dad
★ Letters from Grandpa and Grandma
A message of love to your grandchildren
Old stories and family history
・Expectations and wishes for the future
[Growth Record Photo Book]
★Record collection of "0-year-old ○○-chan"
[Ideas for recording content]
・Birth photo
・Photos of the Shichi-ya and shrine visit
・Photos from the first festival day
・Normal cute expression
・Photos with Hina dolls and May dolls
Add a comment to the photo
・"My baby is now ○ months old and can do ○○."
"He laughed a lot that day."
・"Do you look like your daddy? Or your mommy?"
[Time Capsule Box]
★Treasure chest to open in 20 years
[Ideas for what to put in]
・Photos of the first festival
・Handprints and footprints
・Letter from family
・Newspapers from that time (anniversary)
・Favorite toys
・First clothes I wore (small size)
[Expected opening date]
・20th birthday
・Coming-of-Age Day
When getting married
When a child is born
[Digital records are also utilized]
★Video message
・A message of love from mom and dad
・The first festival day
- Baby's crying and laughing
・"○○-chan, will you be watching over me in 20 years?"
★ Use a growth record app
- Accumulation of monthly photos
・Weight and height records
・Record of "the first time you did ____"
[Easy DIY souvenirs]
★Handmade commemorative plate
・Handprint on wooden plate
・Name and date of birth engraved
-Added the date of the first festival
★Original picture book
・A picture book in which the main character is my child
・Turn your memories of your first festival into a story
- Insert family photos
★Growth record board
- Take a photo at the same place every year
・Height measuring board
・Record as "XX-chan, age XX"
Important things to remember when making souvenirs
The most important thing when making a souvenir is to
It's not about perfection, it's about love .
✅It 's good to have a handmade feel
・Even if you're not a professional, your love will be conveyed.
・The value of "Mother made it for me"
✅ Remember your failures
・Even if you can't take a handprint properly
・It's a lovely record, including that.
✅There is meaning in continuing
- Not just one time, but annual records
・You can see the growth trajectory
[The excitement of seeing your child become an adult]
In fact, adults who saw the commemorative gifts for the first festival said,
Here's what we've heard:
"It was so small..."
"My parents loved me so much."
"She must have been raised with great care."
The souvenirs are
It will remain in your heart forever as a token of your love .
【lastly】
Whatever souvenir you make,
The "love" contained therein is
It will be the best treasure for your child.
Even if it's not perfect,
Even if it's not expensive,
This commemorative gift is filled with the thought, "For this child."
It will definitely reach your heart.
Making a keepsake full of love,
I hope you enjoy it.
When should you start preparing for next year's first festival?
A heart that senses the seasons
Passing on Japan's beautiful culture to my children
The joy of growing with the changing seasons
"This year's first festival is over, but what should we do next year?"
How should you celebrate when your child grows up?
We often get asked this question by mothers celebrating their child's first Doll's Festival.
In fact, the first festival doesn't happen just once.
As your child grows,
Every year brings different joys and discoveries ,
It's a wonderful annual event.
From my 30 years of experience seeing the aftermath of many families,
We will tell you how to enjoy the long-loved first Doll Festival .
[How to enjoy your first festival by age]
★Ages 1-2: The period when children want to touch and break things
Characteristics of this period:
・Want to touch everything
・Curious about Hina dolls and May dolls
But there is a high possibility of breaking it
How to enjoy this season
・Just display it in a high place and "look at" it
- Prepare small dolls for children
・Say things like "It's beautiful" or "It's cool"
・Realize growth through photography
★3-5 years old: "Let's decorate together"
Characteristics of this period:
・I love helping out
・Interested in the meaning of Hina dolls and May dolls
・Attachment to "my doll"
How to enjoy this season
・Decorate together
I'll tell you the name of the doll.
・"She's watching over you to make sure you grow up healthy."
・Sing Hinamatsuri and Children's Day songs together
★Ages 6-10: "Learning about traditions"
Characteristics of this period:
・Learn about seasonal festivals at school
・Interested in history and culture
・Comparison with friends begins
How to enjoy this season
・Explain the origin and meaning of festivals
・Try making Japanese sweets together
・"Grandpa and Grandma chose this for you."
・Conveying the beauty of Japanese culture
★After adolescence: A time to confirm family ties
Characteristics of this period:
・Interest in the first festival may wane
・But deep in my heart, I want to confirm my family's love.
Start thinking about the future
How to enjoy this season
・"Decorating every year is a family tradition"
・Look back at photos from the first festival together
・Convey how much love everyone has put into you
・New wishes for the future
[Annual preparation schedule]
★Girls (Peach Festival, March 3rd)
[Late January]
・Check the condition of the Hina dolls
・Maintain as needed
・Discuss with your family how to celebrate this year
[Early February]
・Decorating Hina dolls
・Have fun with your children
・"Let's have you watch over ○○-chan this year too."
[Mid-February to March 3]
・Spending time with the Hina dolls every day
・Singing Hinamatsuri songs
・A period in which you can feel your growth
[From March 4th onwards]
・Clean up the Hina dolls
・Keep it safe until next year
・Record your memories this year
★Boys (Tango no Sekku, May 5th)
[Late March]
・Check the condition of May dolls
・Preparing for carp streamers
Plan a celebration
[Early April]
・Decorating May dolls
・Say to your children, "Let's get stronger this year too!"
・If there are carp streamers, join them
[Mid-April to May 5th]
・Spending time with May dolls every day
・Singing the "Koinobori" song
・I feel he is growing as a boy
[From May 6th onwards]
・Clearing away May dolls
・Keep it safe for next year
・Keep a record of this year
Tips for continuing for a long time
1. Don't expect perfection
・It's okay even if you have a busy year
・"Display it when you can" is OK
・At the child's pace
2. Change as your child grows
- Find ways to have fun that are age-appropriate
Continue even if they don't seem interested
・One day you will feel grateful
3. Cherish your family memories
Take a photo every year
・Looking back on last year
・Build up a record of your growth
4. Cultivate a sense of seasonal sensitivity
・"Spring has come" "It's the season of fresh greenery"
・Conveying the beauty of Japan's four seasons
・The joy of living in harmony with the rhythm of nature
[Modern arrangement ideas]
★ Record your growth on social media
・Take a photo with the same composition every year
・Share with #FirstSekku #GrowthRecord
・Share with distant family members
★ Decide on a theme and enjoy
・This year, I'm trying my hand at making Japanese sweets.
・Next year, we'll take a commemorative photo wearing a kimono
There are new discoveries every year
★Bring your child's friends along too
・Girls' Festival Party
Children's Day gathering
・An opportunity to share Japanese culture
[Care for Hina Dolls and May Dolls]
★ Annual maintenance
- Dust off with a soft brush
- Display away from direct sunlight
・Store in a place with low humidity
★Tips for long-term storage
・Use an appropriate amount of insect repellent
・Ventilate once a year
・If you take good care of it, it will remain beautiful for decades.
[Passing on to the future]
★When your daughter or son becomes an adult
One day, your child will grow up and
The day will come when your own children (your grandchildren) are born.
At that time,
"The Hina doll that my grandma (grandfather) chose for me"
We can talk about this.
And the same Hina dolls and May dolls ,
You can watch over the next generation.
This is it.
This is the true value of the first Doll Festival .
[Cultivating a sense of seasonal sensitivity]
Today's children are
I often spend time in air-conditioned rooms,
There are fewer opportunities to feel the seasons .
But through the first festival of each year:
✅Feeling the arrival of spring
・Peach blossom season
・A beautiful time of fresh greenery
✅ Cherishing Japanese culture
・A beautiful custom that has continued since ancient times
・Wisdom and love of our ancestors
✅ Cherishing family ties
・Repeated confirmation of love every year
・Inheriting thoughts across generations
These can be grown naturally.
[Finally ~ Inheritance of Love ~]
The first festival is not a one-time event.
It is a confirmation of love that is repeated every year .
When children are small,
The joy of saying, "They're so cute" and "They've grown so much."
When the children grow up,
The realization that "I've poured so much love into this."
And when the children become parents,
I was prepared for it to be my turn to show my love.
Hina dolls and May dolls serve as a bridge of such love ,
For decades,
He will continue to look after your family.
[Last message from the craftsman]
I have been making dolls for 30 years.
I have witnessed the happiness of many families.
The most beautiful moment is
A grandmother holding her grandchild,
"My mom picked this doll out for me when I was a baby."
I was talking to him.
This is how love is passed on.
The Hina dolls and May dolls you chose for your beloved child today,
Even decades later,
As a symbol of unchanging love,
I hope you continue to watch over your family.
Have a wonderful time celebrating your first festival.
I sincerely pray for you.
🌸 Why not join us in creating a loving first Doll Festival? 🌸
Choose a special Hina doll or May doll that embodies your feelings for your child.
Our craftsmen, with 30 years of experience, will wholeheartedly recommend the perfect item for your family.
"I want to choose the best for this child."
We will do our best to respond to your pure feelings.
Please feel free to consult with your family first.
We will help you celebrate your child's first Doll Festival filled with love.