What is Inu no Hi? ~ Mothers praying for a safe birth and expecting their newborn baby ~ Visiting a shrine when you're five months pregnant
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What is Inu no Hi?
Praying for a safe delivery for a longing mother
Visiting a shrine when five months pregnant
"I hope the baby in my belly will be born safely..."
To you, who have such a heartfelt wish as a mother.
I am now five months pregnant and have begun to feel fetal movement.
Along with the love for my child growing inside me,
Are you starting to feel anxious, wondering, "Is everything really okay?"
What can I do to ensure this baby is born healthy?
-Is there really any meaning in visiting a shrine on the day of the dog?
As a mother, what should I do to protect my baby?
Over the past 30 years, I have witnessed the birth of over 2,000 new lives.
Celebrating the Day of the Dog with the knowledge and heart of a midwife
Based on the experiences of experienced mothers,
To the "motherly love" that resides in your heart
I will answer in a compassionate way.
"Oh, so I should just go with that mindset."
"My feelings are reaching the baby."
With such a heartwarming discovery,
We're sure you'll find a day of the dog that suits you .
What is more important than formalities and rules is
Deep love for the baby in the womb .
By the time you finish reading this article,
Feelings of anxiety turn to relief,
You will be able to approach the Day of the Dog with confidence as a mother.
The meaning and origin of Inu no Hi
Why dogs?
Prayers for safe delivery that pregnant women don't know about
Historical background and contemporary significance
"Why is the day of the dog the day to pray for safe childbirth?"
This is a simple question that many pregnant women have.
Dogs and safe childbirth.
This seemingly unrelated combination
It has a deep historical background and modern-day meaning.
First of all, why "dog"?
Dogs have long been known to give birth easily and give birth to many puppies at once.
It was known as an animal.
Even today, dog births are relatively smooth.
Difficult births like those in humans are said to be rare.
Dogs are also good at raising children.
We take great care of our newborn puppies,
The mother dog raising her pups properly is
Since ancient times, she has been praised as the "ideal mother."
The custom of celebrating Dog Day began
It is said that it actually dates back to the Edo period .
At that time, medical technology was not advanced.
Childbirth was a life-threatening event.
For pregnant women and their families
It was my earnest wish to give birth safely.
In this context, the name "dog" was chosen after dogs known for their easy childbirth.
The custom of praying for safe childbirth on the day of the dog was born.
The dog of the Chinese zodiac comes around once every 12 days.
The frequency of 2-3 times a month is
Choose a date that suits the pregnant woman's physical condition
It was also a perfect balance.
"I'm not feeling well this time, so I'll come on the next day of the dog."
This kind of adjustment is still possible today.
Let's consider the significance of Inu no Hi in modern times.
Even with advances in medical technology,
The fear of pregnancy and childbirth never goes away.
"Will the baby be born healthy?"
"Is the birth going well?"
Such worries are
It has remained unchanged from the Edo period to the present day.
It's a natural feeling as a mother .
Praying for safe childbirth on the day of the dog is
To ease these anxious feelings,
A positive feeling that "it'll be okay"
There is a role to play in nurturing.
The whole family is looking forward to the birth of the baby.
I visit the shrine with prayers.
This time,
It's also an important opportunity to strengthen family bonds .
"There's no point in having an event that's just a formality."
Some of you may feel that way.
It is true that if you don't go on the day of the dog, you won't have an easy birth.
That's not the case.
However, I hope for the safety of my baby.
By expressing it in a form,
It also brings peace of mind to the mother.
The important thing is that "it has to be done"
It's not a sense of obligation,
"I'm looking forward to meeting the baby"
"I want the whole family to have a baby"
It's a warm feeling .
2025 Dog Day Calendar
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A secret spot to avoid crowds and flexible planning to suit your physical condition
"I'm five months pregnant, which dog day should I choose?"
There must be many pregnant women who are worried as they look at the calendar.
In fact, when choosing a day of the dog,
Consideration was given to congestion and physical condition
There's a smart way to choose.
First, let's review the basics.
Dog Day is the day that corresponds to the "dog" in the Chinese zodiac.
It comes around once every 12 days .
That is, about 2.5 times a month.
There are about 30-31 dog days per year.
If you are in your fifth month of pregnancy (16-19 weeks),
You can choose from 8-10 dog days .
"But don't you have to go on the first day of the dog?"
There is no need to worry about that.
What's important is the mother's physical condition and mood .
Go when it's ready.
Rather than pushing yourself too hard and making yourself sick while you still have morning sickness,
It is better to pray in a stable and relaxed state.
That must be very meaningful.
In the 2025 Dog Day Calendar,
Here are some recommended dates :
Reasons why we recommend a weekday Dog Day:
・The shrine is less crowded
・You can pray at your own pace
Easy to secure parking
・You can also talk to the priests.
Easy to take photos
Especially on Tuesdays and Thursdays,
It tends to be relatively empty throughout the week.
If you are working,
Consider taking paid leave and visiting the shrine on a weekday.
"Visiting the temple on the day of the dog" is a great part of preparing for childbirth,
This should be easy to understand in the workplace.
How to make the most of the Dog Day on a weekend or public holiday:
If weekdays are difficult,
You can visit the shrine comfortably even on weekends and holidays if you use some ingenuity.
・First visit in the morning (8:30-9:30)
・Visiting in the evening (after 4:00 PM)
・Targeting rainy days
・Avoid the end and beginning of the month
It's especially a hidden gem on rainy days of the dog .
"Isn't it bad luck if it rains?"
Some people are worried about this,
Rain is known as "rain of blessing" and "rain of purification."
In fact, it is sometimes considered a good omen.
The shrine is also taking measures against rain.
The advantage of having fewer people is that you can pray in a more relaxed atmosphere.
Tips for choosing a day of the Dog for your physical condition:
If morning sickness persists :
Identify your physical condition and aim for the days when you feel well
When you're more likely to feel bloated :
Choose the cooler hours of the morning
When you feel tired :
Choose a shrine close to your home and get there quickly
"What if I get sick on the day of the dog we had planned?"
In that case, please don't hesitate to postpone.
It's better to push yourself and get sick than to
I'm very worried.
There are two or three dog days in a month,
Be patient and wait for the next opportunity .
Tips for managing your family's schedule:
If you would like to visit as a couple,
Let's confirm each other's schedules early.
Especially if dad can only take weekends off,
Pick the corresponding Saturday and Sunday that falls on the Day of the Dog,
It is important to plan for congestion.
"It's okay if things don't go as planned"
This is the most important mindset to have when visiting a shrine on the day of the dog.
Babies sense their mother's feelings the most.
Relax and go at your own pace
I hope you have a wonderful day on the Dog.
Complete guide to choosing a shrine for the Day of the Dog
Popular shrines that are difficult to reserve vs. hidden gem shrines
It's not just Suitengu! Recommended shrines for safe childbirth by region and tips for making reservations
"Suitengu Shrine is the place to go for dog days."
Many people probably have that image.
It is true that Suitengu Shrine in Tokyo is famous for praying for safe childbirth,
We often hear people say that it's difficult to get a reservation and that it's extremely crowded .
In fact, all over Japan,
A wonderful shrine for praying for safe childbirth that rivals Suitengu Shrine
There are a lot of them.
The important thing is "because it's famous" and "because everyone goes there"
Instead,
Choose a shrine where you can visit with peace of mind .
First, I will explain the basics of choosing a shrine.
[How to choose with distance in mind]
Long journeys are a strain on a five-month pregnant body.
Ideally, the shrine should be within an hour of your home.
"Wouldn't it be less effective at a nearby shrine?"
There is no need to worry about that.
God's power does not change depending on location.
Your sincere prayers are the most important thing.
[Shrines selected based on facilities]
The following facilities are important for pregnant women:
・Clean restrooms
Elevator or gentle stairs
・Securing parking spaces
・Space for resting
・Heating and cooling equipment
Among the popular shrines are:
There are some historic buildings with many steps.
Check the facilities on the shrine's website in advance,
Consideration for pregnant women over the phone
I recommend you inquire.
[Recommended shrines for safe childbirth by region]
Kanto area :
Suitengu Shrine (Tokyo): A relatively quiet place to visit on weekdays
・Koujinja Shrine (Saitama): Famous for its storks and easily accessible
・Awa Shrine (Chiba): Abundant nature and a peaceful place to worship
Kansai area :
・Sumiyoshi Taisha Shrine (Osaka): Relax and pray within the spacious grounds
・Nakayama-dera Temple (Hyogo): Famous for being one of the largest prayer temples for safe childbirth in the Kansai region
・Kifune Shrine (Kyoto): God of water, a healing space surrounded by nature
Other regions :
・Ise Grand Shrine (Mie): A special visit to the Inner Shrine
・Umi Hachiman Shrine (Fukuoka): Kyushu's leading shrine for praying for safe childbirth
・Kai-Komagatake Shrine (Yamanashi): Feel the powerful energy of the mountain
[Tips and tricks for reservations]
Tips for making reservations at popular shrines:
1. Check the reservation start date
Many shrines start accepting reservations 1-2 months in advance.
2. Aim for weekdays
Weekends and holidays fill up quickly, but there may be space available on weekdays.
3. Call exactly at the start time
Call at exactly 9:00 when the reception opens.
4. Take advantage of the waiting list
Many people cancel due to illness, so please register for a waiting list.
5. Prepare multiple possible dates
Prepare up to a third choice
[How to find hidden shrines]
In fact, there is a shrine loved by locals
This is often the most relaxing place to visit.
Ask your obstetrician-gynecologist
・Consult with experienced moms
・Utilize local review sites
・Check the website of the Shinto Shrine Association
Even in a small shrine,
I have been watching over pregnant women in the area for many years.
It has a warm history .
The priests listened to me kindly,
You can receive handmade charms,
Heartfelt hospitality not found at larger shrines
You will be able to receive it.
[Tips on how to spend time at a shrine]
Whichever shrine you choose,
The important thing is to pray with all your heart .
Pray with love for the baby
・Pray for the health and happiness of your family
Pray for a safe birth
・Don't forget to be grateful
Shrines are not a place for competition.
For you and your baby
Choose the best shrine
Have a peaceful day of the dog.
The truth about the Day of the Dog belly band
Iwata Belt vs. Modern Belly Band: Which Should You Choose?
Reasons for the price difference between 3,000 yen and 30,000 yen
Choosing the right belly band for pregnant women
"Is a belly band really necessary?
Prices vary widely and I don't know what to choose..."
As the Day of the Dog approaches, this is a question that many pregnant women have.
In fact, the abdominal belt has
It has a deep meaning that expresses thoughts of the baby and mother .
But at the same time, for modern pregnant women
It is also true that there are some things that are truly necessary and some that are not .
First, let's understand the historical significance of the belly band.
It has long been said that belly bands "protect babies"
It was a symbol of a mother's love .
Warms the stomach and protects the baby from the cold,
Supporting a growing belly
Its role was to reduce the strain on the mother's body.
This basic idea remains the same even today.
[What is the Iwata Belt?]
Iwata Obi receives prayers at the shrine on the day of the dog.
A traditional white cotton belly band .
"May the baby be as strong as a rock."
This wish is embedded in the name.
Prices vary depending on the shrine,
Generally, it costs around 3,000 to 8,000 yen .
Characteristics of the Iwata belt:
- Simple white cotton material
・Prayed at the shrine
-Traditional rolling method required
・It is a little difficult to wear every day
・It has a strong meaning as a talisman
[Modern abdominal belt types and features]
On the other hand, modern belly bands are designed with functionality in mind.
1. Maternity girdle type (10,000 yen - 30,000 yen)
Easy to put on and take off
Firm support for the stomach and lower back
・Reduces swelling
Easy to wear under everyday clothes
2. Belt type (5,000 yen - 15,000 yen)
・Structure that supports from under the stomach
・Size can be adjusted
Can be used until late pregnancy
・Feels less tight even during morning sickness
3. Belly warmer type (3,000 yen - 8,000 yen)
High warming effect
There is almost no tightening
Can be used while sleeping
・Recommended for those who are prone to cold
The real reason for the price difference
"Why are the prices so different?"
In fact, there is a clear reason for the price difference.
Material differences :
High-priced abdominal bands are made of organic cotton that is gentle on the skin,
Made with functional materials that absorb and wick away sweat.
Design differences :
Under the supervision of doctors and midwives,
It was created based on research into the changes in the body shape of pregnant women.
Differences in support :
Relieves lower back pain, supports the abdomen,
Its effects on improving blood flow have been scientifically proven.
But just because it's expensive doesn't mean it's good .
What's important is,
It's about what suits your body and lifestyle .
[Recommended selections based on physical condition and lifestyle]
For those who suffer from morning sickness :
We recommend a belly warmer type that is less restrictive.
There is no need to force it.
For those suffering from lower back pain :
Belt or girdle styles that offer high levels of support are effective.
Consult your doctor before making your choice.
People who are prone to cold :
Based on a belly warmer type with high heat retention effect,
Use a support belt if necessary.
For those who are working :
The girdle type is convenient as it is easy to put on and take off and does not show through clothes.
[The clever use of Iwata Obi and modern belly bands]
In fact, it is best to use both
It is the most practical for modern pregnant women.
On the day of the dog : Visit the shrine wearing an Iwata obi
Everyday life : Staying comfortable with a modern belly band
Special occasion : Feel the bond with your baby with an Iwata obi
"You have to wear an Iwata belt every day."
That's not the case.
What's important is,
It's like thinking about a baby .
[Tips to avoid mistakes when choosing a belly band]
1. Choose from stores where you can try on clothes
Your body changes significantly during pregnancy.
Try it on and check how tight it feels.
2. Check the ease of washing
You may sweat more during pregnancy.
Since it is something you use every day, it is important that it is easy to clean.
3. Adjust the size in stages
If you choose a type that can be adjusted as your belly grows,
It can be used for a long time and is economical.
[What is truly important]
If you are unsure about which belly band to choose,
Think about it this way.
"Will my baby be comfortable?"
"Will I be able to live each day comfortably?"
There's no need to go out of your way to buy an expensive abdominal belt.
Even with the 3,000 yen Iwata obi,
Even with a high-performance belly band that costs 30,000 yen,
There is no difference in the love that is put into it .
What your baby feels in your womb
It's not the price of the belly band,
Because it's a mother's warm feelings .
Market price for offerings and prayers on the day of the dog
5,000 yen? 10,000 yen?
Fees for each shrine and how to determine the appropriate amount when paying by "feeling"
"How much should I give as an offering?"
"Even if you say it's just a feeling, how much exactly?"
This is one of the most frequently asked questions regarding visits on the Day of the Dog.
I feel uncomfortable asking about money,
I want to pay a fair price for my baby.
That's what parents want.
First, let's understand the true meaning of "first fruits."
What is the first offering?
It is money that expresses gratitude to God .
How do you read "hatsuhoryo"?
Why this kanji?
"Hatsuhoryo" is pronounced "hatsuhoryo."
In the past, in Japan, the first rice harvested (first harvest) was offered to the gods.
Even though times have changed and people now offer money instead of rice,
It continues to be called "first fruits" meaning "in place of first fruits."
In other words, the money given to the shrine for shrine visits, Shichigosan, and warding off evil spirits is
It is called "first fruits" because it expresses gratitude for the original harvest .
The first offering for this safe delivery prayer is
It is a form of prayer saying, "Please protect my baby."
[Average first offering prices at major shrines across the country]
Large shrines (Suitengu Shrine, Sumiyoshi Taisha Shrine, etc.) :
・Basic fee: 8,000 to 10,000 yen
・Special prayer: 15,000 yen to 30,000 yen
・Amulet and belly band included
Medium-sized shrines (famous local shrines) :
・Basic fee: 5,000 yen to 8,000 yen
・Individual prayer: 10,000 to 15,000 yen
・Generally, it comes with a charm.
Community-based shrines :
・Basic fee: 3,000 to 5,000 yen
・Sometimes people say, "It depends on how you feel."
・Homey atmosphere
[Appropriate amount when asked to give as much as you like]
When a shrine says, "Any donation is welcome,"
It would be even more troublesome.
In fact, in this case,
The region and the size of the shrine play a major role.
Shrines in urban areas : 5,000 to 10,000 yen
Local shrines : 3,000 to 8,000 yen
Small town shrines : 3,000 to 5,000 yen
When in doubt, use 5,000 yen as a guideline.
It is almost never rude.
[How to write on a gift envelope and etiquette]
How to choose a gift envelope :
- Red and white bow (for a celebration that is always a joy)
・Five or seven Mizuhiki strings
・A prestigious item that matches the price
Inscription :
Top row: "First offering" or "Tamagushi offering"
Bottom row: Last name of the couple or joint names of the couple
Nakabukuro :
Front: Write the amount in Chinese numerals
Back: Enter your address and name
[Differences in service content based on price]
"If I pay more, will I get better benefits?"
The answer is "NO".
There is no price difference when it comes to praying to God.
The difference in price is mainly due to the difference in the **service content**.
3,000 yen to 5,000 yen :
Group prayer
・Basic amulets
・Prayer time: 10-15 minutes
8,000 yen to 10,000 yen :
Individual or small group prayer
・Belly band and amulet set
・Prayer time: 15-20 minutes
・Comes with a souvenir
15,000 yen or more :
Completely individual prayer
・Special charms and souvenirs
・Prayer time: 20-30 minutes
・Personal message from the priest
[Recommendations for choosing an amount that fits your household budget]
Preparing for childbirth costs a lot of money.
The first offerings on the day of the dog put a strain on the household budget.
This is putting the cart before the horse.
It's not the amount that matters,
It is my sincere wish for the health of my baby .
Even with a 3,000 yen offering,
Even with a 30,000 yen offering,
**The weight of prayers that reach God is the same**.
[How to reduce the first offering]
If you really want to keep costs down:
1. **Choose a local shrine**
Local shrines tend to have lower fees than famous shrines.
2. **Aim for weekdays**
There are also shrines that offer weekday discounts.
3. **Choose collective prayer**
The fee is cheaper than individual prayers.
4. **Please call in advance**
Ask clearly about the fee structure
The real points to spend money on
More important than the first fruits is
Mom's health and nutrition .
・Balanced meals
・Regular checkups
・Creating a stress-free environment
・Good quality sleep
Those who invest in these
It means much more to the baby.
On the day of the dog,
Do it within your limits.
God wants Mom to smile
You will probably be the happiest.
Dress etiquette for the Day of the Dog ~ Coordinating outfits that prioritize the health of pregnant women
Putting an end to the formal vs. comfortable attire debate! What shrines really want
"Is it rude to not dress properly on the Day of the Dog?"
"But when you're five months pregnant, you can't wear tight clothes anymore..."
This is a dilemma that many pregnant women face.
In fact, what shrines truly value is
It's not about external beauty, it's about purity of heart.
We asked a Shinto priest who has worked at a shrine for 30 years,
We will tell you the **true dress code for Dog Day**.
[The actual dress code required by shrines]
"What is respectful clothing?
It is clean clothing that shows respect for God.
It doesn't have to be an expensive kimono.
Keeping mom and baby comfortable
It’s more important than anything.”
These are the actual words from the priest.
So, the most important thing to remember when dressing for Dog Day is:
1. **Cleanliness**
2. **Consider your health**
3. **Respect for God**
This is the order.
[Recommended outfits for each stage of pregnancy]
First half of the fifth month of pregnancy (16-17 weeks) :
The belly is not yet very noticeable.
A dress or a loose blouse is recommended.
- Knee-length dress (navy or beige)
・Adjust the temperature with a cardigan
- Low heels (3cm or less) or flat shoes
・Small accessories
Second half of the fifth month of pregnancy (18-19 weeks) :
This is the time when you start to notice your belly bulge.
Maternity clothes are useful.
・Maternity dress
・Pants style with a loose fit around the waist
・Clothes made of stretch material
Completely flat shoes
[Seasonal comfort coordination]
Spring (March-May) :
・Lightweight knit dress
・Light jacket
- Breathable material at the feet
・You can wear a mask to protect against pollen.
Summer (June-August) :
・A dress made of cool material
・Parasol required
- Bring a water bottle to keep you hydrated
・Handkerchiefs and towels to prevent sweat
Autumn (September-November) :
- Adjust the temperature by layering
- Choose shoes that are non-slip
・Don't forget to bring a jacket
Winter (December-February) :
・Focus on cold weather protection
・A coat that keeps your stomach warm
・Non-slip shoes
・Prevent colds by wearing gloves and a scarf
[Clothes to avoid and reasons]
Things you definitely want to avoid :
-Miniskirts and shorts (not appropriate for a sacred space)
・Clothes with large openings at the chest (lacking dignity)
・Colors and patterns that are too flashy (lack of consideration for the gods)
・Dirty or pilly clothes (lacking in cleanliness)
Pregnant women should pay particular attention to :
- Tight clothing (risk of poor blood flow)
・High heels (risk of falling)
・Heavy accessories (causes fatigue)
- Clothes made of 100% synthetic fibers (which tend to become uncomfortable due to sweat)
[Kimono vs. Western clothing: which do you choose?]
"Is a kimono really more formal?"
Certainly the clothes are beautiful,
Clothes are **more practical** when you're pregnant.
Benefits of Kimono :
・Looks formal
・Looks great in photos
There is a special feeling
Disadvantages of Kimono :
・It takes time to put on
・It is difficult to respond when you are unwell
・It's difficult to wash the toilet
Rental costs are high
・Risk of worsening physical condition due to tightness
Nowadays, people visit the shrine in elegant clothing.
It's becoming mainstream.
The shrine also advises pregnant women to wear clothes.
In fact, there is a lot to recommend it.
[Survey of actual worshipper fashion]
When we looked into the actual attire at popular shrines, we found:
Clothing: 85%
・Kimono: 10%
・Other: 5%
Outfit breakdown:
・One Piece: 60%
・Blouse + skirt: 25%
・Blouse + pants: 15%
Because clothing is overwhelmingly the majority,
"I'll stand out if I'm not wearing a kimono."
There is no need to worry about that.
[Coordination with Dad]
Recommended attire for couples visiting the shrine:
If mom is wearing a dress :
Dad: Jacket and chinos or slacks
If mom is wearing a blouse and skirt :
Dad is wearing a shirt and jacket
Common points :
- Match the colors (use similar colors)
・Ensuring a high level of formality
- Color selection with photography in mind
[What to wear when you're feeling unwell]
If you have morning sickness or are feeling unwell,
**Not overdoing it** is the top priority.
・Please wear loose clothing when visiting the shrine
- Layered clothing that makes it easy to regulate body temperature
Ready to sit down immediately
・The courage to finish early
God is most concerned about your health.
More than appearance,
Don't overdo it .
It's the most thoughtful thing.
[A truly important outfit]
Finally, the most beautiful outfit to wear at a shrine is
**Mom's smile**.
Rather than expensive clothes and perfect makeup,
Thinking about the baby in my belly
A calm and happy look ,
It is the highest respect to God.
Relax,
Have a day of the dog that suits you.
[What to do when you're feeling unwell] A complete solution if you can't go to the Day of the Dog
The right decision to postpone or visit the shrine by proxy in the event of morning sickness, poor health, or COVID-19 infection
"I got sick on the day of the dog..."
"My morning sickness is so bad I can't go out"
"I feel so sorry for the baby that tears come to my eyes."
That feeling of blaming myself,
I understand that very well.
But what your baby wants most is
It's important that mom doesn't push herself too hard .
In fact, pregnant women who cannot go on the day of the dog
The reality is that it's **more common than you might think**.
According to statistics from one shrine, approximately 20-30% of reservations
Cancelled due to ill health.
So you're not alone .
[Options if you are not feeling well and cannot attend on the Day of the Dog]
1. Postpone (best option)
The safest and most reliable option is to wait until the next Dog Day.
"But I'm already five months pregnant..."
There is no need to worry about that.
Praying for safe childbirth on the day of the dog is
**Must be 5 months pregnant**
There is no absolute rule.
Even at 6th and 7th months of pregnancy
There is absolutely no problem.
2. Ask someone to visit the shrine on your behalf
This is a way to have a family member visit the shrine on your behalf.
It is accepted by many shrines,
**As a choice that prioritizes the health of mothers**
The priests are also understanding.
3. Pray with sincerity at home
If you can't go out at all,
Praying quietly at home is also a great way to pray for a safe delivery.
God is not a place,
He sees the purity of heart .
[Specific methods for proxy worship]
Points to remember when requesting a proxy visit:
Who to ask :
・Spouse (highly recommended)
Parents or parents-in-law
・Siblings
A trusted friend
Contact the shrine in advance :
"My pregnant wife is not feeling well, so I would like to visit the shrine in her place."
If you tell them honestly, they will gladly accept it.
Requests to representatives :
・Receive prayers in the name of the pregnant woman
・Receive a belly band and amulet
・Photography (if possible)
・Listen to a message from a Shinto priest
[Criteria for determining when morning sickness is severe]
Symptoms of morning sickness vary greatly from person to person,
**Never overdo it**.
Symptoms for which postponement is strongly recommended :
Vomiting multiple times a day
I can't even take in water
・It's hard to stand
・Feeling sick when traveling by train or bus
Sensitive to smells and difficult to go out
Symptoms that may be possible for a short period of time :
- Feeling unwell only in the morning or evening
・Feeling unwell only when hungry due to morning sickness
・Mild nausea
However, even if it is "possible,"
Please make your physical condition on the day your top priority .
[What to do in case of COVID-19 infection or fever]
If you have symptoms of an infection,
Please don't hesitate to postpone.
This is also a consideration for those around us,
It's also to protect the mother and the baby.
Symptom-specific responses :
・Fever (over 37.5 degrees): Immediately postpone
・Cough, sore throat: Postpone recommended
・Close contacts: Postponed until PCR results are obtained
・If a family member has symptoms: Postpone as a precaution
The shrine is also placing importance on infection prevention measures.
Postponement due to poor health is a natural decision.
They will accept it.
[How to organize your mind if you postpone]
"I'm sorry about the baby"
That's how I feel,
It's a sign of a loving mother .
But think about it.
The baby in the womb is not being supported by the mother
Do you want to get sick?
surely,
**"Mom, don't push yourself. I'm fine."**
They will probably say,
Postponement is not giving up.
It's a wise decision to protect both the baby and the mother .
[How to pray for safe delivery at home]
If you absolutely cannot go to the shrine
How to pray at home:
What you will need :
・Clean place
Quiet time
・Water (for purification)
- White cloth or towel (symbol of purity)
Prayer Instructions :
1. Cleanse your hands
2. Sit quietly
3. Place your hand on your stomach
4. I sincerely hope for the baby's health.
5. Express gratitude
5-10 minutes is sufficient.
The most important thing is to put your heart into it .
[Recommendation for visiting the shrine after recovering from illness]
Once you've recovered,
Please visit the shrine again.
The worship at that time was
**A feeling of gratitude that "I've recovered safely"**,
**Please continue to protect me**
You can put it in.
It doesn't have to be on a day of the dog.
The day you wanted to go
It's the best day.
[Message from a senior mom]
"I also had terrible morning sickness and couldn't go on the day of the dog.
I blamed myself a lot and cried a lot.
But when I was seven months pregnant and feeling better,
My husband and I were able to visit the shrine at our own pace.
At that time, I was able to be truly grateful,
I also felt a strong bond with my baby.
I'm really glad I didn't push myself too hard."
Being unwell is not your fault.
**Don't blame yourself**,
With baby
Let's wait for the time to come.
How to avoid crowds on the Day of the Dog ~ A stress-free visit to shrines
Differences in crowds between weekdays and weekends and holidays, and visiting times that are convenient for pregnant women
"The shrine on the day of the dog was so crowded that I got tired..."
"The parking lot was full, so we had to walk a long way."
"The wait was so long, I'm getting hungry"
The visit to the shrine on the day of the dog was a waste.
What can cause stress
It's very unfortunate.
In fact, with a little ingenuity
You can avoid the crowds and visit the shrine comfortably.
The most important thing for pregnant women is
Offer prayers with a calm mind .
I will show you the specific ways to do this.
[The overwhelming difference between weekdays and weekends and holidays]
First, let's look at the congestion situation in numbers.
Weekday Dog Days :
・Number of visitors: About 30-40% of Saturdays and Sundays
・ Parking lot waiting time: almost none
・Waiting time for prayer: 10-20 minutes
・Photography: Take your time
・Conversation with the priest: Possible
Dog Day on Saturdays, Sundays, and public holidays :
・Number of visitors: 2.5-3 times the number on weekdays
・Parking wait: 30 minutes to 1 hour
・Waiting time for prayer: 1-2 hours
・Photography: Avoiding people
・Conversation with the priest: Difficult
The difference is overwhelming.
If possible, **a weekday dog day**
I highly recommend it.
[Congestion patterns by time period]
On weekdays :
8:30-10:00: Available (recommended)
10:00-12:00: Slightly crowded
12:00-14:00: Temporarily crowded during lunch break
14:00-16:00: Relatively empty
16:00-17:00: Open in the evening (recommended)
On weekends and holidays :
8:30-9:30: Relatively quiet (best time to visit)
9:30-12:00: Very crowded
12:00-14:00: Peak hours
14:00-16:00: Slightly crowded
After 4:00 PM: Things calm down a bit
[Optimal worship schedule for pregnant women]
Best time: First thing in the morning on a weekday
・Time: 8:30-9:30
・Advantages: Few people, cool, secure parking
・Note: Please check the opening hours
Best time #2: Weekday evening
・Time: 16:00-17:00
・Advantages: Before the fatigue of the day sets in, and the sunset is beautiful
・Note: It gets dark early in winter
Best time 3rd place: Right after the gates open on Saturday and Sunday
・Time: 8:30-9:00
・Advantages: It is relatively empty even on weekends
・Note: You need to get up early
[The best hidden spot on a rainy day]
"Should I avoid rainy dog days?"
In fact, it's the best hidden spot on a rainy day.
Rainy day benefits :
The number of visitors falls to less than half
・The shrine's atmosphere is more mystical
・It is considered auspicious as "purifying rain"
・People are not included in the photo
・You can talk at your own pace with the priests
Things to note on rainy days :
Choose non-slip shoes
・Bring a large umbrella
・Prepare a change of clothes in the car
Bring plenty of towels
[Tips for securing a parking space]
Parking measures at popular shrines:
1. Check out the place beforehand
Check the surrounding parking lots before your planned visit.
2. Check out nearby coin parking lots
Even if the shrine parking lot is full, there are other options within a 5-10 minute walk.
3. Consider public transportation
If the shrine is close to a station, it may be easier to take the train.
4. Arrive early
Arrive at the location 30 minutes before the scheduled time
[Personal belongings list for a comfortable visit]
Basic items to bring :
・First offering (in a gift envelope)
・Maternal and Child Health Handbook
・Health insurance card
・Cell phone (for emergencies)
・Small change (offerings, parking fees)
Comfort items :
- Small cushion (for sitting)
・Bottled water
・Candy or cookies (to prevent mild hypoglycemia)
・Handkerchiefs and tissues
・Camera (smartphone is OK)
Seasonal additions :
・Summer: Parasol, cooling sheet, salt tablets
・Winter: hand warmers, blankets, hot drinks
[How to manage your health when it's crowded]
If you absolutely must visit during a busy time:
Signs to not overdo it :
I felt bloated
・I felt dizzy when I stood up
I felt short of breath
I felt sick
If you experience these symptoms,
**Take a break now**.
Shrines always have rest areas.
Please feel free to use it.
[Consulting with shrine staff]
"I'm worried about my health during pregnancy"
When you tell the reception:
・You may be given priority
・You will be told where to rest
・Explain what to do if you are unwell
・Wheelchair rental (depending on the shrine)
There's no need to be shy.
Pregnant women are special beings ,
The people at the shrine will also give you a warm welcome.
[Best timing for taking photos]
If you want to take a commemorative photo:
Choose a time when there are fewer people around :
Between prayers
・Timing of worshippers' movements
・Lunchtime
Photography tips :
・Be aware of the background
・Keep a natural smile
・Hands on stomach pose
・A photo with dad
[The most important mindset]
Techniques for avoiding crowds are important,
Most importantly
**Don't push yourself too hard**.
Even if things don't go as planned,
Even if there are many people,
Even if the wait is long,
The baby in the womb
Make sure mommy is relaxed
I am most pleased.
Dog Day is not a competition.
At your own pace
Please stay calm.
Day of the Dog with Dad and Family - Should we go as a couple? Or with my mother-in-law?
How to decide who will participate in the Dog Day event and how to divide roles to smoothen family relationships
Who should I go with on the Day of the Dog?
"My mother-in-law wants to go with me, but..."
"My dad can't take time off because he's at work, and it would be lonely to go alone."
The participants of the Dog Day event are:
It's a surprisingly delicate issue.
The whole family can participate comfortably,
Furthermore, it is the most relaxing place for pregnant women.
I will suggest a way.
[Statistics on modern participation patterns on Dog Day]
When we looked into the actual composition of worshippers, we found:
・Couple only: 45%
・One pregnant woman: 25%
・Family including parents: 20%
・Large family including parents-in-law: 10%
The results showed that **only married couples** were the most common.
In other words, "we all have to go together."
This idea is in the minority these days.
[Advantages and disadvantages of celebrating Dog Day with Dad]
Benefits of visiting as a couple :
・You'll feel like you're welcoming a baby together
・Dads become more aware of their role as fathers
Immediate support when you are unwell
・Easy to take commemorative photos
・You can share the emotion of prayer
What to do if Dad can't attend :
・Get paid leave on weekdays marked with the year of the dog
・Wait until the day of the dog on Saturday or Sunday
・Mom visits the shrine alone and reports back later
・Requesting proxy worship
"Dad can't come because he's at work = not enough love"
That's not the case at all.
**Working hard**,
It's an important preparation for welcoming a baby.
[Dog Day with In-Laws: Building a Good Relationship]
When my mother-in-law said, "Let's go together,"
How should I respond?
Benefits of in-law participation :
・Strengthening family ties
・Advice from an experienced person
・You may be able to have the cost covered
I can feel the love for my grandchildren
Disadvantages of in-law participation :
・I'm tired of being so careful
・You can't visit the shrine at your own pace
- Pressure on clothing and etiquette
・I can't find time for my husband and wife
[How to politely decline without causing offense]
If you want to avoid visiting with your parents-in-law:
Health reasons :
"My morning sickness is still there and my physical condition is unstable,
This time, I would like to keep it short and just the two of us together."
Suggestions for next time :
"My husband and I went on the Day of the Dog,
Would you like to come and pray with me again once you enter the stable period?
Thankfully, I explain :
"I'm very happy about your feelings,
This is my first pregnancy and I have a lot of anxiety,
This time, let's just take our time to worship together."
[Dog Day with my mother and father]
Visiting the shrine with my parents
Generally, it's easier than with in-laws.
Tips for those traveling with their parents :
Don't hesitate to tell me how you're feeling
If you get tired, ask for a break
・You can be entrusted with taking photos
・Listen to stories of past childbirth experiences
However, my biological mother
If you tend to compare things to "when I was..."
It can also be stressful.
"Because times are different"
It is also important to be mentally prepared to let it go.
[Tips for worshiping alone]
"Is it lonely to visit the shrine alone on the day of the dog?"
In fact, there are great benefits to visiting alone.
Benefits of visiting alone :
- Completely self-paced
・You can concentrate on communicating with your baby in the womb
・You can go home immediately if you feel unwell
・Not caring about others
You can offer prayers quietly
Tips for enjoying a solo visit :
・Pray while talking to your baby in your belly
・Take a commemorative selfie
・Slowly enjoy the atmosphere of the shrine
After returning home, report the details to your family.
[Family role sharing plan]
When visiting with multiple people
Ideal division of roles:
Daddy's Role :
・Driving a car
・Luggage carrier
・Support for health management
·photo shoot
・Preparing the first offering
Role of mother-in-law and mother-in-law :
・Share your experiences
・Etiquette instruction at shrines
・Explanation of the amulet
・Storage of souvenirs
The role of stepfathers and fathers :
・Securing parking spaces
・Stand in line
・Transporting heavy objects
・Waiting in the car
[Pre-meeting is important]
Whoever you go with,
**Advance consultation** is the key to a smooth visit.
Things to check :
・Meeting time and place
・Transportation means
Lunch plans
・Cost sharing
・How to contact in an emergency
・Consideration for the health of pregnant women
[Precautions to avoid problems]
Common problems and solutions :
Problem 1: Being criticized for your clothing
Tips: Discuss your attire in advance
Problem 2: Frustrated by waiting times
Solution: Create a flexible schedule
Problem 3: Awkwardness over the cost
Countermeasure: Clarify cost sharing in advance
Problem 4: Disagreements over photography
Tips: Discuss the poses you want to take in advance
The most important idea
The most important thing about visiting a shrine on the day of the dog is
**It helps pregnant women relax**.
It's not the right answer to go with the whole family,
Being married isn't the only right answer.
The shape that makes you feel most comfortable
That's the correct answer.
"I want everyone to be happy."
That feeling is also important,
What your baby wants most is
**Mom's peace of mind**.
Don't hesitate to
Please let us know your wishes.
Is the Day of the Dog for the second child and beyond the same as for the first?
Experienced mother talks about the change in her feelings after praying for safe delivery for the second time
"Should I celebrate my second dog day the same way as I did my first?"
"It doesn't feel as special as the first one... is this normal?"
In second and subsequent pregnancies,
You may experience completely different emotions.
It's not that love has faded,
It's a sign of your growth as a mother.
I actually experienced the second and third day of the dog.
When I listened to the voices of experienced mothers,
There were a lot of unexpected realizations.
[What changes with the second Dog Day]
Changes in mood :
・"This time I have the time."
・"I'm worried about my older child"
"I have less anxiety about giving birth"
"But this is my first child."
・"A child with a different personality from the older child"
Actual change :
・Smooth preparation
・Don't be confused about what to wear
・Know the proper etiquette at shrines
・Know the key points of photography
・But I'm worried about where to leave my older child.
[Second-child mom's true feelings]
"To be honest, as much as with the first one,
There was no sense of excitement.
But after the worship service was over,
"This child is important as this child"
The feeling of "I want to do this" came back to me again,
Unlike the first one,
I could feel the deep love ."
(Ms. A, 36 years old, pregnant with second child)
[Should I visit the shrine with my older child? Or separately?]
This is a point that many moms struggle with.
Benefits of bringing older children :
・The feeling of welcoming the baby together as a family
・Older children should be aware of their role as "big brother" or "big sister."
・You can take commemorative photos with the whole family
・Older children can also experience the sacred atmosphere
Disadvantages of bringing older children :
・Being at the mercy of the older child
I can't pray quietly
- Health management becomes complicated
・Preparation takes time
[How to deal with older children by age]
For children aged 0-2 years :
・We recommend depositing your luggage.
・If you absolutely have to be together, do it in a short time.
・Bring a stroller
・Make sure you have diapers and milk ready
・Be prepared to leave immediately if you cry
For children aged 3-5 :
・Confirm your appointment at the shrine in advance
Practice being quiet
Bring only one favorite toy
・Check the location of the toilets in advance
Distract yourself with candy or sweets
For ages 6 and up :
・Talk about babies before visiting the shrine
・Explain the roles of "older brother and older sister"
・Please ask for a camera operator
・Promise fun after worship
[Things to be careful about because it's your second child]
1. Don't compare your child to your first child
"I was more careful with the first one..."
Even if you feel like that,
That's natural.
Having experience means
Knowing what is truly important .
The reason why we can prioritize feelings over formalities is
It's about growing as a mom.
2. I feel that this child is unique.
Just because it's the second one,
It's not that I have little love.
This baby in my belly,
It is the only one of its kind in the world .
On the day of the dog,
It is also a day to confirm individual affection.
3. Don't forget to be considerate of older children.
After worship, I also gave it to my older child.
Say "thank you" and "good job."
As a baby brother or sister
Acknowledge your efforts.
[Dog Days for the third and subsequent children]
"As expected, the third person is used to it."
But then I made a new discovery.
Thoughts from a third-time mother :
"For the first time on the third day of the dog,
"I've become a proper mother."
I was able to truly feel this.
The first one was desperate, the second one was flustered,
Finally with the third child
I was able to pray with peace of mind .
Gratitude to this child,
Gratitude for the upbringing I have had so far
At the same time, they emerged,
I couldn't stop crying."
(Ms. B, 39 years old, pregnant with her third child)
[Dog Day as you get older]
Pregnancy at age 35 or older:
You will also experience different emotions than with your first child.
The special features of Inu no Hi for women giving birth at an advanced age :
・I have a strong desire to "cherish this opportunity"
At the same time, I feel anxious about my health.
・The wish for "to be born safely" is more earnest
・The more life experiences I have, the deeper my gratitude is.
[Issues regarding amulets and belly bands for second and subsequent children]
"What about the amulet and belly band for the first child?"
Option 1: Buy new
・A commemorative item for this child
・Siblings should have different shrines
・Create a special feeling
Option 2: Use your older child's
- Feel the bond between siblings
・Reduces financial burden
・The meaning of "protecting it together as a family"
Neither is wrong.
Choose according to your feelings .
[Observe the changes in your dad too]
On the second and subsequent dog days,
The changes in dads are also interesting.
First Dad :
I'm nervous
・I don't know what to do
・Anxiety and expectations about becoming a father
Second or subsequent dad :
・Calm
・Can also care for older children
・The joy of having a new family member
-Good at caring for mom
I can feel my dad's growth,
Second and subsequent dog days
It's a **hidden delight**.
Advice from an experienced mom
"Just because it's the second child,
It's not that we're cutting corners.
Because I know what's really important
It just eliminates waste.
Feelings over form,
Mental preparation is more important than appearance.
This can be done by
It's a testament to my experience and growth as a mom.
With confidence,
Celebrate the Day of the Dog in a way that suits you."
For the second and subsequent dog days,
You can feel a deeper maternal instinct.
It's a special occasion.
[Q&A] Frequently asked questions about Dog Day and how to solve them
We've got everything covered, from how to balance work and family life, what to do in the rain, and how to handle your amulets.
"I have a lot of small questions about Dog Day, but I don't know who to ask..."
For such pregnant women,
**Actual frequently asked questions** and their answers
I have summarized it.
Even the smallest doubts can be resolved
It will make you look forward to Dog Day even more.
Q1: Is it unreasonable to take a day off work on the day of the dog?
A: It's not insane at all.
Visiting the shrine on the day of the dog is a great way to prepare for childbirth.
It is understood in many workplaces,
This is a valid reason to take paid leave.
For important family events
If you explain that it is for preparation for childbirth,
I'm sure you'll receive a warm welcome.
Rather, **Mom's mental preparation**
It has a positive impact on work efficiency.
Q2: Should we postpone the rainy Dog Day?
A: Rain is a "rain of purification" and a "rain of blessing."
In fact, it is considered to be **auspicious**.
The shrine is also fully equipped with rain protection.
Another benefit is that there are fewer visitors, so you can pray at your own pace.
However, the health and safety of the mother comes first.
Avoid slippery shoes
Bring a large umbrella
No problem.
If a typhoon or heavy rain warning is issued,
Don't push yourself and postpone it.
Q3: Do I have to wear a belly band every day?
A: There is no need to wrap it every day.
What's important is your **feelings for your baby**.
Nowadays, highly functional
Maternity girdles are better
It's often practical.
Iwata belt is perfect for special occasions,
When you want to feel a bond with your baby
The idea of using it is enough.
**Mom's comfort**
It is the most important prayer for an easy delivery.
Q4: How long should I keep the amulet?
A: Generally, within one year after giving birth.
Many people keep it until the shrine visit.
After that, you can either return it to the original shrine,
I will keep it as a treasured keepsake.
Some say "until the child becomes an adult."
"Put it in your school bag"
Some people will treasure it for a long time.
There is no correct answer, so
Follow your feelings.
Q5: Can I visit the shrine on days other than the day of the dog?
A: Of course.
The Day of the Dog is just one guideline.
A good day, a good day,
You can visit on a day when you feel like it.
This is the most meaningful prayer for safe delivery.
God is not a date,
You are seeing **sincerity**.
Q6: Is it rude to ask for change after giving the offering?
A: As an offering at the shrine
There is no concept of "change."
If the price is fixed
It is good manners to prepare the exact amount.
If you are told "how you feel,"
The amount you think is appropriate
It's fine if you pay it.
Check the fees with the shrine in advance.
That's reassuring.
Q7: Can I take photos freely?
A: The rules vary depending on the shrine.
We recommend that you check in advance.
In general:
・Commemorative photos taken within the temple grounds: OK
・Photography during prayer: Not permitted
・Photography inside the main hall: by the shrine
・Flash photography: Use it sparingly
Please remember to be considerate of other worshippers.
Q8: From what week of pregnancy can I visit the shrine?
A: There are no medical restrictions.
Generally, this occurs around the fifth month of pregnancy (16-19 weeks),
From the time when morning sickness subsided
You can visit any time until the end of your pregnancy.
What's important is **Mom's health**.
Don't push yourself too hard, just do it when you're in good health
Let's go and worship.
Q9: If my dad can't attend, can I go alone?
A: Visiting alone is also a great option.
In fact, 25% of pregnant women
He is worshipping alone.
With the baby in my belly
As a time for quiet conversation,
It will be a very special experience.
If you are worried, please contact the shrine in advance.
About "Visiting alone"
Please feel free to consult us.
Q10: If I am giving birth at my hometown, which shrine should I visit?
A: **Either is fine**.
At the local shrine where you live,
At the shrine where I returned home,
Please choose the one that is easiest for you to go to.
"I want the local gods to protect me."
"I want to visit with my family"
Make your feelings your priority.
Q11: What should I be careful of when visiting a shrine on the day of the dog during the COVID-19 pandemic?
A: You can visit the shrine as long as you take sufficient infection control measures.
・Wear a mask
・Hand disinfection
・Choose a time to avoid crowds
・Postpone if you are unwell
・Consider online prayer
Shrines are also taking measures to prevent infection.
**Mom and baby's health** is our top priority.
Q12: Should I visit the shrine on the day of the dog after experiencing a miscarriage or stillbirth?
A: It's a very delicate issue,
Many people are hoping that this time it will be the best.
It is worshipped.
Because of past experience,
**Deeper gratitude and wishes**
You can tell God.
When you're ready,
Please visit at your own pace.
God will always listen to your feelings.
Please understand.
Q13: Are special considerations required for twins?
A: Just because they're twins
There are no special fees or procedures.
However, please be more careful in managing your health.
Avoid standing for long periods of time
・Take frequent breaks
・Clothes that take into consideration the weight of your stomach
・Visit the shrine with an accompanying person
Being pregnant with twins is a special blessing.
I'm sure God is special too
He will protect you.
Any small question,
By solving
You will have a peaceful day of the dog.
If you have any concerns,
Please feel free to consult with the shrine.
Experiences of Senior Moms x Expert Advice ~ The True Value of Dog Day
Feelings are more important than formalities! Learn the principles of praying for safe childbirth from real experiences
What does the Day of the Dog actually feel like?
"Does it really make sense?"
For pregnant women who have such questions,
**Senior moms who have actually experienced the Day of the Dog**
We deliver real voices.
And with the expert advice of midwives,
Let's discover the true value of Dog Day.
[Testimonial 1: A mom who is exhausted from striving for perfection]
Mr. C (28 years old, first child)'s experience :
"At first, I was excited and wanted to make it the perfect Day of the Dog.
Rent a kimono, book a visit to a famous shrine,
I called both my parents...
But on the day itself, my morning sickness came back.
The clothes are uncomfortable,
I'm tired of caring about everyone,
I couldn't concentrate on the important part of praying.
"It wasn't supposed to be like this"
Tears started to come...
But the priest
"What's important is the love you have for your baby."
He gently called out to me.
That was the first time,
Feelings are more important than form
I truly understood that.”
Comment from the midwife :
During pregnancy, your physical condition changes easily,
Things often don't go as planned.
"I have to do it perfectly"
Pressure becomes stressful,
It may even have a negative effect on your health.
Mommy being relaxed ,
It's the best environment for the baby."
[Experience 2: A mom who visited the shrine alone and had a special time]
Mr. D (32 years old, first child)’s experience :
"My husband couldn't come because of work,
At first, I thought, "Will I be lonely?"
But when you actually visit,
Time alone with my baby
It felt very special.
"Let's do our best together from now on"
As I walked,
Even during prayer
"I hope you're born safely."
I said this in my mind many times.
When I felt the baby move on the way home,
"The baby came with me too."
I thought,
I wasn't alone
It was a strange feeling ."
Comment from the midwife :
"The baby in my belly,
He senses his mother's voice and emotions.
Time to speak quietly,
It's a precious opportunity to strengthen the bond between mother and child .
A unique experience that can only be gained by visiting alone
This deep connection is
It also has a positive effect on childbirth and child rearing.
[Experience 3: A mom who made an unexpected discovery while visiting the shrine on a rainy day]
Mr. E (35 years old, second child)’s experience :
"It rained heavily on the day of the dog that we had planned,
I wondered if I should postpone it.
However, the time I could leave my older child with her was limited, so
I decided to visit the shrine in the rain.
When I arrived at the shrine,
We were the only worshippers.
The sound of rain,
In the grounds enveloped in silence,
I felt like my soul was cleansed.
The priests also took their time
Please pray politely,
"Rain is a purifying rain, a blessing rain."
These words have stayed in my mind.
From the first time
It was a Day of the Dog that will stay in my heart forever."
Comment from the midwife :
"Rather than the environment or conditions,
The mother's state of mind is important.
In a calm environment
If you can pray with all your heart,
This is the ultimate prayer for safe delivery.
Like E.
An unexpectedly beautiful experience
Sometimes we meet."
[Story 4: A mom who repeatedly postponed her work due to poor health]
Mr. F (29 years old, first child)'s experience :
"I had terrible morning sickness,
The Day of the Dog was postponed three times.
"I'm sorry about the baby"
"Maybe I won't be a good mom"
I just keep blaming myself...
When I finally got to visit the shrine at seven months pregnant,
When I consulted with the priest,
"It's important that moms don't push themselves too hard.
It's the best prayer for an easy delivery."
He said that to me.
The guilt that had been there
I felt lighter all of a sudden.
Although it was late,
It was a visit that I could truly be grateful for,
Now I'm glad I postponed it."
Comment from the midwife :
"Management of physical condition during pregnancy
Things don't always go as planned.
"The Courage to Postpone"
**A sign of great motherhood**.
Correctly assess your physical condition
You took action to protect your baby.
Have confidence.”
[Story 5: A mom who deepened her bond with her mother-in-law on Dog Day]
Mr. G (30 years old, first child)’s experience :
"I don't have a good relationship with my mother-in-law,
To be honest, I felt a bit down about the invitation on the day of the dog.
But while I was praying, my mother-in-law
They were concerned about my health,
"When I went, I went alone."
I heard that story,
My mother-in-law is also a woman
I had the same worries.
I finally understood it.
On the way home
"I'm looking forward to seeing my grandchildren's faces"
When he said that,
This person also loves the baby.
I feel it from my heart...
Dog Day deepens family ties
It was a catalyst.”
Comment from the midwife :
"Pregnancy and childbirth
It's also an opportunity to reassess family relationships.
Focusing on the baby in the womb,
With everyone facing the same direction,
A new form of family emerges."
[Experts talk about the true value of Inu no Hi]
Comment from obstetrician-gynecologist Dr. Tanaka :
"From a medical perspective,
There is no direct effect from visiting a shrine on the day of the dog.
However, the psychological effects cannot be ignored.
A sense of security, family ties,
The beginning of my awareness as a mother...
All of these are
**These are factors that lead to a good birth**.
Without being bound by formality,
To spend time peacefully
It’s more important than anything.”
Comment from midwife Yamada :
"Over 3,000 people in 30 years
I have been present at births,
The mothers who truly enjoyed the Day of the Dog,
**A positive attitude towards childbirth**
I often have it.
It's not so much the "effect" of the Day of the Dog,
**I was able to spend my pregnancy feeling like myself**
I think it's a reflection of that."
[The true treasures you can get on Dog Day]
What can be seen from the experiences of experienced mothers
**The true value of Inu no Hi**:
1. **Bonding time with your baby**
2. **Discovering new family relationships**
3. **Growing confidence as a mother**
4. **Realizing the power to overcome difficulties**
5. **Reaffirm your gratitude**
These are no matter how expensive the abdominal belt or
You can't even buy it at famous shrines.
It's your own treasure.
On the day of the dog,
It's not a perfect ritual.
Love for the baby in your womb
**A day to check again**.
And walk as a mother
It's our **first anniversary**.
Have a uniquely your own Day of the Dog
Please enjoy it to your heart's content.
Finally, with love for the baby
Thank you for reading this article to the end.
thank you.
We have provided you with a lot of information about Dog Day,
The most important thing is
"Deep love for the baby in the womb."
Not bound by formalities or rules,
How to keep you calm
Have a great day of the dog.
The baby being born
I hope you are healthy and happy.
And you, the mother-to-be
I hope you can greet the day of your birth with a smile.
I'm rooting for you from the bottom of my heart.