What do your husband's parents do to celebrate Children's Day?

The Boys' Festival, the first Boys' Festival, is an important day to pray for the healthy growth of boys.

My paternal grandparents don't just give me congratulations,
They will be happy if you offer them your heartfelt support .

It is important to work together with the maternal side to prepare for the celebration and to participate in the celebration to deepen your bond with your grandchildren.

Celebrating as a family while respecting the May dolls prepared by maternal relatives deepens bonds between family members.

On this day, the whole family thinks about their grandchildren's future,
It's an irreplaceable time that will engrave your love in your heart .

The average amount of money given as a gift for the Boys' Festival varies depending on the region and the family, but it is roughly between 30,000 and 100,000 yen .

The gift of money is a token of hope for the grandchild's healthy growth.

Be sure to be considerate of your maternal grandparents, but do not be overly considerate.
It's important to maintain a balance between the two families .

Such considerations unite the whole family and make the first Doll Festival even more fulfilling.

Another good way to celebrate the first Boy's Festival is to give a gift appropriate for the festival.

Since May dolls are often prepared by the mother's family,
For paternal grandparents , items that will make Children's Day events even more enjoyable, such as name flags, balcony carp streamers, and indoor carp streamers, would be good choices .

The ideal time to give a gift is after the equinox,
It is important to consult with your spouse so that your preparations do not overlap with those of your mother's family.

Koinobori come in a wide range of sizes and prices, from 20,000 yen to over 100,000 yen.
Also check the size and design you want .

The timing of the gift money is also important.

Giving the gift approximately one month before preparations for the first festival begin will help the mother's side with the preparations .

If you are giving it at a dinner party on the day, it is best to give it when the family is gathered together.

We also pay attention to how to write the envelopes for congratulatory money.

This will convey your sincerity by conveying the message as "Hatsu-Sekku Congratulations" or "Tango no Sekku Congratulations."

A modest but celebratory gesture,
Conveying your desire to watch over your grandchild's happiness will make the first Doll Festival even more wonderful.

To celebrate the first festival, it is customary to have a dinner party with the whole family.

Here,
How you behave as a paternal grandparent is very important .

Respecting the May dolls prepared by the mother,
Parents are expected to be truly happy about their grandchild's first Doll's Festival.

By spending time with your grandchildren at a meal and adding a few words of prayer for their growth, it will be a moment that will bring a smile to the whole family's faces .

By sharing the Boys' Festival,
They will also be remembered by their grandchildren as important family members.

When giving a gift of money for a first festival, be careful about how you choose and write the gift envelope .

For the Boys' Festival gift money, we use red and white bow-knotted Mizuhiki.

The inscription on the front should read "Congratulations on your first Boys' Festival" or "Congratulations on the Boys' Festival."

By adding a carefully selected envelope and a message of congratulations,
I can clearly convey my gratitude and prayers to my grandchildren.

By observing these rules, you can show your sincerity and consideration as grandparents .
It will help the whole family to celebrate this day with care.

If your paternal grandparents who live far away are celebrating the first Doll Festival, it is important to find a way to convey your congratulations since you cannot meet in person .

Another good idea is to send a gift or money by mail and then share the celebration over a video call on the day.

Also, by giving something that can be displayed every year, such as a carp streamer,
Even though we are far apart, I can feel my child growing with each passing day .

By expressing our deep love for our grandchildren in a tangible form,
Even if you live far apart, the distance between your hearts will be shortened.

The first Boys' Festival is an irreplaceable day when the whole family prays for the healthy growth of boys.

Paternal grandparents should also pay attention to the appropriate amount of money, gifts, timing and manners .
Think of it as an opportunity to create heartwarming memories with your grandchildren.

If you have the desire to watch over your children as they grow up healthy, the bonds between family members will naturally become stronger .