How to inherit, dispose of, offer memorials for, discard, and collect May dolls, armor and helmet decorations, and warrior dolls

A complete guide to inheriting, disposing of, offering memorials for, discarding, and collecting May dolls and helmet ornaments

1. What is the meaning of May dolls and helmet ornaments? Can they be passed down or inherited?

The meaning of displaying a May doll for your precious son

I think every parent wants their child to grow up healthy and happy.

May dolls and helmet ornaments are important protective decorations that embody these feelings.

Since ancient times, there has been a custom of decorating armor and helmets on the Boys' Festival to pray for the health and happiness of boys.

This comes from the fact that samurai once wore armor and helmets to protect themselves in battle.

It embodies the parents' wish to protect their children from disaster and illness .

Reasons for displaying May dolls and helmet ornaments

• May dolls are meant to be "charms" to protect against disasters and illnesses .
• To pray for healthy growth ... I pray that they will grow up strong and healthy.
• To deepen family bonds ... we give shape to our feelings for children and pass on traditions.

What kind of May doll should you choose?

There are several types of May dolls.

kinds	Features
Armor and helmet decorations	It only displays armor and helmets. It expresses the wish that the child will grow up strong and robust.
warrior doll	A doll type with a face and wearing a helmet or armor. It gives a warm and friendly impression.

A list of compact and stylish May dolls

2. Is it okay to hand down May dolls and helmet decorations?

Are hand-me-downs the right choice for my son?

If your family has a helmet ornament that has been passed down for generations, should you inherit it?

Many people may be wondering whether they should get a new one.

The May doll has the role of taking on the misfortune of the child as a substitute ,

Ideally, it would be best to welcome a new one for each individual.

This doll has the meaning of "protecting my child."

Regarding giving away items that have already been used by others,

You need to think carefully.

Reasons why hand-me-downs should be avoided

• May dolls are meant to take on the misfortunes of individuals ... Many families think, "For my son, I want protection just for him."
• It is believed that the "spirit" of the child resides in old dolls, so it is best to get a new one if possible.
• If the item has deteriorated or is dirty due to age , it is best to avoid using the old item as is.

When hand-me-downs are okay

• When you want to cherish the feelings of your family ... For example, "I want to pass on the helmet that my grandfather cherished to my grandchild as a protection."
• If the item is in good condition and has been carefully stored , one option is to remake or purify it and use it again.
• If you want to purify it and welcome it with a new feeling ... You can display it with peace of mind by having it purified and exorcised at a shrine.

The most important thing is to make the best choice for your child .

If you feel that "it would be more reassuring to have something new,"

It would be better to buy a new one.

On the other hand, if you feel that "this helmet is filled with family history and feelings,"

Another option is to purify it and then pass it on to future generations.

Checkpoints when inheriting a May doll

Check the condition of your May doll

• Is there any dirt or mold? → Wipe it clean and take care of it.
• Is it damaged? → If it is damaged, check if it can be repaired.
• Are there any signs of insect damage or strange odors? → If the item has been stored for a long period of time, check thoroughly.

May dolls are a physical representation of the love we have for our children.

• Hand-me-downs are sometimes considered a no-no, but the most important thing is the family's feelings.
• Whether you are adopting or inheriting a pet, both are loving choices.
• It is important to choose the best shape for your child.

3. When should you purchase a new May doll or helmet decoration?

How to choose the right May doll for your child

May dolls are displayed during the Boys' Festival.
This is an important decoration that prays for your child's healthy growth and protection from evil spirits .

Some families have handed down their traditions for generations, but sometimes it is preferable to adopt a new one.


So, in what cases is it appropriate to upgrade?

Main cases where you should purchase a new product

• Birth of the first child ... The May doll is said to "take on the child's misfortunes," so ideally, one should be prepared for each child.
• Worried about hand-me-downs ? You may be reluctant to inherit something that has taken on the bad luck of its previous owner.
• Old dolls are deteriorating ... If they have mold, damage, or faded colors due to years of storage.
• Not suitable for living environment ...Old May dolls are often large and may not be suitable for modern housing conditions.

The benefits of getting a new May doll

• It will become a "charm" just for your child ... Choosing it from scratch just for your child will make it even more special.
• You can choose a size and design that suits modern homes ... There are plenty of compact designs and designs that blend in with your interior.
• You can cherish it for a long time without worrying about damage or deterioration ... Because it's brand new, you can watch your child grow in a clean condition.

Points to consider when choosing a May doll

When buying a new May doll, please consider the following points:
You can make a more satisfying choice.

1. Size and display location

• Storage space : Large armor decorations are impressive, but you need to make sure you have enough storage space.
• Display space : If you are displaying it in a tokonoma alcove or living room, choose a size that fits the space.

2. Design Preferences

• Traditional items ... authentic armor and helmet decorations.
• Simple things ... compact types and modern designs.

3. Budget

• The price of May dolls varies depending on the material and size.
• Since it is something that you will cherish for a long time, prioritizing quality is also an option.

Chapter Summary

Getting a new May doll for your child is a
This will be an important milestone that will give us hope for healthy growth in the future .


Choose the one that best suits your home and lifestyle
Choose a May doll that you can cherish and display for a long time.

4. How to dispose of May dolls and helmet ornaments | All options for memorial services, disposal, and collection

Things to consider when giving away your May dolls

May dolls have been watching over the growth of children.

"I no longer have the opportunity to display it" "I want to get rid of it but I don't know how"

Some of you may be wondering, ``What should I do?''

May dolls are not just decorations,

"They are beings who take on your child's misfortunes and watch over their safe growth."

So it's important to choose the right way to let go.

How to dispose of May dolls and helmet ornaments

1. Hold a memorial service at a shrine or temple and dispose of it

May dolls are important items that have watched over children's growth .

Therefore, the ideal way to let go is to hold a memorial service and give thanks.

• Ask a shrine or temple that performs doll memorial services ... There are shrines and temples across the country that accept memorial services for May dolls.
• Cost of doll memorial service : Generally, it is around 3,000 to 10,000 yen, but it varies depending on the shrine or temple.
• How to apply for memorial services : You can bring it in person, or you can also apply by mail.

2. Use a specialized doll memorial service

Recently, for those who cannot bring their offerings directly to shrines and temples,

There are also an increasing number of services that accept memorial services by mail .

By using a company that specializes in doll memorial services, even those who live far away can perform memorial services with peace of mind.

• You can apply online ... Simply apply on the website and send it to the specified address to complete the process.
• A memorial certificate may also be issued ... Some companies will issue a certificate that the memorial service has been completed.
• The cost is around 5,000 to 15,000 yen ... It depends on the memorial service method and the size being handled.

3. Dispose of it according to local government rules

If you dispose of it without holding a memorial service,

You must dispose of it in accordance with your local government's waste disposal rules .

However, classifications vary by region, so be sure to check beforehand.

• Dispose of as burnable or non-burnable waste ...Small items can often be disposed of as "burnable waste."
• Dispose of as bulky waste ... Helmet ornaments and large items may be treated as bulky waste.
• Sorting may be necessary ... Depending on the material, such as glass cases, separate processing may be required.

4. Consider recycling, donation, or pickup

If you think, "It's a waste to throw it away" or "Couldn't it be reused somewhere?"

Another option is to consider thrift stores or donating .

• Recycle shops, online auctions ...If the item is in good condition, it may be possible to buy or sell it.
• Donations to welfare facilities and overseas aid organizations ... May dolls, which are made to pray for the growth of children, are sometimes donated as part of support efforts.
• Manufacturer/retailer collection services : Some manufacturers may offer collection services for old dolls.

Things to do before giving up your May doll

Before you give up the May doll that you have treasured for many years,

I recommend preparing with gratitude in mind .

• Take commemorative photos ... Take family photos and preserve memories.

5. Memorial services for May dolls and helmet ornaments | Complete explanation of when, where, and average costs

Is it necessary to hold a memorial service for May dolls?

May dolls have watched over children as they grew up.

Many people probably wonder how to let go of something when it has served its purpose.

May dolls are said to "take on bad luck and pray for happiness for the family."

Therefore, when disposing of it, it is common to hold a memorial service and express gratitude .

When should you hold a memorial service for May dolls?

There is no set time for memorial services, but most people perform them at the following times :

• When your children grow up and no longer decorate ...that's when you no longer have the opportunity to decorate.
• When moving or organizing your house ... When your living environment changes.
• After the Boys' Festival ... After the celebration is over, a memorial service is held once the role has been fulfilled.

By holding memorial services for May dolls at important milestones, you can send them off with gratitude for all they have done .

Places accepting donations

Memorial services for May dolls are accepted at shrines, temples, and specialized businesses .

1. Memorial service at a shrine or temple

• Memorial services at shrines : Some shrines accept memorial services such as "Doll Memorial Services."
• Memorial services at temples : Some temples specialize in doll memorial services, and sometimes hold joint memorial services.
• Bring it in person or mail it in ... You may also be able to choose between bringing it in or mailing it in.

2. Use a specialized doll memorial service

• A memorial service provider operating nationwide ... Applications can be made online.
• Requests can be made by mail ...Memorial services are carried out at temples affiliated with the memorial service provider.
• In some cases, a memorial certificate may be issued ... There are also services that allow you to receive a memorial certificate.

Average cost of memorial services for May dolls

The cost of the memorial service will vary depending on where you request it.

Method of memorial service	Average cost
Memorial services at shrines and temples	3,000 yen to 10,000 yen
Doll memorial service specialists	5,000 yen to 15,000 yen
Participating in the joint memorial service	Free to 5,000 yen (depending on the temple or shrine)

The cost of memorial services varies depending on the policy of the shrine or temple.

We recommend that you check in advance.

Things to note when requesting a memorial service

When requesting a memorial service, please check the following points to ensure a smooth process.

• Do I need to apply in advance ? The method for accepting memorial services varies depending on the shrine or temple.
• Can applications be submitted by mail ? If you live far away, check whether applications can be submitted by mail.
• How to dispose of accessories other than the doll , such as glass cases and display stands.

Before applying for a memorial service, it is a good idea to check the procedure and reception method in advance .

Reference article about disposal of May dolls

Chapter Summary

May dolls are important objects that watch over children as they grow up.

When letting go, it is important to express gratitude through a memorial service .

• Memorial services are accepted by shrines, temples, and specialized companies .
• The most common times to hold a memorial service are when the decorations are no longer displayed or after the Boys' Festival .
• The average cost is around 3,000 to 15,000 yen .

Let's hold a memorial service in an appropriate way to express our gratitude for all that has been done.

6. What to do before disposing of May dolls and helmet decorations | How to preserve memories and remake them

Things to consider before giving up your May doll

We display May dolls every year, hoping for the growth of our children.

When thinking about getting rid of something, many people probably feel that it is filled with memories and they can't easily get rid of it.

May dolls are ``important objects that have watched over children's growth.''

When considering disposal, it may be a good idea to think about ways to preserve your memories or use them in new ways.

How to preserve memories

Before you let go of your May doll, here are some ways to preserve its mementos:

• Take commemorative photos ...Take a photo of your family with the May doll and keep it in an album.
• Save some of the decorations ... Use parts of the helmet or decorations as interior décor.
• Write down memorable episodes ... Look back on and record memories of Tango no Sekku as a family.

In particular, by keeping photos and videos, you can look back on these precious memories as a record of your child's growth even after you have given up the May doll.

Remake ideas for May dolls

May dolls can be remade and put to use in new ways.

If you think it would be a waste to throw it away or would like to incorporate it into your home, why not consider the following methods?

1. Use helmets as interior decoration

• Displaying the helmet on its own ... Prepare a simple base and display it in your living room or study.
• Put it in a case and turn it into an object ... Put the helmet in an acrylic case and it will become a compact piece of interior decor.

2. Remaking May Doll Fabric and Decorations

• Make accessories using the fabric from the costumes ... Make pouches and amulet bags using May doll costumes.
• Repurpose a display stand into a storage box ... A wooden display stand is remade and used to store small items.

3. Processing into amulets and accessories

• Part of the helmet is turned into a pendant top ... Metal decorations are made into accessories.
• Make a cloth charm bag ... Use it as a charm to pray for your child's growth.

By remaking them, you can incorporate memorable items into your everyday life and feel a sense of family bond .

Things to think about before you let go

If you are unsure whether to dispose of your May doll, it may be a good idea to consider the following points.

• Are you sure you'll regret getting rid of it ? If you have an attachment to it, there's no need to force yourself to let it go.
• Listen to the family's opinions ...Confirm the feelings of the parents and the child themselves.
• Another option is to hold a memorial service for the item and then let it go ... Another way is to hold a memorial service with gratitude.

Before you decide you have no choice but to dispose of it, it's important to consider options such as remaking and storage, and choose the method that suits you best .

Chapter Summary

May dolls are important objects that watch over children as they grow up.

Before you throw something away, we recommend considering ways to preserve the memories and options for remaking it .

• Take commemorative photos, keep some of the decorations, and keep your memories in a tangible form.
• Helmets can be used as interior decorations or by remaking the fabric.
• Talk to your family and carefully consider whether you really want to let it go.

If you are wondering whether to dispose of your items or if you want to leave something behind,

Please discuss this with your family and choose the best option.

7. Collection service for May dolls and helmet ornaments | Where can I collect them?

Can I have my May dolls taken?

"I want to get rid of my May doll, but is there anywhere that will take it?"

Many people may be wondering, ``Why is this happening?''

May dolls are believed to take on the bad luck of children,

Regular recycle shops often refuse to take them .

However, by using specialized collection services and donation organizations,

It can be given a new role .

Places where you can collect your May dolls

If you want to get rid of your May doll, you can use the following collection services.

1. Specialist companies that provide memorial services and disposal

• A service specializing in doll memorial services ... They will dispose of the dolls properly after the memorial service.
• Nationwide service provider ... Applications can be made online and service can be provided by mail.
• Average cost : 5,000 to 15,000 yen.

2. Recycle Shops and Flea Markets

• If the item is unused or in good condition, there is a possibility that it may be purchased ... However, recycling shops often refuse to buy it.
• Selling on flea market apps or at auctions ... you can give them to someone who needs them.
• The price is often low ... "Give it away for free" is common.

3. Donations to overseas aid and welfare organizations

• Donations to developing countries ... There is an activity to donate dolls to children overseas in the hope of their development.
• Donations to children's homes and welfare facilities ... Some facilities also accept May dolls.
• You will need to check with the donation organization in advance ... It's a good idea to inquire about the acceptance conditions.

4. Collection services from retailers and manufacturers

• Pick up at the store where you purchased the doll : Some stores offer a service where they will pick up your old doll when you purchase a new one.
• Manufacturers are recycling-friendly : Some companies recycle and reuse dolls.
• Please check in advance ... Not all stores and manufacturers offer this service, so please inquire.

Things to note when using the collection service

When requesting collection of your May doll, please check the following points to ensure a smooth process.

• Check the collection conditions ... Not all May dolls may be eligible.
• Are there any shipping or handling fees ? If you send by mail, there may be costs involved.
• Check how the remains will be handled after collection - make sure you know whether they will be reused or disposed of after the memorial service.

It is important to inquire in advance and let go in a way that you are satisfied with .

Chapter Summary

There are several ways to collect your May doll.

Choose the method that suits your family, such as memorial service, recycling, donation, or collection from the manufacturer .

• If you ask a memorial service provider, they will dispose of the remains properly after the memorial service.
• You could also sell them at a recycle shop or flea market, but you'll often be turned down.
• Another option is to take advantage of collection services offered by donation organizations or manufacturers.

A May doll that has been displayed with great care.

Let go in the right way, with gratitude until the very end.

8. Frequently Asked Questions (Q&A) | Resolving questions about inheriting May dolls and helmet ornaments, how to dispose of them, offer memorials for them, and how to throw them away

Frequently asked questions about May dolls

We have compiled some questions that many people have about May dolls and helmet decorations.

We will answer any questions you may have about inheritance, disposal, memorial services, and how to discard.

We'll help you make the best choice for your family.

Q&A | About inheritance

Q1. Can May dolls be shared between siblings?

A. May dolls are said to take on the misfortunes of the child as a substitute .

Therefore, ideally, one should be prepared for each person.

Depending on your family's preferences, you may be able to share it.

By providing name tags and amulets for each sibling, they can be given individual protection.

Q2. Can I give my grandchild a May doll that was inherited from my grandparents?

A. There is nothing wrong with passing it down from generation to generation,

Because May dolls are said to "take on the misfortunes of individuals,"

It is advisable to purify and offer prayers for the deceased before passing it on.

We also recommend checking older dolls for damage or stains , and repairing or cleaning them as necessary.

Q&A | Disposal and Memorial Services

Q3. Do I need to hold a memorial service when disposing of a May doll?

A. Memorial services are not necessarily required,

May dolls are important items that have watched over children's growth.

We recommend that you hold a memorial service at a shrine or temple before disposing of the item .

Q4. Where can I hold a memorial service for May dolls?

A. They are often accepted at shrines and temples as part of their "doll memorial services."

There is also a doll memorial service that can be applied for online.

Some companies offer nationwide shipping by mail.

Q5. How much does a memorial service cost?

A. The estimated costs are as follows:

Method of memorial service	Average cost
Memorial services at shrines and temples	3,000 yen to 10,000 yen
Doll memorial service specialists	5,000 yen to 15,000 yen
Participating in the joint memorial service	Free to 5,000 yen (depending on the temple or shrine)

The cost of memorial services varies depending on the location, so we recommend checking in advance.

Q&A | How to dispose of and collect

Q6. Can I throw away May dolls as regular trash?

A. It is possible to dispose of it if you follow the rules of your local government.

We recommend cleaning it before throwing it away .

Before disposal, wipe it with a white cloth and purify it by sprinkling salt on it.

It would be good to express your gratitude by saying, "Thank you for watching over me until now."

Q7. Is there a place that will take my May dolls?

A. Your item may be collected in the following ways:

• Shrines and temples that hold doll memorial services
• Specialized doll memorial service
• Recycle shop (good condition only)
• Donations to welfare facilities and overseas aid organizations
• Manufacturer/retailer collection service

However, not all facilities accept it.

It is important to inquire and check in advance .

Chapter Summary

You may have many questions about May dolls and helmet decorations.

Understand how to inherit, dispose of, offer prayers for, and collect, and choose the best option.

• If sharing with siblings, prepare individual name tags etc.
• When disposing of it, consider memorial services and choose an appropriate method.
• If you wish to collect the item, please inquire in advance to see if this is possible.

It is important to see off your precious May doll in a way that you are satisfied with.

9. Summary | Inherit or Let Go? Make the Best Choice for Your Family

When you don't know what to do with your May doll

May dolls are important items that watch over the healthy growth of children and contain the thoughts of the family.

However, when you no longer need to display it, many people will wonder whether they should pass it on or let it go.

There are four options: "inherit," "serve as a memorial," "donate/recycle," and "dispose of."

Inheriting a May Doll

Another option is to pass it on as a family tradition.

However, when doing so, please consider the following points:

• Cleanse and welcome to new owner
• Repair and clean old parts
• Respect what your child wants to inherit as "theirs"
  
  

▶ Learn more about the key points to consider when inheriting

When giving away your May doll

If you no longer have the opportunity to display it, you can choose to let it go.

In that case, you should choose to offer it as a memorial, donate it, recycle it, or dispose of it .

• ▶ Consider holding a memorial service (at a shrine, temple, or specialized service)
• ▶ Consider recycling or donating (welfare organizations, recycle shops)
• ▶ Dispose of according to local government rules (bulk waste/burnable waste)

To make the best choice

• Thinking, "There's no need to dispose of it by force"
• Talk to your family and choose a solution that suits you
• When you let go, say "thank you"

There's no need to force yourself to let go.

Think about it and decide whether you really want to let it go.

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summary

May dolls are not just decorations,

"It is a precious presence, filled with the love of your child and family."

Whether you inherit or give up,

The most important thing is to "cherish our feelings."

• ▶ See points to note when inheriting
• ▶ Check the details of the memorial service
• ▶ Learn how to recycle and donate
• ▶ Check your local government's disposal methods

"Thank you for watching over me until now."

With that feeling in mind,

Make the best choice for your family.